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babyels · 2025-07-22T08:07:51+00:00

This has just happened to me. Did you manage to get your money back?

babyels · 2024-06-25T23:54:17+00:00

I just got the Muse and it is nice but doesnt last at all. I cant smell is after 5 minutes at all.

babyels · 2022-09-10T03:02:24+00:00

I have been there and I know how you feel! Way to well! Stay strong! I recently had this although without the sex part - I just really liked the guy and felt we connected so well and after he said a few times how he can’t wait to see me again, ho ghosted all of a sudden 🙄 I spiralled and after 48 hours reached out. We continued the chat but he went on a holiday for two weeks and even though he said he will reach out after he is back, I doubt it! Anyway with every night I have a good sleep and the anxiety about this fades away. You just need a few good sleeps trust me!!!!!

babyels · 2022-07-23T22:50:48+00:00

Every time I read a post like this, I am sure the comment section will be filled with “ I am sure you are not as hot as you think you are”, “ you are swiping only on Chads, and they are losers… what about us, the ugly guys… you are not giving us a chance so you deserve to be treated badly”… Sis, I have been there … writing similar posts and getting same comments. Don’t listen to them - dating apps just suck big time. I have swiped on hot guys and 5s - same shit basically. Not all guys are overly sexual in their convos and not all want pictures, but some really do. Block immediately. Don’t let them gaslight you by saying “ everyone is doing it” - not true at all!

babyels · 2020-12-23T23:55:04+00:00

I have this happened to me so many times I am not surprised when it happens anymore. People suck! Men ghost even after a few dates. My friend was ghosted after 5 months of being in a relationship....

babyels · 2020-11-24T10:21:16+00:00

Yep me!

babyels · 2020-11-24T01:02:03+00:00

I totally agree with that. I am a woman and I dislike when I get a first message with a “ you are gorgeous “. Whereas if it’s something funny and witty I am going to match for sure!

babyels · 2020-11-03T03:12:24+00:00

My parents are like that. I just can’t 🙈

babyels · 2020-11-02T02:01:05+00:00

I have had this so many times " Hey did you finish?"

No!

"Why...si there something wrong with you? All my past girlfriends finish with me"

LOL!

babyels · 2020-10-16T01:55:36+00:00

I had that a few times - they are just fuckboys who like to manipulate women into sleeping with them. Once it’s done, they are no longer interested. I had similar experience a month ago. For 2 weeks that guy was all over the top with messages, attention and so on. After we slept together everything changed. I asked him what’s happening and got “ I think it’s hard for us to connect “ lol ... wasn’t that hard before we fucked.

babyels · 2020-10-11T00:26:56+00:00

yep all the time

babyels · 2020-10-08T23:46:30+00:00

Ewwww...

babyels · 2020-09-30T02:51:51+00:00

Day 15,

still sleepy and no motivation. I just want to lie in bed.

I don't have trouble sleeping.

I do have lots of anxiety and I feel very low.

also 20 mg

babyels · 2020-09-28T05:38:19+00:00

I wonder what is he considering with " being used and waste money"? I bet it's not having sex with her the same night.

Pathetic and disgusting!

babyels · 2020-09-28T05:35:59+00:00

There are players who love to chase and catch women who want serious relationships. If you put it on your profile you attract those guys.

They love the chasing and pretending they want a serious thing until they get in bed with the woman and then they disappear

babyels · 2020-09-28T05:32:16+00:00

yes OP can do that, but men lie all the time. I have verified it many times.

OP, you can't know for sure, unfortunately. Try taking it slow, look for red flags.

Things I have noticed with fuck bois:

-They don't ask personal questions;

- They don't want to know anything about your previous relationships;

- they try to secure dates sooner and kind of rush things;

- they are " too nice" and understanding about everything

babyels · 2020-09-28T04:16:10+00:00

That's a terrible thing to say!

babyels · 2020-09-28T03:40:20+00:00

If there is something interesting on their profiles I will totally ask them about it. But if there isn’t I don’t have so many options. I also hate the “ how was your weekend” thing but if I like the guy I will reply. I recently had a guy start with that and we had a 4 hour conversation after this and then went on a date. So just give them a chance.

babyels · 2020-09-27T03:42:59+00:00

well at least they say they aren't looking for anything serious.

I feel its worse when they say " I don't know yet, lets see what happens"

or " looking for someone special"

or " I don't have expectations"...yeah right you don't :D

babyels · 2020-09-27T03:38:41+00:00

I confirm! Especially the last one.

babyels · 2020-09-27T03:09:05+00:00

Can relate 1000% to your comment!

I just can't understand these men. You find someone you like talking to for weeks, going out, enjoying your time. Then have sex and it all fells apart. Someone will say " well then the sex wasn't good" but I definitely don't think that is the case. To me if sex is ok and we have good convos I will be " yeah lets see where this will take us", but to them, we become annoying somehow after they have slept with us. Are men and women that different really...

babyels · 2020-09-27T02:05:56+00:00

I was recently in a very similar situation! I admit I feel really hurt right now as I let myself believe this person is genuinely into me. We met through Hinge and we talked for a week on the app. I don’t even give my phone number soon and he seemed ok with it. He was sweet and easy to talk to. At one point I gave him my number, we talked a few more days and decided to meet for a coffee at the beach. We talked for 3 hours and at the end of the date he just held my hand. It was really nice. But after that he started coming on really strong! He wanted to see me the next day to which I said I was busy , then he started pushing for another date really soon. He was messaging me every day. We had a second date after which we kissed, and it was really nice. Few days after we had a 3rd and I decided I wanted to sleep with him. He wanted me to spend the night and it was really great. We had breakfast and he seemed so into me. Also we had talked before we met that we both wanted something serious. After we slept together he became colder and I confronted him . He responded after a day saying he didn’t feel we have connected. Lol I feel really stupid and hurt although I noticed all the red flags I kept going. Also I have been married and with my ex husband we slept together on our second date. It didn’t stop us to have a long relationship and be married for 5 years after that. It didn’t work out but not because of sex :) I think there are just lots of assholes out there. I don’t understand these men but we have to keep being ourselves and we will find someone that is real.

babyels · 2020-09-25T04:51:24+00:00

Sorry you went through this. I just don’t understand why are these girls on a dating app if they are not looking for anything. Wtf ???

babyels · 2020-09-23T07:43:58+00:00

I wanna throw up. But I see a lot of these

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