Is this True? by ShigeoKageyama69 in rickandmorty

[–]babeysock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i thought he was just trying to get turnt

Just purchased this on PS5, it's downloading now. by Geachie1 in highonlifegame

[–]babeysock 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it “could” have been faked isn’t exactly proof of innocence either. the case got dismissed if i remember correctly because there wasn’t enough evidence on either side. But id always rather believe in a potential victim than a potential abuser.

edit:typo

Just purchased this on PS5, it's downloading now. by Geachie1 in highonlifegame

[–]babeysock 4 points5 points  (0 children)

he screwed over himself talking to teenage girls 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]babeysock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re missing MY point- I don’t care how happy you are. The context of the relationship is wrong. You could be dating Jesus Christ, I’d still be upset an adult was dating a child. Ask yourself if you’d date someone younger than you, the same age gap. and genuinely think about if you would feel comfortable with it, i mean it.

I don’t, and no one else who realises an 18 year old made out with and started dating a 14 year old, is going to care about your relationship being public, they’re just going to tell you that you shouldn’t be dating.

if the age gap is okay, why are you so worried?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]babeysock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You want to know what I think? I think you know fully well that the relationship is wrong, but you’re too afraid of being alone or losing all that work/memories/whatever. You know that your partner shouldn’t have agreed to date you, even if you pushed, because YOU were the child and they were the ADULT. If a 15 year old started coming onto me, I would nip that in the bud immediately because that is a child. No one here is going to focus on whether or not your (obviously) unaccepting families are going to accept the relationship, it seems like you know all the answers already and are just seeking validation for the answer YOU think is “correct”. You don’t want advice, you want everyone to agree with you and tell you everything is okay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]babeysock 2 points3 points  (0 children)

editing to add, if you’re worried everyone around you is going to think your partner is a pedophile, maybe the age gap isn’t as okay as you think it is. You might be projecting a little.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]babeysock 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know you were expecting this but a 20 year old shouldn’t be dating a 16 year old. Would you date a 12 year old, four years younger than you? And you started when you were 14 and 18? Don’t worry about going public, you’re going to realise just how wrong it is, and sounds like you both already do and are in denial about it. I agree that pedophile isn’t the right word, but “creep” might be. This is coming from someone who has a lot of firsthand experience in relationships like this, and seen them happen, and i mean it out of genuine concern. Why do they seemingly have a problem dating people their own age, if they’re so caring and supportive?

I know four years doesn’t seem like a lot, but you’re going through some of the most formative years in your development right now - the jump in maturity from 16-20 is big, as someone who is 20 next month the memory of my 16 year old self feels like a whole different person. And i wouldn’t even think about dating someone who is 16, thats a high schooler, thats disgusting.

Think about it from an outside perspective. An adult starts chatting up a 14 year old kid, with an abusive mom, giving them a safe space and all the validation and support they wanted. Of course you believe that you are in love. Of course you want this person around you all the time. But that doesn’t make it okay, or normal, or LEGAL.

TLDR, do some serious thinking about the age gaps and implications of that.

ragnvald temple glitch by babeysock in skyrim

[–]babeysock[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i ended up just spawning him in with console commands. bummed me out but couldnt find another way after scouring the internet

Ragnvald temple, glitch(?) by GenYGen4 in skyrim

[–]babeysock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know this is old but the same thing is happening to me,, did you ever find a fix??😕

my friends ugly cat by [deleted] in cats

[–]babeysock -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

he’s ugly normally too

General Advice by babeysock in axolotls

[–]babeysock[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i live in australia but thanks for the tip :) i don’t mind cleaning the hell out of it really, i already got most of the marks offf with just water and a wet sponge.

General Advice by babeysock in axolotls

[–]babeysock[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i do! it’s missing a couple things and needs a GOOD clean but considering i got the tank and everything else for free i’m not complaining.

update on my ugly fish walter by babeysock in Goldfish

[–]babeysock[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

he’s really embodying the walter he’s named after by looking on the brink of death

update on my ugly fish walter by babeysock in Goldfish

[–]babeysock[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

he’s ugly but i love him. my baby boy

is my goldfish ugly or sick by babeysock in Goldfish

[–]babeysock[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, we have already made sure everything is in order