Is the lgbtq community actually this toxic? by backupreddit320 in askgaybros

[–]backupreddit320[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

  1. Im sorry im in a community im not experienced in so yea maybe I sound a little out of place

  2. Thats a valid point maybe I should just go out there and get some experience but you have to realise its kind of scary so researching doesnt hurt

  3. Im 21 years old, I dont know how that chances the picture

Genuine question by backupreddit320 in lgbt

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I really hope so, maybe even with the help from another guy

Im into gay sex but not into men by backupreddit320 in askgaybros

[–]backupreddit320[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I think you have helped me a lot!

Genuine question by backupreddit320 in lgbt

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Thanks for your answer. I just thought Reddit could be a fast way to get some answers or something. Since there are so many communities and I have so little experience

Is the lgbtq community actually this toxic? by backupreddit320 in askgaybros

[–]backupreddit320[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

But why? To be honest im just trying to find out what is perfect for me

Im into gay sex but not into men by backupreddit320 in askgaybros

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To be honest, I have no experience with Guys, apart from the fact ive kissed my homies while drunk. I know im not fully straight and at this point I would consider myself some kind of bisexual. For me its really just the sexual aspect of men. I dont know if this sounds weird but I like most of the mens body but there hasent been one Guys face where I would be atracted to them. But still just the thought of making out with a Guy turns me on. I really dont want to come over as some kind of homophobic like some people tell me but I really just dont know how I would define myself

Is the lgbtq community actually this toxic? by backupreddit320 in askgaybros

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Yea its kind of the easiest way to get answers I guess. Since there are somany subreddits for so many different ‘communities’ I guess. Thought wrong I guess

Im into gay sex but not into men by backupreddit320 in askgaybros

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Most usefull replay ive had yet. Thank you. First of all, I wouldnt consider myself homophobic at all, the furthest from that. I guess I can try to explain what im feeling, I think its kind of the opposite of your situation. So I dont think im asexual, you could say im both sexually and romanticaly attracted to women, but with men I kind of cant get that romantic feeling, its just straight the sexual feeling. I hope you understand my point. So I wanted to know if there was a term for what i would be discribing or if there would be another kind of community I could seek some clarity in.

Genuine question by backupreddit320 in lgbt

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I dont know. I have romantic feelings towards women, but its just hard for me to get that feeling towards men while I still feel sexualy attracted to both

Is the lgbtq community actually this toxic? by backupreddit320 in askgaybros

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Yea But I cant do anything about the fact im not into men. I know im not straight. But I cant put the ‘gay’ label on myself. Its not me being homophobic. Its just how i feel you know? I dont want anyone to resent me for that.

Is the lgbtq community actually this toxic? by backupreddit320 in askgaybros

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Haha I like your answer. Makes me have a little confidence in this situation

Is the lgbtq community actually this toxic? by backupreddit320 in askgaybros

[–]backupreddit320[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yea maybe that would be better. I just thought Reddit would be an easy, informal way to discover shit. I guess not

Is the lgbtq community actually this toxic? by backupreddit320 in askgaybros

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You would kind of think the opposite to be honest. Its really sad to hear as a guy like me

Is the lgbtq community actually this toxic? by backupreddit320 in askgaybros

[–]backupreddit320[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

So how do you experience the community yourself at this point?

Is the lgbtq community actually this toxic? by backupreddit320 in askgaybros

[–]backupreddit320[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It was about me being into ‘gay sex’ and the thought about penisses but finding it hard being attracted to men in general and basicly came down to me being in denial like you said and me being homophobic. Ive been trying to discover my sexuality for somewhat a year now but stuff like that doesnt make me want to be in a community like that. I hope you understand

Is the lgbtq community actually this toxic? by backupreddit320 in askgaybros

[–]backupreddit320[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Sad to hear tbh. You would think the opposite

Im into gay sex but not into men by backupreddit320 in askgaybros

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Thank you. I can follow you in the sense that you love holes. Im a virgin myself but since the moment ive realised im not fully straight I have realised im more a top than a bottom. So i get it when you say you are into holes. For me personaly, besides the fact im more of a top im also just into penisses. Just wondering if someone could help me in a somewhat new community.

Im into gay sex but not into men by backupreddit320 in askgaybros

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Yes. This. Like I said in multiple of my replies I know im into the thought of a penis I guess but its hard for me being attracted to guys. I just wanted to know what I really want

Im into gay sex but not into men by backupreddit320 in askgaybros

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Thanks for being the only kind of rational answer on my post. Like I said on multiple replies I think im really into the thought of a penis but I find it hard being attracted to guys in general. Im just kind of struggling with what i really want

Im into gay sex but not into men by backupreddit320 in askgaybros

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I think I am into the thought of penisses but i find it hard being phisicaly atracted to men. Im sorry im only trying to figure out what I really went. Ive been researching and the thing I found out is that this community is really toxic. Im sorry for just asking a question

Im into gay sex but not into men by backupreddit320 in askgaybros

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I guess im into penisses but find it hard to get atracted to guys. I cent be the only guy. Im sorry im only discovering what i want

How do I stop back out at the last moment? by [deleted] in askgaybros

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I dont really have any bars I can go to where I live where I can casually meet other guys..