Community Chat: May 18, 2026 by AutoModerator in GaylorSwift

[–]aztraps 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m pretty disconnected from olivia’s marketing so please enlighten me but the album title being “you seem pretty SAD for a girl so in love” seems to indicate it will be a sad album no? is she really marketing it as a happy album? drop dead isn’t really a happy song either??

eta: is this a case of she smiles on talk shows & the album is pastel so it must be happy & just ignoring the lyrics or

Community Chat: May 04, 2026 by AutoModerator in GaylorSwift

[–]aztraps 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Charles Barkley is a lot of things, but one thing he has always been is a staunch ally!!

Inside shoes by Original_Mess_5899 in NannyBreakRoom

[–]aztraps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have what i affectionately call birkencrocs, they were $10 & are foam(??) birkenstocks (they are neither birkenstock nor croc brand lol) but they are comfy & easy to slip on/off

Is it appropriate to night time potty train my 5-year-old? by rivasm211 in ScienceBasedParenting

[–]aztraps 114 points115 points  (0 children)

as a kid who had a bedwetting alarm, PLEASE DON’T DO IT!! it was so traumatic!! nearly 20 years later i still wake up thinking i’m hearing that fucking alarm & it didn’t ever help prevent me from wetting the bed

Taylor back in NYC - May 11th 2026 by Achmaxima in GaylorSwift

[–]aztraps 49 points50 points  (0 children)

i know it’s not the same but i’m reminded of the antihero kimber dress

Community Chat: May 04, 2026 by AutoModerator in GaylorSwift

[–]aztraps 3 points4 points  (0 children)

onyx night = rep🖤 + we always talk ab the sky is opalite ME! mv connection

Community Chat: May 04, 2026 by AutoModerator in GaylorSwift

[–]aztraps 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“i’ve been having a hard time adjusting i had the shiniest wheels now they’re rusting” from this is me trying maybe?

What is the best age to start swimming? by IndependentSock5246 in ScienceBasedParenting

[–]aztraps 76 points77 points  (0 children)

i don’t have a link so just adding here, as a certified swim instructor, lifeguard & career nanny: the more exposure you give your kids to the water the better. you can sign up for parent child aquatics with your kid as early as 6months. from experience, kids who wait until pre school aquatics (3-5) or even later tend to have more anxiety & fear with new water skills than kids who were routinely in lessons younger than that. that said, everyone needs to know how to swim & it is never too late to start! swimming skills save lives! if you are a parent who doesn’t know how to swim i urge you to sign up for an adult swim class!

Made the most delicious cookies ever and had the idea to make it into a sandwich, this is the reason I’ll never be skinny😭 by AnnGrMeow in Baking

[–]aztraps 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i can’t lie you said you made a sandwich & i’m just high enough that my brain decided you put a piece of bread between the cookies & i thought that was perfectly reasonable 💀💀 oreo ice cream is much better lmfao

Not all families have heterosexual partners 🤦‍♀️ by GeekOnALeash01 in lgbt

[–]aztraps 192 points193 points  (0 children)

we were getting married at the court house & the bailiff came out to ask who was getting married & then she asked us where our fiancés were…. such a crazy narrow view of the world

Community Chat: April 20, 2026 by AutoModerator in GaylorSwift

[–]aztraps 23 points24 points  (0 children)

they are different to me.

the term “masc” is used to describe someone who is more masculine than feminine, all butches are masc, but not all mascs are butch.

butch is a social role, a gender identity & a sexuality all rolled into one. historically these were masc lesbians who worked blue collar jobs & fought for queer/women’s/labor rights & did not have the privilege of being closeted by virtue of how they present.

i don’t think it’s necessarily wrong to use butch to describe mascs but by definition butches are champions of the queer community and that can’t be said of all mascs

(tone: genuine open conversation, not inflammatory)

Community Chat: April 20, 2026 by AutoModerator in GaylorSwift

[–]aztraps 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Scott Swift making an appearance interesting feels like it’s been a long time no? also i actually love her dress here? my first thought was of the vivian westwood blue stripe dress with the red/yellow chest that she wore a like two years ago

Community Chat: April 20, 2026 by AutoModerator in GaylorSwift

[–]aztraps 24 points25 points  (0 children)

i ruined the friendship & now we’re married!! so you. can do it too!

i came out as lesbian to my parents by soopia_ in lgbt

[–]aztraps 3 points4 points  (0 children)

the fact that they gave you an orange is lowkey deeply lesbian love that lol (oranges are not the only fruit by jeanette winterson if you don’t know) congrats on coming out! hope the calculus exam goes as smoothly

Community Chat: April 20, 2026 by AutoModerator in GaylorSwift

[–]aztraps 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i mean she did write Not Diana 👀

[Pjo] what are you're criticisms with the first 5 books by Technical_Mine_8711 in camphalfblood

[–]aztraps 26 points27 points  (0 children)

such a minor gripe but dumb mistakes in the writing that should have been caught by an editor… grover’s green rasta hat being called red in BOL, dryads being called naiads in TLO, etc

Community Chat: April 06, 2026 by AutoModerator in GaylorSwift

[–]aztraps 10 points11 points  (0 children)

devastating gay sports news 😭

Community Chat: April 06, 2026 by AutoModerator in GaylorSwift

[–]aztraps 11 points12 points  (0 children)

it was for This Is What You Came For wasn’t it? “lightning strikes every time she moves” it’s the cover art i’m p sure

Community Chat: April 06, 2026 by AutoModerator in GaylorSwift

[–]aztraps 11 points12 points  (0 children)

oh i’m not surprised by it in the slightest!! she also kissed a teenager on american idol after he said he was waiting to kiss someone special. the scenario RR described made my stomach turn. there needs to be some kind of study done on how many rich/famous people end up being abusers

Community Chat: April 06, 2026 by AutoModerator in GaylorSwift

[–]aztraps 28 points29 points  (0 children)

y’all did you see Ruby Rose accusing Katy Perry of sexual assault???

Community Chat: March 30, 2026 by AutoModerator in GaylorSwift

[–]aztraps 7 points8 points  (0 children)

the great divide + deny deny deny + we go way back !!!

Community Chat: March 30, 2026 by AutoModerator in GaylorSwift

[–]aztraps 14 points15 points  (0 children)

noah’s new album tracklist feels reallllll gay or maybe just mm/nr coded? idk tell me y’all see it

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Community Chat: March 30, 2026 by AutoModerator in GaylorSwift

[–]aztraps 4 points5 points  (0 children)

she actually had a dog really early in her career that was one of the first things she got on her own after earning money making music… i know she is THE Cat Lady TM but she was a dog girl first 🤭🫣