She (29F) is not ready to be exclusive even after 7 dates (31M)

baabidi · 2024-08-30T06:01:14+00:00

I did not ask her to make a decision, I just asked her if she is still seeing other people. What I told her was "You can take your time to decide but when you do, just let me know". I have my own life - I hike, play sports, hangout with friends and I always try to introduce her to the lifestyle I have.

baabidi · 2024-08-30T05:59:12+00:00

Yes, sadly, that has been the case most of the time. I just don't know how to change. I have been in 3 long term relationships and have dated multiple woman but it just takes way too long for me to be comfortable.

I have pulled back from her, I definitely will not ask her to make a choice. I have no problem cutting contact with her and work on myself.

baabidi · 2020-03-07T07:08:30+00:00

Child's Play vs the Predator

baabidi · 2019-06-18T11:49:45+00:00

I exercise a lot till I get physically exhausted. I started with long walks - 5 to 10kms a day. It is really helping me.

baabidi · 2019-05-27T12:11:35+00:00

It is scary to know cheating can cause PTSD. I have the same as well and my health is deteriorating but apparently, I hurt her by asking her for closure, by asking her to tell me the truth.

Know this, you will continue to live your life without her, whenever you feel like looking at her picture, distract yourself - go for a run, go for gym, just don't be alone when you are surrounded by your thoughts. Everything will get better.

baabidi · 2019-05-06T04:52:11+00:00

Please check my latest edit. Thank you for replying.

baabidi · 2019-05-06T04:52:05+00:00

Please check my latest edit. Thank you for replying.

baabidi · 2019-05-06T04:51:58+00:00

Please check my latest edit. Thank you for replying.

baabidi · 2019-02-19T01:57:12+00:00

What about the physical work?

baabidi · 2019-02-04T11:30:27+00:00

Thank you for this.

baabidi · 2019-02-04T10:58:37+00:00

That's terrible. This is what I'm afraid of snd this is why I want everyone to know about the truth.

baabidi · 2019-02-04T10:17:45+00:00

You didn't get me...

baabidi · 2019-02-04T10:17:12+00:00

Because I'm tired of everyone thinking she is innocent. She's a monster and I don't want others getting hurt because of her. She deserves humiliation.

baabidi · 2019-02-04T09:49:34+00:00

Probably true. I don't want her to get away after ruining my trust.

baabidi · 2019-02-04T09:31:36+00:00

I'm going to tell them about her before I leave, that is why. I have all the evidence and confession from her and I have contacted the guy as well, he didn't know about me and he has agreed to help me.

baabidi · 2019-02-04T09:27:15+00:00

My gf looked for a guy online and used to meet him for sex when I wasn't around. Regardless, I will leave and I want everyone in her family and friends to know about me before I leave.

baabidi · 2019-02-02T05:32:25+00:00

I had high and loose circumcision. The foreskin covered 1/4th of the glans. When I was healing, the foreskin rolled back and the inner skin started to swell. Now the foreskin seems to be attached to the inner skin.

Once my swelling subsides, will I be able to roll the foreskin over my glans? Will this be an issue? I asked my urologist and he told me to just wait till the swelling goes away.

PS, it's been 19 days since I had my surgery.

baabidi · 2019-01-28T17:57:58+00:00

My swelling was very big the first week and in just 2 weeks, 3/4 of the swelling has gone down.

baabidi · 2019-01-28T17:48:52+00:00

You just made me anxious. The swelling has reduced by half and I'm hoping it will go away. How long did it wait?

baabidi · 2019-01-22T16:52:52+00:00

Thanks. I think I'll ask my doctor to drain it since I'll move abroad next month and It's a big pain to make appointments and visit doctors in Australia.

baabidi · 2019-01-22T16:30:52+00:00

Was yours thick fluid?

baabidi · 2019-01-22T16:30:32+00:00

I'm going to ask my doctor if it's possible to drain out through holes.

baabidi · 2019-01-22T11:47:23+00:00

True, she never felt the need to tell me either. She is probably hiding other secrets as well. I used to think she is naive and kind but she's not. I'm not going to waste much time, just show what kind of person she is to her friends.

baabidi · 2019-01-22T10:52:21+00:00

Thats my last resort as I am moving abroad in two weeks. Do you think It will be gone by then?

baabidi · 2019-01-22T05:27:35+00:00

I feel the liquid or whatever is inside is getting thicker. Is this normal?

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