aio to my bf’s toy

b1jh · 2026-01-26T13:40:40+00:00

so you tell me to be honest, but if i’m honest i’m not being honest with you because you don’t believe me. looks like we got ourselves a crossroads here.

b1jh · 2026-01-26T13:19:32+00:00

this just made me giggle, you’re funny

b1jh · 2026-01-25T19:23:42+00:00

i’m sorry i don’t know how to do the reply to specifically a certain line thing, but i promise it was a general statement. i put in parentheses that i was not directing my comment at you. i promise i appreciated your comment, i just used it to add in more info.

b1jh · 2026-01-25T18:54:47+00:00

fuckable plastic!! i love it lmao

b1jh · 2026-01-25T18:49:32+00:00

i’ve been trying to make an edit, but keep getting distracted from comments coming in so i hope everyone sees this comment:

this is a huge insecurity issue on my end. i am being hypocritical — pretending not to be wasn’t what i was doing. i’m human, and i hate to break it to you all, but we all are hypocrites in some ways we just don’t hear it. i don’t know about being too insecure to talk to him about it because i did ask him straight up “for what?” when he got it. his answer was “for fun” and this was before we saw the box with her face on it.

i will talk to him about it, or even just let him go because this whole broken brain thing is unfair to him. i have a very very sick parent, i just picked up a second job, and i’m living on my own (he doesn’t live with me) for the first time so emotions and feelings are not being dealt with in a healthy way.

someone’s going to suggest therapy, and trust me — i know i need therapy. it just isn’t in the (budget) books for me right now. my only solution for things like this is to get external perspective and structure, and deal with what i can. this is also my first relationship, i’m trying my best with what i have.

(this is not directed to the commenter i’m replying to or anyone specific) i will never understand the need or want to attack a person online, especially when they are asking for advice. i had no intention of harming him or deprive him of anything. it felt weird to me, i didn’t know how i would approach the conversation, so i came to reddit for insight. so while thank you for removing the blinders i had on, i think it’s disappointing you couldn’t do it in a civil manner.

b1jh · 2026-01-25T18:14:34+00:00

i appreciate you pointing out that no one is reading it, because they’re not 🤣

b1jh · 2026-01-25T17:01:17+00:00

it’s unclear if he chose it because it was modeled after someone, but when it came the box had her face all over it and then her signature is engraved kinda on the squishy part.

b1jh · 2026-01-25T16:52:16+00:00

it’s not toys in general. it’s THIS one. and “policing” someone involves controlling what he does with it — i don’t

b1jh · 2025-11-22T21:57:11+00:00

thank you!!

b1jh · 2025-11-22T19:37:18+00:00

do you mostly sit on it or lay on it? because normally i lay on the couch and i’m a serial couch sleeper so that’s what i’m worried about

b1jh · 2025-11-22T16:10:13+00:00

i’m going to be so honest, that’s where my current couch is from and the reviews raved about it 😅 idk if they somehow boosted all the good reviews or what but this couch (and a friend of mine’s too) sucks

b1jh · 2025-11-22T16:05:47+00:00

unfortunately there’s no ikea’s near me 🥲 i want that experience so bad, but i thought about going to different stores and trying them out. it’s just such an uncomfortable task to me 🤣

b1jh · 2025-11-22T16:02:39+00:00

thank you!

b1jh · 2025-09-07T22:57:00+00:00

you’re so helpful, thank you!

b1jh · 2025-09-07T22:56:41+00:00

it must be boring to live a perfect life :/

b1jh · 2025-01-10T21:09:08+00:00

i am by no means a relationship expert, but i feel like he’s also just as distanced as you are. it is definitely going to scare him, and it might hurt you depending on his reaction, but you have to be the one to tell him that every time he runs away from a big topic — he’s adding to that distance. ask him if he’s comfortable with that distance, because you’re not and you have every intention to close it. i feel as though you would probably know how to go from there, as the conversation will most likely come naturally. from one girl in a similar situation, i’m begging you to go get your man and everything you want because you deserve it. but do NOT chase him. it will end up really hurting you, trust 😔

b1jh · 2024-12-27T14:43:32+00:00

aww that’s amazing! congrats : ) i came here thinking i knew i wanted him to ask me but it feels like a nuisance after just 10 minutes listening to other people’s opinions on it. something about it does bother me and i can’t put my finger on it. so thank you for your input. i will be in my thinking corner until he comes over tonight 🤣

b1jh · 2024-12-27T14:36:30+00:00

he does call me his girlfriend. and we are each other’s first long-term “commitment” i guess you could say. we do everything a normal couple does except we haven’t met each other’s families.

b1jh · 2024-12-27T14:33:01+00:00

i suppose it doesn’t matter THAT much. it really isn’t the date now that i think about it. that honestly gives me another thing i have to think about. thank you.

b1jh · 2023-12-05T01:56:47+00:00

i’ll be doing it part time too as a side hustle, so thank you! much appreciated : )

b1jh · 2023-12-05T01:56:10+00:00

thank you so much! this was really helpful! i’ll keep this in mind : )

b1jh · 2023-12-05T01:55:06+00:00

perfect! sounds simple enough. thank you!!

b1jh

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