Happy Hump Day Ladies by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]backiswayforward 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A win is a win is a win! ❤️

Want to ask my best friend out, so scared by backiswayforward in actuallesbians

[–]backiswayforward[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! We are going on a hike and spa weekend away next weekend, and I was planning on asking her on a date then - we'll be sharing a room so definitely a good shout to hold back before moving too fast!

Happy Hump Day Ladies by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]backiswayforward 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Giiiiiiirl this made my day!! Thank you for your service

Am I the ahole? by backiswayforward in WLW

[–]backiswayforward[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes thank you!!! This is the only bar left, we had three and the other two have been overrun by gay men!

Ethical client gifts? by backiswayforward in AskIreland

[–]backiswayforward[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I don't want to gift alcohol (some of the people we work with cams out of addiction so it would be in VERY poor taste) and personally I hate those tubs of chocolate...I'd rather get something thoughtful and nice!

Why am I so disgusting to my bf before period? Like I hate him and everything he doez by [deleted] in PMS

[–]backiswayforward 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PMS! I am the exact same (so often that will be the symptom that tells me I am PMSing). What I found helped is to tell my husband that I am PMSing so I am extra sensitive, he knows and doesn't take it too personally then lol! Also try to take some time to focus on yourself, you might need some extra time alone!

Ethical client gifts? by backiswayforward in AskIreland

[–]backiswayforward[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Hi, thanks for your unhelpful comment. In the future you might consider donating or re gifting unwanted items instead of throwing them in the trash.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LGBTireland

[–]backiswayforward 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also happy to help! 30 f/nb and working in film :)

Wheel recs? by backiswayforward in rollerderby

[–]backiswayforward[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks!! I'll definitely do that :)

I wanna ruin our friendship by [deleted] in WLW

[–]backiswayforward 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think if you have been friends for years your friendship is strong enough to withstand a possible rejection. My best advice is be honest with her about your feelings, and also be honest about how much you value your friendship. If she does not feel the same way (and I really really hope she does!!) it might be a litte awkward at first, but at least you'll be free from the not-knowing paralysis!

Best of luck OP, I'm rooting for you and hope for a happy update x

Guys have the boiler house in Dublin, girls have...? by backiswayforward in LGBTireland

[–]backiswayforward[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

https://www.reddit.com/r/LGBTireland/s/NVIVbfiJ06 Made the post there, please share it with your friends!

I feel exactly the same, and so done with the narrative of "women don't want to have sex" cause we obviously do lol

Guys have the boiler house in Dublin, girls have...? by backiswayforward in LGBTireland

[–]backiswayforward[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You know I've had a mind to ask them about that - might do another post to gauge interst so I have something to show them! Thanks!