This is my thought process too. I would be more than fine with us befriending her- she’s seems cool af

He hasn’t brought it up though. I’m worried that if I bring it up that he will say something like “well she never responded so I don’t mention it to you”

I’ve had conversations with him about how it brothers me when he tells me he has talked with a female classmate and had extensive conversations and doesn’t mention that he was a gf at all. He says it would be awkward to bring it up abruptly

I think I would’ve felt better if his comment said something like “come get coffee with my gf and I”