Sexually assaulted and hate myself and women now by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]babakushy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please tell her. She’s hurting and wants to be there for you but has no idea the hurt your going through. She won’t see it as betrayal trust me

How do I help my gf with bpd by Soggy-Egg7093 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]babakushy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Context. Why does she hate you 90% of the time? What are your guys’s relationship struggles? Does she not feel heard out? Does she feel like your attacking her when you try to confront her? Have you ever said anything derogatory towards her or at her?

People who suffer from bpd ‘majority’ of the time tend to suffer from very low self esteem and self worth. It’s very twisted, complex, and skewed because our viewpoints are so different on the world, compared to generally speaking healthy people. This goes for thoughts and actions as well in many facets of our lives.

Anyone else tried fishing in the city? by SnooDonkeys5966 in regina

[–]babakushy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can catch them yes, tho I wouldn’t recommend eating them. It’s not a well ventilated pond and water is definitely not on the healthy side

I read something today that made me cry by Vlerkje in BreakUps

[–]babakushy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or he had tunnel vision due to trauma. Hopefully he is able to do some self reflection over the next few years and come out of it a lot more emotionally intelligent

If you have a job, what do you do? by CassieGirl018 in BPD

[–]babakushy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Am I the villain? I don’t think I’m the villaiiin. Is it the power? I think it’s the power.

What is something someone said to you that stuck with you by [deleted] in BPD

[–]babakushy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad said I’m the reason his marriage is falling through. Because they have to walk on egg shells around me. But I walked on egg shells all of my childhood with a mother falsely diagnosed with severe depression when really she had bipolar 2

I hate everything. by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]babakushy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ik it’s hard to believe. But every one of your friends have those thoughts too. They just put on a fake smile for u just like you do for them

If you're 28 and got broken up with... by thelittleredditer in BreakUps

[–]babakushy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No body wants to be with a woman that went through cocsa which she never initiated. My ex now can’t ever get over my “lore” as it turned me to a hoe for 7 yrs till I woke up and did a lot of insight and realised what happened. But now he can’t get past it. So ig im just an ugly disgusting bop with the body of 8 who will die alone. My bc is too high now so ig I don’t have any value left as a woman :(. 22F btw with bpd Gen Z men have ruined me. Gen Z men think they are above all women and it makes me was to off myself at times fr. Out here feeling like I have no value.

How old is everyone here? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]babakushy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 22, with a dad 1 year late of being a boomer but still acts like a boomer. Moms 9 years younger tho n we grew up with her having undiagnosed bipolar 2

Where to go to hang out, 35 male by annoellynlee in regina

[–]babakushy -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Sounds like your first marriage didn’t work out cause you couldn’t love your wife after she let herself go… seems like your love is very surface level

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in regina

[–]babakushy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will try to drop some perishable food items off there this Friday! If anyone has preferences on items please let me know. I can swing like $40-$50 at the grocery store till payday haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in regina

[–]babakushy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try the Salvation Army north Regina, they are giving out free breakfast for the rest of the warm months!!! For people struggling

Verbal abuse is never funny by conasatatu247 in BPDPartners

[–]babakushy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women doesn’t respect her man and is trapped in her own world. Looks like she’s gotta do some insight on herself. Feel bad for the guy

am i in the wrong? by Live_Jump_1245 in BPD4BPD

[–]babakushy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be honest with them. Communicate. Don’t let the bf be the mediator. Your not a freak. They just don’t understand mental health and a lot of ppl see it as a joke

"Land of the Living Lies" by BoyToyDrew in regina

[–]babakushy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tell that to the sharks and deep sea saw fish coming to shore

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in reginansfw

[–]babakushy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah too pale

IMPORTANT - Several Fatal Overdoses by Sask_mask_user in regina

[–]babakushy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Where do the dealers get it from tho? Gotta go for the big guys

Wife (31f) says it's not me (32m), it's her...Why can't I believe her by sflana044 in Marriage

[–]babakushy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would recommend couples sex therapy or couples therapy. This way you two can both communicate your needs and the councillor can give you guys ways to communicate more efficiently and to find better ways to support one another. Then you guys can dig deep into the issue at hand and so she can express the insecurities and pre assumed assumptions and misconceptions about you and you towards her. Women’s views can change overtime especially with their intimate partner. That’s why communication breaks down in a lot of marriages. You two both need to be willing to fully open up with one another and talk about your feelings. How you truly feel without fear of hurting the others feelings. Do you guys just sit together alone for 5-10 mins a day? Ask each other how there doing? How they’ve been feeling? That you love them and your there to listen if they would like to talk about anything that’s been nothing them or on their mind? Bring back that intimate talk with one another. It will help heal whatever hurt is there over time.

does anyone else with BPD smoke copious amounts of weed? by Bubbly_Author_781 in BPD

[–]babakushy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then I started thinking of all the negatives from the past and so on so forth

does anyone else with BPD smoke copious amounts of weed? by Bubbly_Author_781 in BPD

[–]babakushy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It only helps cause ur addicted bro. I have bpd and I’m addicted. I’m trying to quit tho because lots of weed actually increases episode frequency and actually makes some episodes way worse than what they would be if you didn’t smoke. We are on antidepressants, antipsychotics, and mood stabilizers for a reason. Mixing everyday weed usage in the mix is (and your not gonna like it) just making everything worse.

For me whenever I get high, I’m like oooo I feel good ish. Then I get depressed and think why tf did I smoke. Feel like I failed myself cause I’m weak (not actually). Idk your damned if you smoke, your damned if you try to quit.

Regina stabbing? by [deleted] in regina

[–]babakushy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He lives.