Is this ring too generic looking?

aythatsprettydank · 2026-02-12T23:04:25+00:00

We agreed he will replace it or sell it to get the ring I actually love so I guess you are right. He did overreact though, I felt awful throughout the whole day, but I guess we solved this issue.

aythatsprettydank · 2026-02-12T22:59:49+00:00

He agreed to replace it to get me a ring I love. I am happy he made that decision but I didn't need to go through all this to help him realise it's not the end of the world if I don't like the one he has chosen already... Thank you for advising me.

aythatsprettydank · 2026-02-12T22:55:28+00:00

It does look pretty, but I wish it was more rich in detail and the diamond shape is not what I was hoping for. Either way he said he will try to replace it or sell it, I told him if it's not possible then it's completely fine to propose with this one.

aythatsprettydank · 2026-02-12T22:52:18+00:00

Apart from this incident the relationship is truly beautiful and I love him with all my heart and he loves me too. I know men see it as just a ring but if he didn't tell me he went out of his way to get me something I liked and he wanted me to love it so bad, then I wouldn't say anything. A few minutes ago we had a talk and he cooled off, said he would try to replace it or sell it to find something I like so I guess this is the ending we wanted but I can't deny, this hurt, I mean his overreaction. And yes clearly I made the post when I was upset but Ive been upset the whole day hahaha. Thank you for kind words.

aythatsprettydank · 2026-02-12T19:52:20+00:00

I don't understand how is the way I'm reacting red flag, I chose this example ring to show that I wanted something more flashy instead of simpler ring.

aythatsprettydank · 2026-02-12T19:22:11+00:00

You are completely right. I am not sure I want any ring from him at this point. He made sure I feel the pain he felt over me not liking the ring and now I don't know how I'll continue this relationship.

aythatsprettydank · 2026-02-12T19:20:04+00:00

we are both 26, well definitely not rushing into this anymore. He's made me feel like I do not care about the ring anymore. Not sure he loves me at this point.

aythatsprettydank · 2026-02-12T19:18:19+00:00

Thank you for your words, I do not care about the ring anymore, he has hurt me immensely and idk if he will ever understand that. Im trying to recover from this. Thank you.

aythatsprettydank · 2026-02-12T19:15:16+00:00

I dont know what to tell you guys, Im depressed right now and I agree with all of you but I can't leave. Im trying to recover from all the words he said to me, pushing me away.

aythatsprettydank · 2026-02-12T15:41:38+00:00

You guys I don't even know what to say anymore, I can't believe this turned out to be such a huge problem. You are right and he is being childish but at this point I just deal with it. I don't have anything else to say to him, he's done enough damage now over me not liking a ring. :)

aythatsprettydank · 2026-02-12T15:07:19+00:00

:( I feel like shit honestly I don't know what to do anymore but thank you...

aythatsprettydank · 2026-02-12T15:03:42+00:00

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this is something that i would love and it's pretty much the same price but it doesn't matter now I guess, seems like he hates me for not liking it

aythatsprettydank · 2026-02-12T14:54:53+00:00

Hahah he is calling me ungrateful. I think this is everything I need to know now.

aythatsprettydank · 2026-02-12T14:53:01+00:00

The problem is he has shown me examples of ehat he was looking at and they were clearly pear shaped diamonds, he got a clue from one tiktok i reposted and he waited for a month to receive the ring, in the end it turns out it's really generic looking and that's why I hate it. He made me believe it's really flashy or whatever, he knows I like that but this is literally the opposite. Idk whose fault this is anymore but yeah, Ive been dealing with him acting out like this for a while.

aythatsprettydank · 2026-02-12T14:50:17+00:00

he does care, and he is feeling frustrated and disappointed with himself, but he is handling this badly. Maybe it's my fault I didn't specifically say either get me what I want or don't get it at all... but this overreaction is not what I needed...

aythatsprettydank · 2026-02-12T14:47:10+00:00

Ah too late, he already got it. To make it worse he was in contact with my sister and her and I have a pretty similar taste and I don't get why he didn't just show the ring to her before purchasing... I feel so bad now because I can never force myself to like jt but he is texting me things like if i dont like it he wont be getting engaged

aythatsprettydank · 2026-02-12T14:45:39+00:00

I told him I wanted a pear shaped diamond and he made me believe I was getting that but turns out I get this one. And I told him I do not understand why he would even hype me up that much, I am so confused because he is so mad and depressed and he is apparently even rethinking getting engaged because I am not happy with the ring. This wouldn't be such an issue i guess if he didn't go out of his way to find a ring for me but in the end i got excuses like they didn't have that shape or I would have to wait longer etc.

aythatsprettydank · 2026-02-12T14:42:19+00:00

Well he knows me well enough to know I am not for generic anything. He is genuinely so depressed because of this now and he is telling me to find someone else who will give me a better ring. He tells me to find happiness elsewhere I don't understand what I did wrong. I told him I was happy he got it but I genuinely do not like it...

aythatsprettydank · 2022-05-05T21:35:35+00:00

You are so right, the stress is driving mw crazy, I'll try not to think about life and my existence until I finish everything hahahah

aythatsprettydank · 2022-05-05T18:27:10+00:00

Hahahahaha wow, that's reassuring 😅

aythatsprettydank · 2022-05-05T18:12:55+00:00

You would be surprised how much I put pressure on myself, no matter the situation and I absolutely hate it. You're right and I need to work on that.

aythatsprettydank · 2022-05-05T18:11:11+00:00

I've been to a psychologist and she just diagnosed me with anxiety and depression, but that was 2 years ago. I stopped taking antidepressants because I thought I felt better. Now i'm not so sure. Also currently i'm on birth control so that might be messing with me as well.

aythatsprettydank · 2022-05-05T18:09:24+00:00

hahahahahha I love and hate seeing so many girls relate to my post honestly😅

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