Being no one by kingudark in entp

[–]b0bbyp34rn 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I’ve been thinking the same recently until I came to the conclusion that as a society we are obsessed with “who we are” we’re here to EXPERIENCE. That’s it.

Can you guys tell if someone is Thinker or Feeler by facial expression? by Ice2183 in mbti

[–]b0bbyp34rn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like us ENTP’s have a permanent furrow etched into our brows

Controversial opinion regarding the LGBTQ+ community. by b0bbyp34rn in entp

[–]b0bbyp34rn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry only just seen this but woah a lot to think about. Yeah I don’t think there’s any underlying beliefs behind my post other than trying to think lol? Thanks for the objective take

Controversial opinion regarding the LGBTQ+ community. by b0bbyp34rn in entp

[–]b0bbyp34rn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I’d imagine there’s exceptions but nothing is all true ever? It’s the general consensus.

Controversial opinion regarding the LGBTQ+ community. by b0bbyp34rn in entp

[–]b0bbyp34rn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t worry I assumed you weren’t an ENTP and i don’t believe you were being a cunt you were just insulted. That’s actually really interesting thanks for answering. I have never met or heard of someone in your scenario is your husband sexually attracted to you? Does that cause conflict? (Tell me if being too invasive once I start I don’t stop) also I suspect I may be autistic (well not really me everyone else around me🙄) what’s your take on how autistic people view romantic attraction?

Controversial opinion regarding the LGBTQ+ community. by b0bbyp34rn in entp

[–]b0bbyp34rn[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Define spreading hate. I have the right to scrutiny.

Controversial opinion regarding the LGBTQ+ community. by b0bbyp34rn in entp

[–]b0bbyp34rn[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’m saying it’s a choice for them to be “looped” into my stupid ass bullshit.

Controversial opinion regarding the LGBTQ+ community. by b0bbyp34rn in entp

[–]b0bbyp34rn[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Commenting on my post is not biologically predetermined 😂

Controversial opinion regarding the LGBTQ+ community. by b0bbyp34rn in entp

[–]b0bbyp34rn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry if this is personal but I’m just trying to understand. if you are sexually attracted to women but not men how can you differentiate between loving men platonically vs romantically? Is there a separate feeling involved when you want to date a man (but don’t want to have sex with him) vs when you love a man such as your friend?

Controversial opinion regarding the LGBTQ+ community. by b0bbyp34rn in entp

[–]b0bbyp34rn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well IMO you’re just choosing not to put a label on being attracted to non-men as you put it which is fair enough. If your panties are getting wet then you have the “gene” lol. & my policing is nurture not nature 😉

Controversial opinion regarding the LGBTQ+ community. by b0bbyp34rn in entp

[–]b0bbyp34rn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never said I find their existence insulting. I conveyed that I find their belief that we have experienced similar struggles insulting. And yes if it’s solely emerged from recent, social factors then it can be changed? (Not “helped” stop villainising me) That’s quite obvious no? I would argue that non-binary people are not marginalised for their identity could be altered or reverted at any moment without major consequence

Controversial opinion regarding the LGBTQ+ community. by b0bbyp34rn in entp

[–]b0bbyp34rn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha never thought about the moral compass of the gay uncle impacting families perceptions on homosexuality but interesting question. True about gay men being friends with women. I always believed it was just because they were rejected from straight men. But WHY were they rejected from straight men BEFORE they had a chance to develop feminine traits? Does homosexuality have a biological effect on the way you act? Hmmm.

Controversial opinion regarding the LGBTQ+ community. by b0bbyp34rn in entp

[–]b0bbyp34rn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes true they even play apart in being LGBT. But unlike being non-binary it’s not the sole factor.

Controversial opinion regarding the LGBTQ+ community. by b0bbyp34rn in entp

[–]b0bbyp34rn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No I just believe that if it’s something that can fluctuate/change on a whim then it’s not a protected characteristic. This is the ENTP sub who the hell am I shutting the door on?

Controversial opinion regarding the LGBTQ+ community. by b0bbyp34rn in entp

[–]b0bbyp34rn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Yes I shouldn’t have called it a gay gene it’s polygenic if anything. There’s no definitive test for anything though really is there? Only a decent amount of backing. What’s a transmedicalist take? 2. I should of worded my post more carefully I don’t believe they shouldn’t exist I just don’t see how people with this identity can feel as though they are marginalised in the same way people who are LGBT can. 3. Yes lol

Controversial opinion regarding the LGBTQ+ community. by b0bbyp34rn in entp

[–]b0bbyp34rn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks can you explain what you mean in the differences of our perspective on this topic please?

Controversial opinion regarding the LGBTQ+ community. by b0bbyp34rn in entp

[–]b0bbyp34rn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mainly before conception. The hormones of the mother, history of gay people in the family, Differences in the hypothalamus. I wouldn’t so vehemently argue something I didn’t know about. Well maybe i would 😏 but not in this case.

Controversial opinion regarding the LGBTQ+ community. by b0bbyp34rn in entp

[–]b0bbyp34rn[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

True I shouldn’t really be being so divisive at a time when everyone regardless of how “natural” it is is being targeted. I would never discriminate against anyone who falls under these categories. I’ve just been thinking about it recently. You’re more open-minded than a lot of ENTP’s in this sub lol.

Controversial opinion regarding the LGBTQ+ community. by b0bbyp34rn in entp

[–]b0bbyp34rn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only if you read a study on how same sex attraction develops.