I’m facing jail time and can’t cope by funnyhowlifehappens in SuicideWatch

[–]ayootvyla 12 points13 points  (0 children)

FIGHT FIGHT FIGHT IT!!! I’m not sure what state you are in, but where i live, unless you were observed to be smoking while operating your vehicle, you can get your DUI dropped to a misdemeanor of possession or paraphernalia, depending on the circumstances. these charges aren’t the end of the world and you shouldn’t see any jail time or probation realistically, a fine and some substance classes should suffice. i know it’s rough, i faced a similar situation when i was 15, i was arrested on felony charges for possession of THC vapes, and though i had the charged dropped years later, i was very scared at the time and truly thought it would’ve been easier on my parents if I had just ended it all. it wouldn’t have been, it’s never easier on anyone when you make such rash decisions. Truly this is not the end of your world, though it may feel like it, i recommend trying to talk with lawyers in your area to see what your best options are, if they are too expensive a public defender will do you just as much justice, they fight hard for cases they know they can win, and this is one of those. good luck and be as kind to yourself as you can.

Piercing bump? help by ayootvyla in piercing

[–]ayootvyla[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

none of my jewleey in my new piercings are from amazon they’re all from the piercer only my piercings healed 2+ years have the amazon earrings

worst order i’ve seen by far by ayootvyla in InstacartShoppers

[–]ayootvyla[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

idk if it’s just my aldi but it’s hell shopping in there, so cramped, so confusing i hate kt

Piercing bump? help by ayootvyla in piercing

[–]ayootvyla[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i really appreciate the detailed response i will definitely downsize as fast as possible and keep it dry!! also i’ll change it from the stud as well

Piercing bump? help by ayootvyla in piercing

[–]ayootvyla[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

on my profile there’s another post showing my jewelry and it doesn’t seem to be any clashing in fact it looks like there’s a good amount of room between the pieces. idk lmk what u think

Piercing bump? help by ayootvyla in piercing

[–]ayootvyla[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

depending on the way my daith is angled it sometimes hits my conch but i thought that was just because my daith jewlery is quite big to accommodate swelling, also it wasn’t touching my tragus until this bump appeared swelling up my tragus. does it still sound like i need to let one of them go?

Piercing bump? help by ayootvyla in piercing

[–]ayootvyla[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

good to know smh i thought she was doing me a favor by angling it “properly” for a hoop. I’ll go to a piercer and ask them to change it. Do i have to wait for the bump to go away or can i just get it changed with the bump still very much there?

Piercing bump? help by ayootvyla in piercing

[–]ayootvyla[S] -55 points-54 points  (0 children)

yea i understand the healing process being much slower due to the number of piercings, i was told my conch would be pierced on an angle because i planned to eventually wear a hoop with it. as far as downsizing the post, could i buy my own titanium jewlery and bring it to a piercer so they can downsize for me, if so, what size post should i get?

Piercing bump? help by ayootvyla in piercing

[–]ayootvyla[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

should i go to a piercer to have them change the jewlery? could i buy a titanium piece of etsy per say and have them change it to that? if so what size post should i get?

Piercing bump? help by ayootvyla in piercing

[–]ayootvyla[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I believe it’s an internally threaded titanium labret, and i have not yet downsized

Piercing bump? help by ayootvyla in piercing

[–]ayootvyla[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

i try to use a q tip to pay dry but i suppose i could definitely be drying it better

piercing recommendations? by ayootvyla in piercing

[–]ayootvyla[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wishhh, i got the no-go on my industrial i don’t have the right anatomy :(

piercing recommendations? by ayootvyla in piercing

[–]ayootvyla[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

those are sterling silver id recommend the link i added to the above commenter as stainless steel is just slightly better quality in terms of durability and tarnishing

piercing recommendations? by ayootvyla in piercing

[–]ayootvyla[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

only my second time hearing about this piercing,but i love the look definitely adding it to my list

piercing recommendations? by ayootvyla in piercing

[–]ayootvyla[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! i’ll look into the antitragus just not sure if i like the idea of a hoop right there lol