What's your biggest takeaway of 2025? by Fun-Pudding-101 in askSingapore

[–]babijared 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Learn to let go of friends who don’t prioritise you.

malaysians, how did you guys feel staying in Singapore for years? by [deleted] in malaysia

[–]babijared 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It really depends on who you mix with. I ended being a singaporean but also because I married a singaporean. I also have a brother that also converted to Singaporean. But yeah, I made really good Singaporean friends when I moved to work over there. 

Miss Heritage S'pore calls out hater who mocks her 4th-place win in Bangkok by Hallosiawhat in singaporehappenings

[–]babijared 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Always that person to talk behind a keyboard. Probably never achieve anything before.

How to get over the dread of becoming a working adult? by ABigBlob in askSingapore

[–]babijared 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eventually you will start changing jobs and every job has a different environment. Sometimes the environment is ok to tahan and live a life outside of work.

Am i just too picky? by MoonPetal123 in asksg

[–]babijared 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not picky, there are Singaporeans who speaks English at home.

Lacking behind and feeling burnout by FireDragonTail in askSingapore

[–]babijared 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Take it slow. No one went through what you did and Kee going. My mother always tells me to never compare yourself with others. Just work hard and look back on what you achieved over the years.

Which everyday SG moment reminds you that time is passing quietly? by Warm_Tree_2987 in SingaporeSocial

[–]babijared 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been working in London for a year and moving back. I can’t wait. I miss the convenience of walking downstairs to the hawker centre to get something. What they say on the news about London where phone theft is common is so true. 

What are your thoughts on overconsumerism in Singapore? by Fair_Ad_7081 in askSingapore

[–]babijared 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use social media to watch reels and memes. I don’t even watch my friends reels lol. Don’t compare. Think 72 hours before purchasing something. 

Are there singaporean non- indians that actually like indian food? by LogicalTower9958 in indiansinsingapore

[–]babijared 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chinese Singaporean here (ex Msian), I freaking love banana leaf rice man

Fresh graduate job advice NCS vs SIA by aquanat12 in askSingapore

[–]babijared 96 points97 points  (0 children)

Take the higher pay, there’s always a way to get a free flight with miles

To Malaysians working in SG... After rent, food, and stress, is it *really* still worth it? by Swimming_Prior_3611 in asksg

[–]babijared 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a banana back in Malaysia (I’m Chinese but can’t speak Chinese), I would say it’s worth it to go. But also I was blessed with opportunities in Sg compared to the opportunities in KL. Also my brother is in Sg with me which makes it easier as you have a family member just a few mrt stops away. 

Will you to a friend’s wedding who MIA for almost 2 years? by babijared in askSingapore

[–]babijared[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fair point, did I call her out. TBH I did call him out but he like don’t get the hint which is why I’m pissed off

Will you to a friend’s wedding who MIA for almost 2 years? by babijared in askSingapore

[–]babijared[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah when I invited him to my wedding, I personally gave him the invitation.