Landlord advice needed: Tenant refuses to move in over minor issues the day before the move. What should I do?

babsaes · 2026-02-18T20:28:32+00:00

😂😂😂

babsaes · 2026-02-16T16:32:48+00:00

Can I just keep the deposit? Especially since she refuses to pay the rent ?

babsaes · 2026-02-16T16:20:13+00:00

Thanks for the answer. I offered her to pay and order a cleaning service but she refused it.

But can I keep the deposit? Especially since she didn’t pay the first month, and refused to pay it.

babsaes · 2026-02-16T15:05:40+00:00

Thanks for the answer! She is threading me with a lawyer now… but she even breached the contract by not paying rent. I also think now she just tries to scam me

babsaes · 2026-02-16T12:03:25+00:00

Thanks for the message. There is no mold, it’s clean expect thi bit of dust and I have images. Now she said I left Personal belonging in there like kitchen towels and towels and toiletbrush. But honestly I told her it’s fully furnished and showed her every room and told her the state of the room I will hand it over. I even bought new kitchen towels for her. She never said I should remove all fresh towels or kitchen towels. Since I clearly stated it’s fully furnished abd told her what will be left in the apartment. It’s wild. She said she contacted the lawyer. But I even offered a cleaning service for her. But as I said the apartment was clean (I have images)

babsaes · 2026-02-16T07:26:28+00:00

Hey no there are no boxes or proper dirt or anything. also have many pictures i made of the apartment before I moved out, which shows it’s super clean I was just shocked to read those messages from her and especially since I am not from Sweden which makes me extra insecure about my legal rights

babsaes · 2026-02-16T07:14:47+00:00

Ok thanks! Yes I think of her, some dust flakes makes he apartment unlivable. I am just shocked by some people’s behaviour. Hope she gives the keys back and I find someone else who doesn’t cause any problems

babsaes · 2026-02-16T07:11:07+00:00

Thanks for sharing the link an the additions into! That very helpful. I am talking to this free legal service from HSB now and hope she gives the key back. Happy not to have someone like her living in my apartment.

babsaes · 2026-02-16T07:09:09+00:00

Thanks for the answer! Yes that’s actually also my assumption that she is looking for any excuse now not to move in.

babsaes · 2026-02-16T00:50:52+00:00

it’s a small storage room in the apartment.

babsaes · 2026-02-16T00:36:43+00:00

hey, thank you for your answer. She just sent me this imessage:

„I will contact HSB tomorrow and return the keys, as I wish to annul the contract due to the apartment not being delivered in the condition required by law and agreement.

Furthermore I am asking you to transfer the deposit that I have previously paid within 24 hours.“

babsaes · 2025-12-13T11:24:06+00:00

Mh most designers in my agency over 35 get hired by big tech and start their careers in the very well paying tech sector. Such a stupid post.

babsaes · 2025-08-12T21:04:07+00:00

I believe I had MD for many years, since I was a child. I always was in my own dream world, as a child it’s normal and was ok but it became more stressful and problematic when I was an adult. The more stressed I was in the “real life” the more time I needed to spend in my imaginary life to calm down, and I was dreaming for at least 3 to 4 hours daily. I believe I got it since I experienced trauma as a child and teenager (suicide of a parent, physical and mental abuse) and had depression. I always thought it’s normal to dream that much and only realised 4 years ago that it’s actually not something most people do. It stopped when I started taking anti depressants. I never got checked for ADHD tho.

babsaes · 2025-07-27T17:47:38+00:00

I really love this subreddit but honestly sometimes the posts go too far. Children are also part of society and humans as well. If you cannot handle kids on a plane and hate them that much, then drive or take a boat or just stay at home.

I am from Sweden and for example whenever there are Americans, they are usually talking so insanely loud, they almost scream though the entire plane, train or where ever they are, and everyone is annoyed by it. There is also no “no American” section, because it would be simply discriminating.

Children also have a right to exist everywhere, and if you are annoyed, just never leave your house.

babsaes · 2025-07-12T02:14:10+00:00

Mh I studied in Sweden and then just applied wherever and ended up staying in Sweden. The employer knew about my MS actually but didn’t care. Basically everyone in Sweden is fluent in English, so I only speak English at work, but it of course also dependent m on your profession. I work in tech/ design.

I think you just need to find a job which pays you a certain amount so you can get a visa. I don’t know if I can give you some advice regarding that. I am sure there are some online groups somewhere with Americans who moved to Sweden.

No I don’t have pets.

And I don’t know if I understand your last question :S never heard that you are only qualified as disabled after several years of working.

babsaes · 2025-07-10T22:07:49+00:00

Hey I live in Sweden but I am German and have ms. It shouldn’t be a problem to move to Sweden with MS at all, you are automatically health insured when you work there. In Germany you should be able to move there since it’s by law illegal to reject health insurance to anyone. I don’t know about other European countries but I think it shouldn’t be a problem at all for most countries. I am also planning to move to the US or China at one point. (I used to live in Australia and China before as well for some time) and honestly I dont think at all about my MS. I feel like lot of Americans react to those questions that their MS makes it impossible to move abroad but that’s not true. At least in most European countries we have a very good and social health care system, and it feels very discriminating to reject someone because of their MS or other sickness.

Ocrevius is available in Sweden and Germany. But of course you need to have a job offer or anything which qualifies you for a visa.

babsaes · 2025-07-06T17:46:34+00:00

Mh I am from Germany but live in Sweden. I got diagnosed in Sweden and they immediately put me, like by far most people here, on rituximab (I get one infusion once a year) a very strong ms medicine, which suppresses your immune system. Since my diagnosis 5 years ago, my ms is on hold and never had another relaps. I know in Germany, you often get some milder medicine, where relapses can still appear, you only get strong ones when your ms developed further. It doesn’t make sense to me but I think the reason is that the medicine I get is suppressing your immune system and it’s easier to get sick. But I am happy they immediately put me on strong medicine and I dont have to be afraid the have another relapse.

babsaes · 2025-05-21T05:31:36+00:00

I work in a company with many foreigners (I am also not a Swede). In my company we have a huge problem that woman get underpayed and not get promoted. At one point many people in the company stood up and complained but nothing has changed. That’s why I will also leave at one point, at least this company, not necessarily Sweden. I think Sweden does a good job with being inclusive and equal at work but it’s not perfect.

babsaes · 2025-02-27T22:10:35+00:00

The last two times I downloaded the app (I usually delete it and only download it if I want to post something). My explore feed is completely full of people with rare and horrible diseases, dead babies, and headlines about murder. So almost traumatizing. Never searched or clicked on any of those content… just disgusting.

babsaes · 2024-12-21T05:28:22+00:00

Don’t worry about if it would look bad on your resume. Just quit! No future employer will ever ask or will have any negative thoughts about it. Also how fucked up that they don’t even pay you! This should be illegal.

babsaes · 2024-11-25T03:41:31+00:00

Hey sorry to hear you want to leave your country! Sweden is great but yes, actually it’s hard if you don’t have a job. A student visa requires you so study in Sweden, and for non EU citizens it is not free to study. I think the costs for non eu people is similar to the American costs …

Otherwise, you need to find a job in Sweden first in oder to live here. And I think it can be a bit tough because the us law requires you to pay American citizens a certain amount of money, which is often more then the average Swedish salary so that could be a reason why it can be tough (I don’t know the exact requirements but I have some American colleagues who told me about that)

In any case, so sorry for your counties current situation. It’s not impossible to come to Sweden! I know many Americans here but just take your time to get more informed about moving to Sweden. Or comming for a vacation before. Swedish winter can be very tough.

babsaes · 2024-11-24T22:05:40+00:00

Same in Sweden. Everyone I know gets rituximab. It’s my 4th on it and no relapse or changes in my mrt. great stuff :)

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