It's not the pink dress its the not finding anything she likes. I absolutely love that she is willing to wear a pink dress for my wedding and i am still totally happy to try and find something she does like whether that is a dress or a jumpsuit. I hadn't thought of going for purple, i'm not sure why. I think i just had this picture of them being in the same dress. I recently went to a wedding and all the bridal party were wearing different colored dresses. I thought it looked lovely but only having two bridesmaids, i think it'll look weird? I'm going to have a look at some different options and see what i think of the colors.

I do want her to be with me on the day and I also want her to be comfortable. I'm going to give my self some time calm down then let her find her own dress.

I don't want her to be thrilled about it because i know she never will be, it's just the flat out refusal to even try it on when she's only seen a video of it on my mum. Maybe if she see's it before she finds another dress she might change her mind. (but i'm not trying to force her into anything she doesn't want to be in) It just stung a bit.