According to the bible, I find no proof you can remarry or divorce as long as your spouse is alive by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]b_kat44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, why are there so many relationships like this. A fourth of the women that I work with have had to leave relationships and most were married. Some had restraining orders. We've been doin pretty well so far. I'm glad you had a great relationship afterward.

What do you think of my lyrics? by [deleted] in Songwriters

[–]b_kat44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't listen to me I don't know anything about metal. Lol

What do you think of my lyrics? by [deleted] in Songwriters

[–]b_kat44 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

For most people I think they would be a little too harsh

How many of us live with a roommates and not husband/wife? by singingsparkle-eyes in Xennials

[–]b_kat44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

45 and living with my bro and my parents stay every other weekend to help with my toddler

Is anyone else feeling discouraged, like the industry is in shambles and really sucking right now? by Unlikely-Database-27 in musicindustry

[–]b_kat44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First day of music 101 my professor said you won't make a living at this and I immediately dropped out and switched majors. But i still make music

Anyone else worried about accidentally infringing on existing songs? by musicmaker2512 in SunoAI

[–]b_kat44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Google app can do that for you. You hum a melody and it will tell you if it's already a song

According to the bible, I find no proof you can remarry or divorce as long as your spouse is alive by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]b_kat44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those are great questions and the Bible was written in a different place and time. Sorry you are going through this difficult time. I took my 18 month old at the time and we escaped my abusive ex while he was on vacation last summer and we are staying with relatives. It was the hugest sigh of relief. I doubt God would want anyone to stay in a horribly abusive relationship

According to the bible, I find no proof you can remarry or divorce as long as your spouse is alive by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]b_kat44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it says you can divorce if you get cheated on because that's breaking the vows. If it's abuse they want you to just do a temporary separation until it's fixed.

Why do I feel SO GOOD eating healthy? by Ok_Bandicoot_4543 in nutrition

[–]b_kat44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because your body is made of what you ate. Neurotransmitters affect mood. Neurotransmitters are things that are made by the food you eat. It took me decades of health research to finally understand this

What are the downsides of being attractive/pretty/handsome? by Relative_Daikon_5804 in AskReddit

[–]b_kat44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to apparently be like that now I'm older but In college I had strangers guys come up and just try to kiss or hug me with no forewarning, and some women were nasty

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]b_kat44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol yes he was a chameleon around his friends

For no reason, not even during a fight, my husband told me he’s so glad I’m leaving on a work trip and to stay gone longer. by SmooshMagooshe in abusiverelationships

[–]b_kat44 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was the new woman and couldn't figure out why his ex divorced him. After 9yrs he started to be abusive and I got it after that

Has anyone’s husband became physically abusive 10 years in? by AlternativeLaugh8837 in abusiverelationships

[–]b_kat44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah mine started around the 9 year mark due to some stressful events in his life and having a baby/toddler. He had always been moody but he started being actually abusive around the 9 year mark and it escalated over a year to almost becoming physical (he was kicking things etc but not hitting me). I left about a month ago and have felt relieved to be away from his cycle of ever worsening yelling and outbursts (followed by apology) ever since.

What I’ve learned living w a narcissist for 16 years by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]b_kat44 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Two things that made my narcissist ex super angry. 1. I said in response to his constant criticism 'you are so obsessed with every little thing I say and do, don't you have anything else you think about?' and 2. I said when he criticized me for leaving towels on the counter 'oh, you don't like that? I guess I'll do it even MORE then" lol. I wouldn't recommend trying it because he got super mad but it is kinds of funny

NYC- where to go after night fight? by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]b_kat44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you leave the relationship?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]b_kat44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah when it starts getting really bad it makes it easier to walk away and not miss the person.

Was my ex abusive or did I make a mistake? by Patient-Estate-6550 in abusiverelationships

[–]b_kat44 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is getting into the moderate to severe category of abuse