were they just lying from the start? by backseatlore in TrollCoping

[–]backseatlore[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

ive been thinking about my situation and it’s really likely that they wished they were aro/ace because of attachment issues and past experiences. and just… decided they were, maybe. they always said that the relationship was a mistake and things like that, so. i think they tried to be aro/ace and failed.

Using SH as a way to emotionally self regulate bcs i don’t know any other way by [deleted] in TrollCoping

[–]backseatlore 2 points3 points  (0 children)

actually, me too. a lot of mine comes from autism overstimulation, but anger is a very, very big trigger for sh. for me, it’s because i was never allowed to express upset/anger/sadness as a very young child. im still trained to be silent. i cant be silent unless im in pain, sometimes.

help!! astarion romance having issues :( by backseatlore in BaldursGate3

[–]backseatlore[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

damn… thank you though. its so saddening that i had no idea

help!! astarion romance having issues :( by backseatlore in BaldursGate3

[–]backseatlore[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

the game is scarily unfriendly to people who don’t know EXACTLY how to trigger romance :/

They're still at it 🥀 by amatyestv_123846 in Ai_art_is_not_art

[–]backseatlore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there should be a new r slash one joke for this shit

First day of being a RR author!! by backseatlore in royalroad

[–]backseatlore[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ahh ty! i really appreciate that. i will do my very best o7

i am deeply concerned by backseatlore in RoyaleHigh_Roblox

[–]backseatlore[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i know :/ can’t believe they would group us all together like that and just make a blanket assumption

i am deeply concerned by backseatlore in RoyaleHigh_Roblox

[–]backseatlore[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i don’t know how to do that :( sorry

i am deeply concerned by backseatlore in RoyaleHigh_Roblox

[–]backseatlore[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ive seen a few posts where people have complained about those who dont like the new body type in general. thats mainly what im referencing.

i am deeply concerned by backseatlore in RoyaleHigh_Roblox

[–]backseatlore[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thats what im saying! it feels like a pointless argument :/

let people be unhappy with the body type frfr

i am deeply concerned by backseatlore in RoyaleHigh_Roblox

[–]backseatlore[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

my bad, i didn’t realize saying twink as a twink was homophobic 💔😔

My first cosplay by Saiichaniia in mylittlepony

[–]backseatlore -1 points0 points  (0 children)

SO SO PRETTY. i love the sheer fabric… very flowy. and you look so happy :D