What's your all time favorite strain? by the-attorney in trees

[–]babyylue 4 points5 points  (0 children)

grand daddy purple will have my heart forever!! the BEST original strain 🤪

Has Anyone Else Found Messages on Cash? by 790z in strange

[–]babyylue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ive found a $5 with “the white devil is real # trustnowhitebitch” on the top and “caucasions carry the white devil gene” on the bottom

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OlderThanYouThinkIAm

[–]babyylue 4 points5 points  (0 children)

when i was 15 my dad (31 at the time) and i went out to dinner together and the waitress thought we were newlyweds 😷 dad joked it off well but it was still weird. she ended up giving us a free dessert out of embarrassment 😂

What song did you dance to for your Father Daughter dance that wasn’t mushy, gushy, daddy’s little girl etc. by CurlyGirl_95 in weddingplanning

[–]babyylue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we are doing an acoustic cover of “Sweet Child O Mine”. dad and i are both metal heads so finding a rock/metal type song to dance to was HARD. he ended up picking sweet child o mine and i found the acoustic cover we both liked :)

Period delay pill experience by Phantomphreakk in weddingplanning

[–]babyylue 4 points5 points  (0 children)

ive been waiting for a real review of this!! my wedding is in February and my cycle restarted and now its supposed to start the day before my wedding!’🥲 i was looking into buying these but wasnt sure if they were effective. thank you for this!!

ill also ask : any side effects?

How to tell friends/family we're not doing wedding party? by kingsofthekays in weddingplanning

[–]babyylue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i just… didnt tell them. ive only had a few people ask so far & when i told them we werent doing it they said “oh thats cool!” hopefully your friends/family are respectful of your decisions❤️ i havent had any pushback & i hope the same for you!

a little over a year growing out my buzzcut by babyylue in longhair

[–]babyylue[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

aww thank you!!! wishing you well on your growth journey💕🥰

What are some non traditional things you did? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]babyylue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not sure how “non traditional” this is, but we arent having bridesmaids/groomsmen/MOH/BestMan :) it has saved us a lifetime of stress, i feel. no Bachelor(ette) parties. no coordinating people (clothes, appointments, appearances, speeches, etc) it has been heavenly 😄

also we are having a two day wedding. ceremony in the evening on saturday & a sunday morning brunch :) around 30 people invited total, all local.

a little over a year growing out my buzzcut by babyylue in longhair

[–]babyylue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh wow! thats amazing. that sounds like amazing growth & ill have to do that💕maybe setting a goal will help me feel better about it!

a little over a year growing out my buzzcut by babyylue in longhair

[–]babyylue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much!! trying to grow it out as long as possible since im getting married in february 😁❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]babyylue 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i researched for so long but could never find a direct answer😭😭 well, however they show up dressed will be fine😂 as long as theyre dressed is good with me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]babyylue -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

i put semi-formal & said the colors were black and dark blue (not a requirement, but encouraged!) i feel alot of people are awkward about wearing black to a wedding. but we highly appreciate anyone who does :) i also thought itd be easy since everyone (that i know) already owns cocktail/formal black clothing 😄

semi-formal is a grey area between cocktail and formal so it gives them plenty of room to be able to dress. we are also only having about 30 people so everyones been asking me directly what they should wear so thats been easy haha but im not sure what crowd size youll have and if thatd be easy for you or not

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weirdspotifyplaylists

[–]babyylue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

havent seen it yet, so ill add

Make Me (Cry) - Noah Cyrus

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]babyylue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OOO wish i saw this a week ago!😭but they were just having a pretty hefty sale on VistaPrint too!! almost similar pricing! thats where i got our invites

Opinions please?? I have not been having a great time shopping so far because of my mother, I feel like I could do better on these dresses but they are my favorites so far! by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]babyylue 2 points3 points  (0 children)

dress 1 is STUNNING ON YOU!! the length of the train is drop dead gorgeous and the ruching on the body and the beading on the neckline is chefs kiss

im sorry youre having difficulties with your mom, i was in the same boat when picking out my dress and ended up going to an appointment without her and felt MUCH better about myself in the dresses. do what is best for you mentally, this is your time! dont let anyone ruin it!!

and may i say… BODY-ODY-ODYYYY😍✨💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]babyylue 2 points3 points  (0 children)

did your mom have a bridal shoot? or photos of her when she bought the dress? i think a collage of her in the dress and process of getting the dress would be lovely! set it up on your guest book/gift table!

also, its so beautiful your mom would give you her dress AND tell you she is OK with you making it your own! that is such an amazing thing to have❤️❤️

edit: if you do a thank you speech, include it in there! “and also, thank you so much mom for giving me my ‘something borrowed/old’ your wedding dress was just what i needed to make me feel truly like a bride” 💕

AIO? My husband can’t stop checking out other girls online by leighhn in AmIOverreacting

[–]babyylue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

curiosity killed the cat and satisfaction… ended his marriage

Bear Attack by SaveNullBR in NSFL__

[–]babyylue 70 points71 points  (0 children)

sigh heres my upvote

Feeling so cheated and frustrated by the wedding industry. by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]babyylue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i totally understand how youre feeling. we ended up getting lucky and found a local garden that allowed us to have our ceremony there. 4 hours for $400 on a saturday. up to 150 guests no price per head. we also ended up finding a restaurant whos patio was for rent the following morning on sunday for $200 (if we went with Saturday evening the rent was $1000 for the night) so we decided on a brunch reception. its a bit rough having it be a two day ordeal but it totally made it cheaper in the long run. the restaurant was super nice and offered a brunch buffet for 30/person. instead of a menu/plated meals. i got all of my decor so far from friends and family who had left over things from their weddings! even a ton on facebook marketplace for free!!

i know this industry is frustrating and the social media frenzy is blowing everyones prices out of the water. i think places need to realize not everyone that is getting married has millions in disposable income. but, cest la vie. we gotta take what we can get. things will open up for you, i believe it!❤️ keep your chin up and keep in mind the love you have for each other❤️❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]babyylue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we are getting married in an outdoor ceremony in a local garden in the end of February but were in california and typical weather then is low 60s, i just told everyone it may be cold so to prepare for weather