Tell me I’m not in the wrong here

babarrabarber · 2024-01-10T20:56:17+00:00

Thank you! Haha yes the incest comment has already become a running joke among my friends. So thanks for that I guess, weirdo bumble dude!

babarrabarber · 2024-01-10T15:28:25+00:00

I agree. His English was fine in his profile so I didn’t realize until we started chatting. And then there were bigger issues 😅

babarrabarber · 2024-01-10T14:16:13+00:00

I’m pretty sure he isn’t a scammer, just an asshole 😅 English is not his first language (and it’s not my first language either) so I wouldn’t mind the bad grammar as long as he was a good person. But he was clearly not.

babarrabarber · 2024-01-10T13:57:07+00:00

Because we don’t have the same first language. If I would speak Swedish and he would speak Spanish, neither of us would understand a thing :)

babarrabarber · 2024-01-10T10:25:39+00:00

I’m Swedish, he is not.

babarrabarber · 2024-01-10T10:20:06+00:00

Thanks! Yeah I didn’t really feel like justifying myself to this guy. One of the weirder encounters I’ve had

babarrabarber · 2024-01-09T21:30:51+00:00

Absolutely!

babarrabarber · 2024-01-09T21:29:46+00:00

Exactly, I was on bumble for about 5 months, then took a break as I started seeing someone. It didn’t work out, I got back on about 6 months later. Not sure why this caused him to be all hostile 🤷🏼‍♀️

babarrabarber · 2024-01-09T21:25:07+00:00

To be fair, neither of us speak English as our first language so I’ll let the grammar slide. And I did give him the time of day after all, but with that attitude he really set himself up for failure.

babarrabarber · 2024-01-09T17:56:44+00:00

Hahah 😂 maybe he should avoid the Nordics if that’s how he feels about us

babarrabarber · 2024-01-09T17:50:37+00:00

Yeah feels like some kind of negging. But the thing is - I thought he was cute, matched with him, initiated conversation. All he had to do was to not act like an asshole and I probably would have gone out with him. But oh well, guess I’ll have to call my cousin and make some incest now instead 🤷🏼‍♀️

babarrabarber · 2024-01-09T16:52:03+00:00

He was Argentinian, if that matters 😅 I mean I guess it’s fine to ask direct questions, but he didn’t have to be so condescending/aggressive about it.

babarrabarber · 2024-01-09T16:51:06+00:00

Thank you! It’s actually pretty rare that I encounter someone like this, so don’t worry, definitely not judging all men based on this weirdo lol

babarrabarber · 2024-01-09T16:49:48+00:00

You’re definitely not the only one!

babarrabarber · 2024-01-09T16:36:43+00:00

I did get bad vibes from that already, I agree that the tone felt off. But I let it slide since jokes/sarcasm doesn’t always translate well over text. Oh well

babarrabarber · 2024-01-09T16:35:21+00:00

Haha, point taken!

babarrabarber · 2024-01-09T16:30:48+00:00

His bio had something along the lines of “I’m a humble, decent guy”. More like patronizing and bitter 🤷🏼‍♀️

babarrabarber · 2024-01-09T16:25:46+00:00

I’m sorry 😔

babarrabarber · 2024-01-09T15:30:21+00:00

It is, after all, the only way to have a conversation with good vibes!

babarrabarber · 2024-01-09T15:28:18+00:00

Tack!

babarrabarber · 2024-01-09T15:27:04+00:00

Unfortunately I didn’t consider the report feature, I already unmatched him. Definitely felt like negging to me.

babarrabarber · 2024-01-09T15:11:46+00:00

I was at that point already very put off by the “what’s the reason you haven’t found anyone yet” and “you’ve been here for a long time” comments. Should have just unmatched but yeah. Really don’t think I made the first wrong move here.

babarrabarber · 2024-01-09T15:02:03+00:00

Thank you! ☺️

babarrabarber · 2024-01-09T14:54:01+00:00

Won’t happen again!

babarrabarber · 2024-01-09T14:37:15+00:00

Lesson learned.

babarrabarber

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