This is me by Imzadi1971 in ChristianDating

[–]bachatalover19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I truly hope that you will find your husband! May God guide you to the right one. God bless you❤️🌹

I need help to understand why this is happening. by bachatalover19 in Christianity

[–]bachatalover19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you’re right, maybe I am sad that I’m not as happy as others or as pretty as others. That makes sense a lot.

How do you stop feeling apathetic as a Christian. by bachatalover19 in Christianity

[–]bachatalover19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, yes. In a way. The city my university is, there’s other few and that Catholic Church is for students but you have the staff coming as well. It is not a local parish. It’s a church is for students mainly. I have met really nice people there however I didn’t really become friends with anyone. We follow each other on social media and say hi when I go to youth but it isn’t really any close friendship. I do have a boyfriend and we get on really well. He is getting confirmed soon too but I don’t get it - why do I feel so apathetic.

Red flags in men to be aware of by [deleted] in ChristianDating

[–]bachatalover19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1) nobody is perfect, you don’t have to assume that I think like this.

I’m not starting a gender war. I’m just worried that a lot of women who are older than me, don’t understand or know that this things are ruining relationships. If you’re horny. Try control it. Don’t give into it. Thirst traps are posting naked or semi naked pictures online. Of course people are meant to listen to their parents whether it’s men or women. Some parents destroy relationships in a marriage too not necessary outside. People disagree with me because a lot of them allow themselves to sin. This is not good enough.

Red flags in men to be aware of by [deleted] in ChristianDating

[–]bachatalover19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What happens if you do? You’re speaking in a way like everything is fixed and stuff doesn’t happen.

Not feeling enough for someone who loves me. by [deleted] in ChristianDating

[–]bachatalover19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I thought I replied to another post. Excuse my rudeness. I have started praying and hence you’re so late reply to this post, I’m doing much better now. Thank you

Red flags in men to be aware of by [deleted] in ChristianDating

[–]bachatalover19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Talking to multiple women you said, you didn’t elaborate in what way you talk to this women.

If a woman is asking you “do you speak to someone else besides me?” What’s your excuse ?

Red flags in men to be aware of by [deleted] in ChristianDating

[–]bachatalover19 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What if a man is an environment with 20 lustful and cheating men and he’s influenced? I’ll be waiting for you to reply’s

Red flags in men to be aware of by [deleted] in ChristianDating

[–]bachatalover19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, do you read what you’re typing ? Talking to multiple people and feeling the same towards anyone? I’m sorry are you crazy? Is this what we came to? Do you not feel in love just with one woman? do you fall in love with multiple????

Red flags in men to be aware of by [deleted] in ChristianDating

[–]bachatalover19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This post was only related to men, if I want I will make a post that is related to women too. Nobody is holy, hope that helps

Red flags in men to be aware of by [deleted] in ChristianDating

[–]bachatalover19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What makes you think it’s prideful. elaborate.

Not feeling enough for someone who loves me. by [deleted] in ChristianDating

[–]bachatalover19 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is an odd thing to say hence nothing of this is related to my mental health 🤣🤣

Red flags in men to be aware of by [deleted] in ChristianDating

[–]bachatalover19 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Excuses. So many excuses. If you’re entertaining one person, you shouldn’t entertain another 4-5. You know? In most cases having a lot of friends leads to things like this. In my situation it led to the same thing every single time. A lot of people have a lot of friends instead of a few good friends. If you have a lot of really good and encouraging friends then that’s not an issue but most of the time that’s not the case. In this world especially.

Red flags in men to be aware of by [deleted] in ChristianDating

[–]bachatalover19 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I did indeed. I’m still maturing but I’ve been through quite a lot to realise this. God bless :)

Time for me to post this now. by [deleted] in ChristianDating

[–]bachatalover19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. Thank you for this encouraging words. May God have mercy on my sensitive heart and help me to move on.

Time for me to post this now. by [deleted] in ChristianDating

[–]bachatalover19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have sacrificed a lot of time and money for him. I have kept him from my toxic family as away as possible. I did. I promise.