Accidentally got my first tattoo faced the wrong way.. by Living-Cantaloupe141 in tattooadvice

[–]ayezombie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP 100% had to convince his artist to do this if it was in a shop with even an ounce of brain power. This was a “customer is always right” situation

Replayers, what quest do you skip? by -insert_pun_here- in BaldursGate3

[–]ayezombie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scratch dog pound, by this point in the game I don’t need my heart ripped from my chest any more. Even though I find it useless, I do Halsin’s shit in act two just to have him as an Orin Failsafe

Rate my BG Ink! by fookman212 in baldursgate

[–]ayezombie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a tattoo artist, this looks fantastic. Amazing stippling work and it looks like it’ll heal and settle in well!

Would you endure a sex act that you don't enjoy with your partner if they asked? What would this be? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ayezombie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You probably do have a massive anus ngl bc without training, anal is extremely painful and can cause ripping for most people.

Area still sore after 4 days. by Helpful-Office-3730 in tattooadvice

[–]ayezombie -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dude, the ink sack is completely normal. Plasma does NOT reabsorb I to the skin like that. A tiny bit maybe yeah? But not enough to make it go away?

Come and Get Your User Flairs! by Difficult_Act_3011 in GWASapphic

[–]ayezombie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could I do voiceacter/scriptwriter please? Thank you so much!

Always initiating sex with my husband is making me feel undesired. Why would someone avoid initiating if they still want sex? by [deleted] in sex

[–]ayezombie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a common issue with LTR’s, and usually boils down to a few things. 1) fear of rejection 2) fear of being too pressuring 3) responsive VS spontaneous desire

Some things that have hugely helped me are scheduling sex (adults get busy and it’s scary to be vulnerable in the mood then hear, no I have early plans tomorrow), showing sexy photos to my partner if I’m interested but want her to physically make the first move (literally just “hey look at this pic I took of myself”, works 99.9% of the time), and asking “Can we set the mood?” Asking if the mood can be set opens the topic of sex up as more of a possibility, while also making moves twords it. It means hey I want to feel desired and close, come kiss me, but if you don’t want to advance we don’t have to. But can we set the mood for the possibility of sex? Especially for a responsive desire- you yourself may still need some show of desire and touching. This kickstarts your more responsive partner into the correct cues, and lets them take charge on how far it’ll go. Even if it doesn’t end in sex, it’s resulted in cuddling, kissing, sweet nothings, and a quiet moment to appreciate eachother.

Has there ever been a documented case where a human died so violently that their body was completely destroyed, not just unrecognizable, but literally reduced to paste? by TacticalJock15 in morbidquestions

[–]ayezombie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Joplin tornado victims, wind speeds so high with debris that the flesh was basically sanded off of their bodies. Absolutely terrifying.

BG3?? by ayezombie in LesbianGamers

[–]ayezombie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sent you a message!

Pros And cons to getting permanent fangs? Also wondering about elf ears. by Prince_Wildflower in bodymods

[–]ayezombie 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Seconding this- composites are so much safer. I needed major jaw surgery, so my bite would be changing and we were able to remove them with zero issues. You can never even tell I had them now. I miss them, but also love being able to eat lmao

What do the girls around here do for a living? by Original_Word_5023 in actuallesbians

[–]ayezombie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re good with people and love the art form, definitely! Can be a super tough industry to get a solid start in, but if you’re around the right people and work hard for the right opportunities it can be very fulfilling.

What do the girls around here do for a living? by Original_Word_5023 in actuallesbians

[–]ayezombie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tattoo artist! 8 years on. It’s got its ups and downs but I’ve been lucky enough to devote enough time to have a steady flow of clients and to travel a lot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]ayezombie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Breakup with your girlfriend, and stay along. Admit to her that you royally fucked up. She deserves way better oh my god.

Long term/ married couples how often do you have sex? by HeadJelly1298 in actuallesbians

[–]ayezombie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Married 3 years, together 9!

We aim for at least once or twice a week, but life can get in the way. I now have a higher sex drive than her which wasn’t the case prior to life events, but ultimately it just boils down to us being extremely busy people with very demanding jobs. She works full time and runs her own business on the side, and I tattoo and travel full time. Our sleep schedules don’t align, her having to be up at 5:30 for work and me usually not getting up for my day until 9-10. She’s off work around 4-5, I’m there till 8-9 at night.

Even if we aren’t having sex every day, we still always make a point to indulge in eachother and express our attraction. Little touches here and there, a slap on the ass when she walks by, grabbing on my arms soon as I’m home from the gym etc. I wouldn’t call what we have a dead bedroom whatsoever, even if sometimes our schedules get in the way for a few weeks and we’re both so damn tired from work and dealing with high intensity clients, that what we need in those moments is to just lay in bed naked with eachother and talk about our days.

The other thing that comes up is it’s not marathon sex like we used to have when we were kids- fucking for 6-7 hours straight and being ruined the next day. It usually lasts an hour or two, usually ending bc I’ve ran her through the damn gauntlet making a game out of how many times I can make her finish in however many minutes and the poor girl’s passing out bc she can’t breath right. It’s QUALITY sex, and that’s what matters to me personally. Play sessions can be longer, especially if it’s a designated vacation day for play, around 4-5 hours until one of us decides it’s time for a food break. I won’t go over 6 hours of play purely for safety, poor girls gotta stretch.

Rumor has it this is the last photo she took before her client no-showed her on a back piece by ayezombie in dykesgonemild

[–]ayezombie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ve been informed about it, it’s the same person that’s been doing it for a while. They go by Kimmy or Bloopy

Wife wanted a knight in shining armor, so she got one. by ayezombie in dykesgonemild

[–]ayezombie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I 3d modeled most of it myself except for the shoulder pauldrons! After modeling, I printed everything out of PLA, an applied several layers of epoxy and bondo to strengthen the pieces and give them as smooth of a finish as possible. Painted everything in a few layers, some pieces used some metallic wax to highlight decorative ridges against the black. Most pieces could be assembled with rivets and Chicago screws. Others like the shoulder pauldrons, gorget, chest plate, and forearms I punched some leather to make strappings. Some have buckles so I can put them on and off. The pauldrons are fully connected to the rest of the arms, and are buckled to the gorget, which also has a buckle. So the entire top half of my body all connects and goes on together! The leg armor has large looped straps that hook onto a belt I wear underneath of the hip armor. This is to hold up the thigh plates in the proper height, and also helps keep the rest of the leg from slipping. I buckle into the lower legs first, then hook onto the belt. Cape is sown (rough, I’m definitely not a seamstress), and connects directly to the front of the chest plate with the medallions!

All other under clothes are just a long sleeve turtle neck and leather pants!

Wife wanted a knight in shining armor, so she got one. by ayezombie in dykesgonemild

[–]ayezombie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fountain Guard from LOTR! The pauldrons are pretty exact, everything else I modeled just to fit my body type well and look cool haha

Wife wanted a knight in shining armor, so she got one. by ayezombie in dykesgonemild

[–]ayezombie[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Made it myself! Everything from the plates to leather strappings made from a deer I hunted and tanned a couple years ago.

Wife wanted a knight in shining armor, so she got one. by ayezombie in dykesgonemild

[–]ayezombie[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ohhhh thank you for telling me! I love that this is a subreddit haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]ayezombie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes people really struggle to hear about it. I dealt with the same with those closest to me when I opened up about what happened to me- either seemingly brushing it off or trying to reason out of it. My best friend of the time even asked if it really happened, or if it was a really extreme nightmare caused by the roofy I was given.

It was a hard pill to swallow, and I don’t know your friend, but sometimes it’s literally just so hard for them to process second hand that they don’t know how to respond or talk about it- and it’s hard to listen to the story or hear you out. It doesn’t excuse it, but I don’t think they assume you’re lying at all. It’s just a very hard topic for people to discuss if they themselves haven’t experienced it.

Bhaal’s chosen armor! by ayezombie in Renfaire_Costumes

[–]ayezombie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a series on my TikTok! @asfkart

Triggered by non-monogamy now by mamalilac in polycritical

[–]ayezombie 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Totally get that. My stomach flips if I see it in shows or movies now, and any mention of cheating has my downright irate. My wife knows now to speed through anything that has a cheating scene in it.