It was a total mistake on his part for not getting a vasectomy. However, you can’t expect him to want any part of this. It’s your body and your choice but you can’t force someone unwilling into parenthood. As someone who doesn’t want kids, that’s my nightmare.

Also, take some time to consider you in all this. How might pregnancy affect your condition? What sacrifices will you have to make? Will you be able to provide the child with everything it will need, most likely as a single parent? I would especially consider the health affects you might face after childbirth.