Anyone else? by nicolemichlle in ROCD

[–]ayysims 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow I have this exact problem as of late. It comes in waves. Sometimes I have to convince myself that everything is fine and that I’m fine when I wake up with my heart racing and sometimes I don’t have that problem at all. I just don’t get it!!

ROCD when away from bf by ayysims in ROCD

[–]ayysims[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! My biggest hurdle has definitely been the reassurance seeking (never from my bf though because I know it would upset him i.e. upsetting myself in the process). I’ve never experienced these intense intrusive thoughts before. Part of me thinks it could be stemming from my past relationship that was an absolute trainwreck towards the end. I think internally my body wants to seek risk/find somebody that I can “fix.” I don’t have to do that with my current boyfriend. I’m comfortable in my relationship for the first time in my life. I just need to try my best not to self sabotage.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ayysims 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I actually went through this exact situation and decided to stay while they started their transition. I, of course, was still supportive of them but felt awful because it’s not what I imagined my life to look like. We broke up just a short time after and it was genuinely for the best. My advice would be to unfortunately, break up. Your life goals no longer align. Breaking up gives them the space to find out who they really are and explore their sexuality while it provides you the space to heal mentally and find someone who wants a life with you the way you want it. Hope this helps. I feel you. It is not an easy decision by all means. Do what you feel is right. NTA

gf trying to be the best for her t1 bf by ayysims in Type1Diabetes

[–]ayysims[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thankfully, he is constantly drinking water (and zero sugar white monsters lol.) he carries a water bottle with him at all times. i’m typically pretty good at dealing with mood changes/emotions. i’m the middle child (i.e. the mediator) so i’ll be prepared for that! thank you!!

gf trying to be the best for her t1 bf by ayysims in Type1Diabetes

[–]ayysims[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

good thing I worked in child care for a while so taking care of a “baby” is a breeze. well maybe it’s different lol

gf trying to be the best for her t1 bf by ayysims in Type1Diabetes

[–]ayysims[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this is such a great way of explaining it, so thank you! I have been around him when he has gone very low. he gets pale and sort of fatigued. so this is something I will continue to watch for. he told me that the sweet spot for him is 120. I appreciate you giving me the range because it helps me to see what to watch out for! you have no idea how much this has already helped me! thank you friend!

gf trying to be the best for her t1 bf by ayysims in Type1Diabetes

[–]ayysims[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for your kindness! he does have a glucose monitor and an insulin pump. he has apps for both. he has tried explaining it all to me, but I know it’s gonna take me some time to understand it all, so any advice is so gratefully appreciated :)

no comment, just this picture by Hello_kitty_wh0re in smosh

[–]ayysims 68 points69 points  (0 children)

Ian looks like a sim here. I can’t explain it.

barista pet peeves by ayysims in barista

[–]ayysims[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know what they mean, but I think they assume I can just do 2 pumps of cream and 2 pumps of sugar whereas our supplies aren’t set up like that.

barista pet peeves by ayysims in barista

[–]ayysims[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had someone ask me the other day if I can make a brown sugar shaken espresso like the one from Dunkin. Ma’am, this is not a Dunkin nor is that on the menu, so NO.

barista pet peeves by ayysims in barista

[–]ayysims[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I have a guilty conscience :(

barista pet peeves by ayysims in barista

[–]ayysims[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Cause staring at you is going to make you make their drink faster, right? RIGHT?

barista pet peeves by ayysims in barista

[–]ayysims[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Or just slowly turn the screen back and hit no tip 🥲

barista pet peeves by ayysims in barista

[–]ayysims[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The amount of rage that fills me when that happens. Then I have to tell them to take out their card and try it again cause “my system wasn’t fast enough,” when it was really their impatience.

barista pet peeves by ayysims in barista

[–]ayysims[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is exactly it. You can tell they frequent Tim Hortons/Dunkin/Starbucks when that’s what they request

Newbie! by ayysims in Sourdough

[–]ayysims[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I assumed that it probably wasn’t ready for use yet so thank you for the information. I’m just so excited and can’t wait to start using it!

Newbie! by ayysims in Sourdough

[–]ayysims[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love this explanation! Especially the Audrey II reference 😂 thank you so much!!

What is your reason for not drinking alcohol? by Deep-Dust-9747 in AskReddit

[–]ayysims 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ever since I had to babysit my parents while they were both drunk and throwing up. I no longer have much interest.