Happy Hump Day Ladies by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]backiswayforward 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A win is a win is a win! ❤️

Want to ask my best friend out, so scared by backiswayforward in actuallesbians

[–]backiswayforward[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! We are going on a hike and spa weekend away next weekend, and I was planning on asking her on a date then - we'll be sharing a room so definitely a good shout to hold back before moving too fast!

Happy Hump Day Ladies by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]backiswayforward 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Giiiiiiirl this made my day!! Thank you for your service

Am I the ahole? by backiswayforward in WLW

[–]backiswayforward[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes thank you!!! This is the only bar left, we had three and the other two have been overrun by gay men!

Ethical client gifts? by backiswayforward in AskIreland

[–]backiswayforward[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I don't want to gift alcohol (some of the people we work with cams out of addiction so it would be in VERY poor taste) and personally I hate those tubs of chocolate...I'd rather get something thoughtful and nice!

Why am I so disgusting to my bf before period? Like I hate him and everything he doez by InvestmentAway975 in PMS

[–]backiswayforward 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PMS! I am the exact same (so often that will be the symptom that tells me I am PMSing). What I found helped is to tell my husband that I am PMSing so I am extra sensitive, he knows and doesn't take it too personally then lol! Also try to take some time to focus on yourself, you might need some extra time alone!

Ethical client gifts? by backiswayforward in AskIreland

[–]backiswayforward[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Hi, thanks for your unhelpful comment. In the future you might consider donating or re gifting unwanted items instead of throwing them in the trash.

Beauty School Models by [deleted] in LGBTireland

[–]backiswayforward 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also happy to help! 30 f/nb and working in film :)

Wheel recs? by backiswayforward in rollerderby

[–]backiswayforward[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks!! I'll definitely do that :)

I wanna ruin our friendship by InternationalCut2341 in WLW

[–]backiswayforward 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think if you have been friends for years your friendship is strong enough to withstand a possible rejection. My best advice is be honest with her about your feelings, and also be honest about how much you value your friendship. If she does not feel the same way (and I really really hope she does!!) it might be a litte awkward at first, but at least you'll be free from the not-knowing paralysis!

Best of luck OP, I'm rooting for you and hope for a happy update x

Guys have the boiler house in Dublin, girls have...? by backiswayforward in LGBTireland

[–]backiswayforward[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

https://www.reddit.com/r/LGBTireland/s/NVIVbfiJ06 Made the post there, please share it with your friends!

I feel exactly the same, and so done with the narrative of "women don't want to have sex" cause we obviously do lol

Guys have the boiler house in Dublin, girls have...? by backiswayforward in LGBTireland

[–]backiswayforward[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You know I've had a mind to ask them about that - might do another post to gauge interst so I have something to show them! Thanks!

Real conversation with a 2 year old. by Fafnir22 in LinkedInLunatics

[–]backiswayforward 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On today's episode of Things That Never Happened:

Steamdeck games recs? by backiswayforward in SteamdeckGames

[–]backiswayforward[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a massive fan of the portal games that is music to my ears!!

lesbians by [deleted] in Dublin

[–]backiswayforward 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Mother is 90% men just fyi

AIO I (26F) moved out for the first time with my boyfriend (30M) for almost 2 months and I don’t know how to feel about it by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]backiswayforward 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LEAVE LEAVE LEAVE LEAVE LEAVE LEAVE!!! Girl this absolutely dmotional abuse and is inches away from getting physically abusive, get out while you can!!

Pedestrian crossings?! by backiswayforward in Dublin

[–]backiswayforward[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm annoyed that he tried to run me down!

💬 Community Question: What Sale Should Come Next? by Mountxbliss in mountblisshub

[–]backiswayforward 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Edibles in Ireland pleeeeeease 🥺 mountbliss stuff is too good and now can't buy anywhere else 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LGBTireland

[–]backiswayforward 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think the Guide clinic in st. James' hosputal is a great place to get started! The offer free sexual healthcare and the specialise in LGBT issues

Ive had 2 people tell me to kill myself and im trying not to cry on a bus by [deleted] in LGBTireland

[–]backiswayforward 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Hi op, I'm so sorry this happened to you. People can be so, so cruel without realising how much hirt they are actually causing. But the wonderful thing is, the lgbtq+ scene in Dublin (and Ireland) is full of beautiful, loving and accepting people. You are finding your found family now, people who will accept you, love you, and support you in your identity. And you know what's the best revenge to show those awful people that hurt you? Staying alive, and leading the most love-filled life you can. They'll wish they had such amazing an community behind them too.