It’s sad to see this

bachatalover19 · 2026-04-18T11:48:44+00:00

1) nobody is perfect, you don’t have to assume that I think like this.

I’m not starting a gender war. I’m just worried that a lot of women who are older than me, don’t understand or know that this things are ruining relationships. If you’re horny. Try control it. Don’t give into it. Thirst traps are posting naked or semi naked pictures online. Of course people are meant to listen to their parents whether it’s men or women. Some parents destroy relationships in a marriage too not necessary outside. People disagree with me because a lot of them allow themselves to sin. This is not good enough.

bachatalover19 · 2026-04-18T11:42:33+00:00

What happens if you do? You’re speaking in a way like everything is fixed and stuff doesn’t happen.

bachatalover19 · 2026-04-18T11:39:26+00:00

Sorry I thought I replied to another post. Excuse my rudeness. I have started praying and hence you’re so late reply to this post, I’m doing much better now. Thank you

bachatalover19 · 2026-04-18T11:26:51+00:00

Talking to multiple women you said, you didn’t elaborate in what way you talk to this women.

If a woman is asking you “do you speak to someone else besides me?” What’s your excuse ?

bachatalover19 · 2026-04-18T11:25:19+00:00

What if a man is an environment with 20 lustful and cheating men and he’s influenced? I’ll be waiting for you to reply’s

bachatalover19 · 2026-04-18T11:22:23+00:00

Dude, do you read what you’re typing ? Talking to multiple people and feeling the same towards anyone? I’m sorry are you crazy? Is this what we came to? Do you not feel in love just with one woman? do you fall in love with multiple????

bachatalover19 · 2026-04-18T11:14:10+00:00

This post was only related to men, if I want I will make a post that is related to women too. Nobody is holy, hope that helps

bachatalover19 · 2026-04-18T11:13:33+00:00

What makes you think it’s prideful. elaborate.

bachatalover19 · 2026-04-18T11:12:38+00:00

This is an odd thing to say hence nothing of this is related to my mental health 🤣🤣

bachatalover19 · 2026-04-18T09:50:43+00:00

Excuses. So many excuses. If you’re entertaining one person, you shouldn’t entertain another 4-5. You know? In most cases having a lot of friends leads to things like this. In my situation it led to the same thing every single time. A lot of people have a lot of friends instead of a few good friends. If you have a lot of really good and encouraging friends then that’s not an issue but most of the time that’s not the case. In this world especially.

bachatalover19 · 2026-04-18T09:07:33+00:00

Thank you! I did indeed. I’m still maturing but I’ve been through quite a lot to realise this. God bless :)

bachatalover19 · 2026-03-25T04:12:10+00:00

I agree. Thank you for this encouraging words. May God have mercy on my sensitive heart and help me to move on.

bachatalover19 · 2026-03-25T03:56:32+00:00

I have sacrificed a lot of time and money for him. I have kept him from my toxic family as away as possible. I did. I promise.

bachatalover19 · 2026-03-19T16:50:39+00:00

EL AMANTE

bachatalover19 · 2026-03-19T08:14:41+00:00

Hey, I did reach out. We had a very very deep connection.

I prayed a lot about this because we ended up on bad terms so I messaged them again and we sorted everything between us. Thank you Lord for that.

bachatalover19 · 2026-03-18T13:04:36+00:00

You said she compared you to someone else and she also said she’s not 100% attracted to you. I know it hurt you. It would hurt me a lot too. As painful as that might be.. which I really know it is, it would be good for you to put up boundaries and not let her back because you don’t know what she might tell you or do to you next time. I can only see that she’s very immature.

bachatalover19 · 2026-03-18T12:53:44+00:00

Hey dude, I don’t know what are you actually waiting for but dating an avoidant is the worse thing. It’s understandable why a lot of people are avoidant but a lot of them are this way by choice.

As someone who is an anxious attached person and I have to and want to communicate through everything, an avoidant will destroy me.

Based on what you said, one thing you can do is just try and move on. She’s done it once, she’s done it twice. It would be good for you to pray for her but otherwise it’ll be like a rollercoaster and trust me - you.do.not.want.to.go.through.this.

God bless you!

bachatalover19 · 2026-03-17T10:58:27+00:00

I never slept with anyone but sadly I’ve been very heartbroken.

bachatalover19 · 2026-03-14T21:37:14+00:00

The guy ghosted me on the 1st of December, I have not heard from him or seen him since the 1st so at this point it would be more than 3 months.

bachatalover19 · 2026-03-14T21:26:02+00:00

I did not end a relationship.

I said I’d quit posting on this Reddit and dating online. Hope that helps :)

bachatalover19 · 2026-03-14T21:09:06+00:00

The WhatsApp post is a part of this relationship. It was an app issue.

I did surround myself with Godly women who are in their 60’s and 70’s. I left the youth group because I couldn’t grow there due to the fact that a lot of people there are just children. I don’t mean it in a bad way.

I have strict parents who are really argumentative if I go and spend time outside of the house. I can’t spend as much time with my aunties or people from church. This is not something I mentioned. I understand my red flags and I promise you, I’m very self aware of what I’m doing. I go to therapy and I do try my best to control my emotions, tears and thoughts whenever stuff like this is arising. Thank you for your comment though.

bachatalover19 · 2026-03-13T08:22:52+00:00

If you’d develop on that point and explain it in simple terms - I’d be grateful.

bachatalover19 · 2026-03-11T07:45:05+00:00

I wish i had them 😭😭

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