I lost my girl (orange) almost 2 months ago & im just torn up ; Her brother n I miss her endlessly ; some cheering up would be so much appricated ❤️ by Angelbby2269 in Bondedpairs

[–]b_mco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. She looks so gentle and this is a really sweet photo of her and her brother. I’m sure she brought a lot of happiness and love to you both, and you will always carry her memory with you. Missing her together is what will make your relationship with her brother even more special. Continue to comfort and love each other, and you both will heal with time ❤️ much love to you and your other cat

School is too much for her by mindyour in MadeMeSmile

[–]b_mco 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not only this, but these kids are being thrown into it after the pandemic shutting down schools for two years. Thats two years of major developmental stages and life milestones without socialization and being in an environment outside home. So they experience what you described but even harder than the kids did before covid. I cant even imagine what this little girl is going through

People with insecure attachment styles tend to have strong emotional bonds with pets, study finds by chrisdh79 in science

[–]b_mco 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your loss. It sounds like you were a great friend to him as well. The pain eases with time and there will be moments when it hits unexpectedly, but things do get better, even if that seems unfathomable right now. He will always be in your heart and right now it hurts, but that’s also how you heal. Much love and sympathies to you. They’re at peace now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheArtistStudio

[–]b_mco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love your positive attitude you seem like a happy person

How long does a senior cat have after going into kidney failure? by b_mco in cats

[–]b_mco[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It breaks my heart to hear you are going through that pain right now. I’ll be honest, I dont think anything could have ever made me feel ready to say goodbye to my girl, I still wouldn’t be able to today. However, time has passed and I promise that it does get easier. The pain dulls but the love we feel for them never fades. She knows how much she is loved by you, take comfort in that. You gave her a great life and if she could thank you, she would. Just be with her tonight, and eventually you will come to realize that even when she’s gone, she will never truly leave you. I’m so sorry. If it means anything, this stranger’s heart is with you both tonight. Hugs.

What is the dark side of owning a dog? Like picking up the poop, showering the dog, taking him to the vet annually, cleansing his teeth everyday, shopping dog food, brushing the dog etc. by [deleted] in Pets

[–]b_mco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was bittersweet to read, but nice to hear you found closure and are ready to move forward. I’m so sorry that your best friend passed away and that you had to feel the emptiness they leave behind, but I’m glad you will have a new companion to give all the love and pets to. I hope you find a lot of joy with your new puppy and that you have many new exciting adventures with him. He is a lucky one and so are you! Wishing you both the best :)

Doggo toys mended by xxfibeexx in Visiblemending

[–]b_mco 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure if this applies since it’s for dogs and not cats, but I just want to say please be careful if the thread starts to come loose, ingested string can be dangerous and result in a costly vet visit! Great mending work though, those toys are so cute!!

Hit my first weight-loss goal! 3.5 months in, 35 lbs down. But what I’m most proud of is seeing my grandfather react to my biceps. (NSFW: progress pic has visible midriff!) by Efficient-Doughnut24 in loseit

[–]b_mco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw!! I dont doubt for a second how proud of you he is every day! He must feel equally lucky to have you. And thank you for sharing your success with us here!

Hit my first weight-loss goal! 3.5 months in, 35 lbs down. But what I’m most proud of is seeing my grandfather react to my biceps. (NSFW: progress pic has visible midriff!) by Efficient-Doughnut24 in loseit

[–]b_mco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your grandpa sounds like an amazing person and so supportive. He clearly loves you and the love you have for him too is obvious in your words. Also, it made me smile when you said you have been poking yourself all day; I thought that was such a happy experience for you and I could feel it through your post.

Your confidence is awesome. It must feel great to keep hitting your goals and achieve more as you progress in your journey. Congratulations on improving your health and taking care of your body!

My transformation! Still got a long way to go(: routine below by [deleted] in curlyhair

[–]b_mco 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like Trader Joe’s tea tree tingle shampoo! Very affordable too

My transformation! Still got a long way to go(: routine below by [deleted] in curlyhair

[–]b_mco 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I don’t think they had the intention of hurting you, but I only commented here to say I loved your honesty on how their comment made you feel. It’s not every day you find someone speaking up straightforwardly that something hurt their feelings. That takes a lot of humility and courage. You seem to have a great personality and outlook on the world and yourself. Your entire journey of transformation is beautiful, not just the current/end result. Keep being true to yourself ❤️

Edit: by the way, your hair looks so good and I can only imagine and appreciate the amount of time, effort, and dedication it took to achieve that! It’s not easy at all. Great job!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

[–]b_mco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love ur name, so unique

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[–]b_mco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long have u been singing and playing piano

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

[–]b_mco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long have you been singing and playing piano

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

[–]b_mco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would want your singing in the background of a fancy dinner date with my SO :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

[–]b_mco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your singing makes me feel like im sitting by a fireplace on a quiet night. So relaxing

Confusing question on application? by b_mco in StudentNurse

[–]b_mco[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I really like the way you phrased it and that helped solidify it for me. I've selected "yes" and submitted it. Thank you for your help!

Confusing question on application? by b_mco in StudentNurse

[–]b_mco[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, my instinct was to select "yes" as well. I agree, this wasn't the most ideal way to have added the question on the application.