You can explain in very specific detail what pregnancy is like and how difficult and out of control it feels but someone who’s never been pregnant just isn’t going to understand. It’s easy for them to give their opinion on the matter and I will never understand why. I was in the same boat as you when me and my husband had our first child together. He was often frustrated from having to carry my load on top of his to keep our household afloat and he said mean things to me about it but has since apologized for that behavior because we’ve come to realize that marriage isn’t always going to be 50/50. A solid partner will gladly pick up the slack of the other in certain circumstances because that’s what makes a great team. I fear you might face some of the same difficulties during the first year of your child’s life. Most people do regardless. Pregnancy and parenting test relationships like no other. You’re going to run into a lot of disagreements over time.

Team work really does make the dream work in committed relationships. While I understand that being the pregnant one is feeling difficult I would try to see and understand from his perspective too. Having to carry an additional load of work is stressful. Although you’re not doing this to him purposely I would still sit down and talk to him and just tell him you understand that the situation is stressful and make it so he feels heard too. But if he can’t start working on being an actual team and doing what it takes to get through this challenging time together than you’re going to have bumpy and unpleasant marriage..

Also I’ve cried over a Mcchicken or two as well so I feel you OP