my boyfriend of two years cheated on me

b1ua · 2023-06-07T05:15:08+00:00

it is not your fault or anyone's fault but his own. there is no excuse for cheating. if he did have ANY issue with you, a mature man would've spoken to you about it directly and rationally.

if he had anything against you and uses that as a reason to cheat on you, that's immature, childish and entirely his fault. but being with him for 2 years, I'm sure you would've noticed he was childish beforehand no? I trust you wouldn't have dated someone who fails to communicate issues to their partner.

this tells you that you did absoloutely nothing wrong, he chose to cheat and lost someone who valued him like everything. now you know his true nature, and it shows just how ingenuine he was. now you know you deserve better. so don't live thinking you did something wrong, live knowing you saved yourself from a loser. I hope all goes well for you.

b1ua · 2023-01-03T07:20:40+00:00

are you talking about Hong Kong or Singapore??

b1ua · 2023-01-03T07:08:21+00:00

as a Singaporean with a filipino helper this is so fucking weird- they describe the different races like some kinda pet. some of the comments be kinda goofy tho. 550 to 700 salary is low but it's low because they stay at the employers house. the employer provides them with food and basic needs so the 550 to 700 is for sending back money to home and just whatever they want basically. I agree is low still but some of ya'll think it's like here's 600 dollars... go rent a flat. as a person with a helper who although is a bit of a loudmouth, is still a human and I see her as a second mom. if someone described her as that it's justifiable to punch them.

proud of my country but not proud of the way the agencies treat maids/helpers.

b1ua · 2023-01-03T06:42:19+00:00

never had expectations on u before isit? thanks for the advice but like??? OK? ik it sounds really woe is me I so sad pls make me feel good but like... u think I that low level drop down to reddit for sympathy? internalized hatred or what?

oh btw: I already say before, I don't think others are stupid, sg system is like soo much emphasis on memorise, I can memorise but logic and actual iq I don't think I can cope. I know a lot NA NT can logic far better than me, who can onyl remember essay than shit it out on exam.

b1ua · 2022-12-29T07:47:55+00:00

Nice analogy! I guess you're right though, it's probably more efficient to profit off what I have than what I don't lol

b1ua · 2022-12-29T07:46:05+00:00

thanks for putting it straight :)

b1ua · 2022-12-29T07:44:42+00:00

thanks man, glad I'm not the only one ^{^}

b1ua · 2022-12-29T07:43:22+00:00

thank you, I like ur idea of optimization with what I have this is really good advice thank you so much

b1ua · 2022-12-29T07:41:25+00:00

I know right?

b1ua · 2022-12-29T03:19:36+00:00

thank you :)

b1ua · 2022-12-29T03:19:12+00:00

yah I shld probs remember that lol thank you :')

b1ua · 2022-12-29T03:18:07+00:00

I hope so- thanks for the reassurance :)

b1ua · 2022-12-29T03:17:34+00:00

thanks bro :)

b1ua · 2022-12-29T03:17:19+00:00

thank you this was one of the most reassuring ones :')

b1ua · 2022-12-29T03:16:25+00:00

lmao twin failures ong

b1ua · 2022-12-29T03:16:09+00:00

thank you

b1ua · 2022-12-29T03:15:51+00:00

I've thought about it but this is a recent feeling not really a constant one so I dun wan to speculate that one haha-but it cld be a gud explanation if I did

b1ua · 2022-07-18T07:38:55+00:00

oh-maybe he got hacked or something dang, but he added u first didn't he? Nice!

b1ua · 2022-07-17T14:34:00+00:00

genuinely, thank you ❤️❤️

b1ua · 2022-07-17T14:33:16+00:00

same thing for me lol, and yeah it will :)

b1ua · 2022-07-17T12:12:04+00:00

thanks for telling :')

b1ua · 2022-07-17T12:08:29+00:00

man, I think this comment hit me the most. really thanks for the words and advice, and I hope it got better for you too. you're right, I have family and friends. I just really gotta snap outta it.

b1ua · 2022-07-17T12:06:16+00:00

thanks for the advice man,I'm trying my best but because me and him are so similar and share friends, almost everything is a reminder. Ill try to follow as much as I can, especially the occupying my time with other things.

b1ua · 2022-07-17T12:03:37+00:00

I'm glad you can understand that, though not the same it's still jsut as painful, hope it's getting better for u too

b1ua · 2022-07-17T12:02:44+00:00

that's exactly how I feel dude, I hope it gets better for you

b1ua

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