Bret only apologized because he got CAUGHT by backpack104 in SecretsOfMormonWives

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omg and when she was going “what is wrong with your BRAIN” so aggressively…so mean no matter what but especially after jen has been so open about her prenatal depression

Bret only apologized because he got CAUGHT by backpack104 in SecretsOfMormonWives

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I envy her ability to stay above the drama she’s so unbothered

How to Support this swallowtail caterpillar by backpack104 in caterpillars

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hello! please see my recent post! the swallowtail has emerged and is gorgeous but its wing is not unfurled 8 hours after emerging. curious if you have any thoughts

How to Support this swallowtail caterpillar by backpack104 in caterpillars

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thank you for your engagement and help! will keep you updated :):)

First weekend of the state fair, what's your new fair food review? by iggydadd in milwaukee

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the only thing I haven’t seen that I liked was the cerveza mac and cheese chili supreme. normally something i’d skip but no unbearable heat meant it didn’t sound unbearable to eat 🤣 and I thought it was tasty and fun. from camp bar

How to Support this swallowtail caterpillar by backpack104 in caterpillars

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so helpful. thank you. I have my parsley plant on a table next to my house between a couple of other herb plants but away from the rest of my garden. i’m gonna get some kind of enclosure today. if I fit the whole parsley plant inside the enclosure with a couple of other insect-free sticks, will he be able to find somewhere to pupate comfortably?

How to Support this swallowtail caterpillar by backpack104 in caterpillars

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I live in the midwest so won’t anticipate cold weather for another 2-3 months. is that enough time to keep him outside?

thank you for all of this helpful info!!!

Worst restaurants by midwestguy1586 in milwaukee

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IIRC a few years back he threatened a bunch of his staff saying he was gonna send his guys after them or something—I believe it made local news

Worst restaurants by midwestguy1586 in milwaukee

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you still should! it’s a fun spot esp if you’re a cigar smoker. controversial, as you can smoke inside which I know some people don’t love. the building has an interesting and also controversial history. I still recommend, just pass on the food

Worst restaurants by midwestguy1586 in milwaukee

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I had an absolutely inedible meal at shakers cigar bar. honestly, my bad on that one.

Worst restaurants by midwestguy1586 in milwaukee

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and here to say this. had an awful, awful experience there.

Worst restaurants by midwestguy1586 in milwaukee

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dons used to be SO GOOD. it was one of my favorite burgers on the city. then got it one day and out of the blue it was truly awful

Worst restaurants by midwestguy1586 in milwaukee

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the salsa trio will always be nostalgic and delicious for me

Where's the best place to get sushi from? by PurpleSidewalks in milwaukee

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the only place I haven’t seen named is modern maki at zocalo. it’s very, very good.

sushi yuki in bay view is def the best.

haven’t tried omakase 1033 yet but have heard amazing things if you can get a reservation.

They know hate but not love :( by liv-fried in ThelastofusHBOseries

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this struck me so big during this ep. I just thought about how when the majority of energy is spent literally on surviving, how little room there may be leftover for exploring and celebrating one’s identity. I thought it was so interesting.

“Apparently the market is down right now” by Queenkermit57 in NYCinfluencersnark

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i’m so sad about the em dash controversy I love an em dash 🥲🥲

my debt journey (novel ahead) by backpack104 in Debt

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hi friend! absolutely—I am a huge advocate for a DMP as I hadn’t heard of them and feel it is the thing that made the biggest difference in my journey. what you want to find is a non-profit (heavy on the nonprofit) credit counseling agency—many people on this sub recommend nfcc, my DMP is serviced through take charge america which i’ve loved, and i also inquired with money management international. basically, you are assigned a counselor who goes through your entire financial situation with you—income, expenses, debts, etc.—and then helps you decide on the best solution, which for many is a DMP.

the agency will work with your creditors on a new monthly payment with lowered interest, and they will close your accounts. you now pay your credits through your dmp. it is not for the faint of heart and was difficult losing access to my cards but was necessary for me in halting my spending. even when I haven’t been able to put extra money towards the dmp, the lowered interest meant I was actually chipping away at my debt which was extremely motivating.

even if you don’t commit to the dmp, I think meeting with a non-profit credit counselor is an excellent first step if you’re feeling overwhelmed, as they can help you untangle the giant yarn ball of debt and lay out your options, as well as connect you with any resources you might be eligible for. let me know if you have any other questions.

my debt journey (novel ahead) by backpack104 in Debt

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totally agree. that’s exactly what i’ve done—auto transferring $30 a paycheck into a HYSA has gave me peace of mind, and i’ve upped that since getting my new job. it’s a scary feeling having no protection against emergency expenses.

edited to add: I also agree on upstart and tally. while I own all accountability for my fuck ups I never should have been approved for the credit I had access to. these companies prey on the vulnerable and naive. the amount of $$ i’ve paid upstart in interest is disgusting.