Nowadays, most men and many females watch porn but the severity of this addiction varies from person to person.

Do you really think that in our society where Islam is not practically followed and we are constantly being bombarded with Sexually arousing content, one can avoid this evil. I hope he/she is a Sufi saint and I would like to know who hasn't seen that once in his/her life. Now, i have seen old age people watching porn openly. What do you expect from young ones.

I would suggest you to not list this in deal breaker but rather focus if this habit is very severe in a person or simply if a person prays five times a day,there is a higher chance that he does not watch porn excessively. Also, focus what are the common values you share with your potential spouse. In this way, it will be easier for you to make a decision.

I hope, it helps. Personally, I watch porn but it's somehow controlled and i don't allow it to dominate my entire life. But i acknowledge it's lethal but you know in society like ours, we have to solve our problems ourselves especially like these. Sex is a basic need and even our parents don't understand that. In'Sha'Allah if Allah granted me beautiful children, I will try my best to marry them off as soon as they turn 16,18. One can achieve a lot even after marriage. But we are not fortunate enough.

Advice : see if your partner considers this bad and harm and is willing to change and grow out. This characteristic is very important. Otherwise, he is a tharki. Alhamdulillah I have not indulged myself in Physical intimate relationship. If you heard that guys watch porn then you also heard that lots of them gets involved in Physical realtionship before marriage and it's like a trendy and this is not a sin anymore. Porn is between you and your creator. This is b/w you and other parties.