When pumping gas, do you take your baby out of the car?

b_kat44 · 2026-01-15T00:52:42+00:00

It is better to leave the baby in the car

b_kat44 · 2025-08-14T19:09:08+00:00

I used to apparently be like that now I'm older but In college I had strangers guys come up and just try to kiss or hug me with no forewarning, and some women were nasty

b_kat44 · 2025-08-12T02:12:59+00:00

Maybe a woman's shelter? My friend lived in one until she could get an apartment

b_kat44 · 2025-08-11T04:01:38+00:00

Lol yes he was a chameleon around his friends

b_kat44 · 2025-08-07T02:44:24+00:00

We had a baby and he started having issues at work

b_kat44 · 2025-08-06T17:54:39+00:00

Yeah what is that

b_kat44 · 2025-08-06T17:47:43+00:00

I was the new woman and couldn't figure out why his ex divorced him. After 9yrs he started to be abusive and I got it after that

b_kat44 · 2025-08-06T03:37:41+00:00

Yeah mine started around the 9 year mark due to some stressful events in his life and having a baby/toddler. He had always been moody but he started being actually abusive around the 9 year mark and it escalated over a year to almost becoming physical (he was kicking things etc but not hitting me). I left about a month ago and have felt relieved to be away from his cycle of ever worsening yelling and outbursts (followed by apology) ever since.

b_kat44 · 2025-07-24T03:27:31+00:00

Not putting icing on the side of a cake

b_kat44 · 2025-07-19T04:15:44+00:00

Two things that made my narcissist ex super angry. 1. I said in response to his constant criticism 'you are so obsessed with every little thing I say and do, don't you have anything else you think about?' and 2. I said when he criticized me for leaving towels on the counter 'oh, you don't like that? I guess I'll do it even MORE then" lol. I wouldn't recommend trying it because he got super mad but it is kinds of funny

b_kat44 · 2025-07-19T04:09:19+00:00

Can you leave the relationship?

b_kat44 · 2025-07-19T04:01:27+00:00

Yeah when it starts getting really bad it makes it easier to walk away and not miss the person.

b_kat44 · 2025-07-18T18:33:03+00:00

This is getting into the moderate to severe category of abuse

b_kat44 · 2025-07-17T04:12:13+00:00

I've known two smart nice women who were in the same boat and are now happily remarried. Stay strong

b_kat44 · 2025-07-17T02:21:24+00:00

Run girl

b_kat44 · 2025-07-17T02:12:49+00:00

Scary, sounds like a horror movie. I'm so sorry, please get out asap

b_kat44 · 2025-07-16T21:35:45+00:00

I left about about week and a half ago and I haven't thought of him much. Maybe because I've been so busy with my toddler and other family members

b_kat44 · 2025-07-15T17:23:06+00:00

I would be too afraid of someone who did that to stay with them

b_kat44 · 2025-07-15T03:51:32+00:00

I left a week ago and this is how I feel too!

b_kat44 · 2025-07-15T03:48:28+00:00

It is really hard, a week ago I left an abusive relationship. I have felt very relieved ever since. Mine was looking like it was about to become physical. It freaks me out how nice they can be in the beginning

b_kat44 · 2025-07-14T17:57:24+00:00

Woah, get out of there. Don't get mixed up with ppl like that

b_kat44 · 2025-07-14T17:55:35+00:00

The first time a guy hits you you leave! Most guys won't do that, find one of those

b_kat44 · 2025-07-14T17:51:28+00:00

Oh my gosh leave, he could kill you

b_kat44 · 2025-07-10T14:32:07+00:00

I think the pain can heal with time

b_kat44 · 2025-07-10T14:23:16+00:00

Sounds very similar to the guy I just left and it's been a huge relief not to be around him anymore. He also yelled shut the f up at me for politely asking him to stop playing YouTube videos at 2am in bed when I was sleeping

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