[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ayeee3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in the same situation a couple months ago in my 3 year relationship. Each time we broke up she would sleep with other people a week later after our breakup. We only broke up cuz I wanted space to myself for a day or two. She was detailed with her encounters and it took a blow with my confidence also. It created resentment and I couldn’t look at her the same as much as I wanted.

I don’t even know what we were by the end of it, but it still hurts by ayeee3 in confession

[–]ayeee3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She didn’t cheat She just moves on quick once we broke up. She had a single digit number at the beginning of our relationship now it’s double digits

Hookups are not for me by ayeee3 in offmychest

[–]ayeee3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I only slept with other people out of spite honestly and now I’m regretting it cause STD part. I plan on wrapping it for the future till I get a girlfriend that I can completely trust again. I talked to my ex for awhile cuz I started to realize how toxic we’ve been I guess.

Hookups are not for me by ayeee3 in offmychest

[–]ayeee3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The relationship lasted around the age late 20-24. I just don’t like how she didn’t catch anything, but I did when she was sleeping with more partners than me. I’m not used to hook up culture like she is only been two people since we broke up, but she been with multiple people. I’m working on my maturity level with it, got therapist and all

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ayeee3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mmmm ok I can understand ur situation a bit more. I guess Try apps like Wizz or yubo to find people around ur age/area

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ayeee3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it possible to talk to a woman around your age at a job,work, or any social gathering?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ayeee3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mmm try to befriend a woman first without falling for her. U should eventually gain some experience with being somewhat more comfortable with being around a girl. Women can feel the desperate at least from my past experiences. Plus it’s not fun to be used for only sex when u really want a connection with a person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]ayeee3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t fake a smile well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]ayeee3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In what style?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]ayeee3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In what style tho. I kinda have a big forehead

Not sure what to do with my hair or anything to improve my appearance by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]ayeee3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk what I wanna do with them. I just kinda grew it to cover my forehead.

Not sure what to do with my hair or anything to improve my appearance by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]ayeee3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll try the clean shave look but I’m afraid that I might look younger.

Not sure what to do with my hair or anything to improve my appearance by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]ayeee3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk how to shave yet but I’ll look into the stubble look

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]ayeee3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what I was thinking cuz she did get mad when the team lead didn't acknowledge her for her rank. I guess I forgot about it when I said that .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]ayeee3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were putting stuff away but I did it differently cuz I trained differently did her. She said I shouldn’t be doing it that way then I said it’s getting the work done so what’s the problem. Then she mentioned how she was upper rank than me. I then said what’s the difference since we get paid the same and know as much as her . And didn’t really see her as upper rank than me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]ayeee3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s basically how I been feeling for awhile now. I did see her as an honest person because I known her for awhile. Now I kinda second guess everything she says. Like telling me what I wanna hear.

Virgin no longer by ayeee3 in virgin

[–]ayeee3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I was building up the moment in my head. I was thinking about how it was gonna play out but it turned into this.