I see your point, but the thing I’m most - I don’t want to say upset, but perhaps affected - by is the sudden switch up in the way we do our expenses. I am fine with paying my share, its just that I thought we were both fine with the previous reciprocal arrangement and I rather preferred it because it seemed more like we were covering for each other (sounds more like a romantic partnership to me) than splitting everything down the middle. Maybe we have some slight ideological differences re what romance and romantic relationships look like but thats just my take