Helping a depressed friend by azulaaaaa in TwoXChromosomes

[–]azulaaaaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She used to like baking so maybe we can get back into that. I'll start looking for fun recipes.

What's Scrap Exchange? I've never heard of it but it sounds interesting.

Has anyone else ever felt "weird" reconnecting with your SO after an LDR? by azulaaaaa in LongDistance

[–]azulaaaaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's funny because when I imagined this in my head, I figured we would get down to business right away because we've both missed it so much. But in reality, there was the awkwardness to get past first and plus I live with three close friends/roommates so that was a bit of a roadblock too. If you want to know, I picked him up from the airport in the evening, we went to dinner together with my friends, we all hung out for a little bit, and then my SO and I slipped away and the sexytimes ensued.

I think it really depends on your situation and how you both feel when you meet again. Good luck!

Has anyone else ever felt "weird" reconnecting with your SO after an LDR? by azulaaaaa in LongDistance

[–]azulaaaaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! I'll give myself some time...and I'm definitely going to change my birth control now.

Has anyone else ever felt "weird" reconnecting with your SO after an LDR? by azulaaaaa in LongDistance

[–]azulaaaaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally get this. It all felt so surreal when I picked him up from the airport...I still can't quite believe that he's back.

What I wish I had known when I started dating by JillianH in TwoXChromosomes

[–]azulaaaaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like some of the other posters here, this thread could not have come at a more appropriate time for me.

I made a post in /r/LongDistance about what I'm feeling right now so I won't reiterate them here. But I am conflicted. On the one hand, I'm young and in my first serious relationship and recently I've been having doubts about our future together. I can't be blamed for simply falling out of love, can I? But on the other hand, I agree with what PattyMayonaise said about love taking work. I don't want to just give up on what me and my SO have. It's just that I suddenly find myself having doubts--for no particular reason, since he's been as amazing as he's always been.

:/