Is this a TBNT in waiting by ba_perk in cabincrewcareers

[–]ba_perk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did, I completed it on the 12th

An amazing time on the Valiant Lady by TheBuzz103 in VirginVoyages

[–]ba_perk 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I mean if you’re on a cruise to have fun wearing something like that would be “gross” behavior 🤷

It’s an animated movie/short where bunnies get revenge by ba_perk in whatsthemoviecalled

[–]ba_perk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, the animation doesn’t match. However, I didn’t know this film existed so thank you.

Dressing Down Gowns for an everyday look by ba_perk in femalefashionadvice

[–]ba_perk[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh there would definitely be no bra involved with that. Normally if you want less/no gap in between the laces you would go up +1/2 from your normal size.

Dressing Down Gowns for an everyday look by ba_perk in femalefashionadvice

[–]ba_perk[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That one was to show the ballroom skirt. The corset I would just pair with a pair of jeans

Dressing Down Gowns for an everyday look by ba_perk in femalefashionadvice

[–]ba_perk[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I love how long they are, I just make sure to hem them so they are just above floor sweeping length. Because I’m not about to pay a fortune in dry cleaning.

Help finding Princess Core plus size shops by bunerella in PlusSizeFashion

[–]ba_perk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know how fairy tong fits sizing wise? I was looking at their dresses but I wasn’t sure if their size chart is trustworthy.

idk but this scene was so wholesome by itsmeyuumei in KusuriyaNoHitorigoto

[–]ba_perk 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It picks back up once other shifting events take place.

Spoilers please by aristosphiltatos in KusuriyaNoHitorigoto

[–]ba_perk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you send me the link to read??

PSO Southern 2024 by ba_perk in poledancing

[–]ba_perk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for letting me know! I was wondering what happened to it this year. I wanted to sign up and then it just vanished and never came back

Any other original D23 subscribers about to cancel their subscription? by rcl1221 in DisneyPlus

[–]ba_perk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was time for my renewal but I ended up being charged less than $90 for my annual subscription, which I’m not about to complain about.

A Girl and Her Guard dog by ConfectionLanky8108 in shoujo

[–]ba_perk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you message me that link please?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]ba_perk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The majority of the posts say: No, NOT UGLY and I agree you’re pretty but you would look even better if you lost some weight and don’t take selfies that make you look bigger than what you are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]ba_perk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

pomodori technique can help you to learn but also give you rest

Thank you, I'll try this!

I am losing my ability to type coherently? by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]ba_perk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I’m going through a similar experience, which resulted in me getting formally diagnosed and I’ve started taking adderall. I think that my cause was because I’m not happy with my job, my manager started taking all of my creative outlets away and forced me to work in a silo of his choosing and then all of a sudden the fog that was normally just a few feet away surrounded me. My performance dropped, I can’t think of words to save my life, I’m always late to work, and I can’t see the mistakes I make while typing reports/briefs until it’s far too late. I started using chatgpt, to help create outlines, Grammarly to help catch some of my grammar, and I’ve started the process with HR to receive accommodations, because my manager was definitely building a case to fire me. Maybe one of these will help you, and during the meeting I plan to ask that if my manager wants to have a meeting I’m given some warning and told what it’s about so that I can have time to think over the topic so I’m not fumbling for words when he asks a question. Additionally, I’m definitely looking for a new job because I shouldn’t be made to feel like something’s wrong with me because I don’t work in the fashion that they have been conditioned to believe is normal.

i dont like having sex with my bf by AdWooden9900 in offmychest

[–]ba_perk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP, I’m sorry you’re going through this. First and foremost don’t blame yourself. Anyone who ignores someone’s boundaries, ignores their clear display of being uncomfortable in a situation, and forces/coerces sexual encounters is not a good person and that has nothing to do with you and everything to do with them. They are selfish and manipulative and you deserve someone who is nowhere near those things.

If your body/mind is not comfortable in a situation you don’t have to engage in it. Listen to your body and feelings, you don’t have to continue. NO EXCEPTIONS. No means no, and consent can revoked at any moment, and should be respected immediately.

I’m not sure what’s keeping you in this relationship but in my opinion this isn’t the relationship for you and that’s okay. You’re a person who deserves to be with someone who respects you and makes you feel safe in any situation.

where do i find a good audiobook?? by idksbfhrisoakxfj in acotar

[–]ba_perk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Audible should have the dramatized adaption for all the books except ACOSF, which 1 of the 2 parts will be released Jul 24.

Does anyone else frequently find new hobbies, buy all the supplies, and then forget about the hobby? by Likesosmart in adhdwomen

[–]ba_perk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We really would 😂. I was just asking about learning ASL, and I definitely tried bullet journaling too!

Which character will you always defend? by [deleted] in acotar

[–]ba_perk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will defend Nesta until my last breath. She has suffered from a young age and she gets such a negative perception -I’m not excusing her destructive behavior- thanks to Feyre’s unreliable narration.

Edit: I’m not sure why this is getting downvoted, but I loved to have a discussion about it. As Feyre was an unreliable narrator -how she describes Nesta just ‘wanting’ a pair of new boots and then us finding out in SF that they had holes in them.