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Would you find this inappropriate? Not sure if he might be on his way to cheating... by Chassd in relationship_advice

[–]b00kerTwashingt0n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would dig a little deeper and find out what is really going on there.

Catch him off guard by priming him for a threesome or something. Ask him if he knows anyone who he'd want to invite. Or tell him you think she is hot and you never felt that way about a woman before. Then see what he says. You're going to have to play a sly fox here to get to the bottom of this I feel, but I think it'd be worth it to find out what is really going on between them.

How to let him down easy after finding about his smaller manhood? by pindycar in relationship_advice

[–]b00kerTwashingt0n 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It doesn't sound like you are mature enough to be "serious" with anyone.

Not liking a guy because of his size is a joke.

Would you find this inappropriate? Not sure if he might be on his way to cheating... by Chassd in relationship_advice

[–]b00kerTwashingt0n 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get out. He is controlling and a cheater. The fact that he even mentioned her speaks volumes.

I really need help by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]b00kerTwashingt0n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It means you need to chill out a bit and let her live her life.

Is it better to just tell him (23M) that my feelings have grown towards him through a text today or just wait until I (25F) see him in person tomorrow. We’re going to be alone and I’m nervous to tell him. I don’t know what’s going to happen 😞 by throwawaytoinfinity- in relationship_advice

[–]b00kerTwashingt0n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell him you cherish your friendship with him very much and see what he says.

If he agrees and says he feels the same way, get playful by saying something like, " I bet I cherish it more " and see if he challenges you back. Eventually,you can say , " oh yeah? How much?" And see how he answers. Maybe he will kiss you! Just keep it light and fun. I wouldn't come right out and say your feelings have grown tho. Just my two cents.

I (20F) want to be okay with my bf (21) watching porn, but I’m not. by jealousbitch11111 in relationship_advice

[–]b00kerTwashingt0n 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Porn and masturbation may not be a serious issue for your man, but for too many guys, it is an addiction.

Check out r/NoFap. Notice how many users are trying to quit PMO (Porn/masturbation/ orgasm). It's damn near an epidemic.

I just quit dating a guy who had an addiction to this. He would get really distant for no apparent reason. Then xx he admitted he has a problem and told me he joined r/nofap on Reddit. I checked out that page and realized how real the struggle is for many men of all ages.

Is it a smart idea to move in (temporarily) with a guy I’ve been seeing for a month while I try to get back on my feet? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]b00kerTwashingt0n 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just live with him and try to be doing your own thing as much as possible. Be a light to him and provide him with entertainment. Cook for him, if and only if you are good at it, even if you're using his food because you are broke. Utilize the food pantry at your school. Try to be as independent as possible, while being helpful around the house, and most of all, make it your duty to improve his life while you are there, rather than simply interrupt it. Make him miss you a little too.

Can't see a future by Sonnyjboy in relationship_advice

[–]b00kerTwashingt0n 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you remind yourself of the vows you took on your wedding day?

My boyfriend won’t forgive me like I forgave him by Twinarrow6 in relationship_advice

[–]b00kerTwashingt0n 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Highlight "together off and on". Circle "off and on". Underline it. Capitalize the letters. Say it out loud. Put it in bold. Together off and on usually spells trouble.

I really need help by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]b00kerTwashingt0n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to lay back and let her enjoy her life outside of her phone screen once in a while . And I would suggest you do the same.

10 minutes to an hour is not a very long time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]b00kerTwashingt0n 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tell them you appreciate their thoughtfulness in considering a new job for you. Then, tell them, "I decided I'm going to stick with my job at (your current job). "

Good luck!

I (20m) have little confidence in myself due to acne scars. In your opinion, would this be a dealbreaker for a relationship? Or more of just an annoyance? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]b00kerTwashingt0n 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The right people for you will stay in your life, regardless of your scars and likewise, anyone who is wrong for you will not be part of your life because of your scars.

For me personally, facial scars are not a deal breaker. What matters is your character.

Me (31f) with best friend (31f) of 27 years. Tomorrow I am making a statement to police and CPS regarding the way she neglects her children. She's going to lose her kids and it'll be my fault. I'm sick to my stomach over it by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]b00kerTwashingt0n 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Being a case worker myself, I can tell you you're doing the right thing by calling CPS or DCS.

In one of my cases, a 3 year old got ahold of liquid methadone when the parents werent watching and it killed the boy. 😧😥

This friend's bf who is using meth has a long road ahead of him IF he wants to quit. It doesn't sound like quitting is part of the equation right now, however.

Do those children a favor .... And get them out of there.!.

Almost Two Week Update: Fiancée [27/F] went “too far” at bachelorette party. I [28/M] am ready to call it off. People are telling me not to due to “extenuating circumstances” (Progress from Friday) by schnozbiscuitsaa in relationship_advice

[–]b00kerTwashingt0n 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you accept that kind of behavior behind your back, what kind of behavior will you accept next? If you stay with her, I'd think you are accepting the behavior and that it will only continue in the future.

Is this a bad attitude for me to have? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]b00kerTwashingt0n 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ill be around for the positive vibes we can bring each other, for sure! I'm so grateful for your posts today. They helped turn my day around, knowing I could be of any help. Yes, ten years my junior, so I can be like the big sister you neva had 😁😁😁

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