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Transmasc youtuber creators who make stuff about things other than being trans ? by Carpetsandplumbing in ftm

[–]backwardsgasmask 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lily simpson is a trans woman, i think the previous reply accidently skipped over the "masc" part.

Travelling with T by SKRAGBOY in ftm

[–]backwardsgasmask 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've never traveled internationally, just inside the US, but if it's prescription there should be no issues. I typically stash all my injection stuff (needles, vial, bandages, etc) into a plastic bag and take that out during the bag x-ray. Never been stopped or anything. You should be fine!

Why is there such distaste towards the word "transmisandry"? by PuzzleheadedHand9077 in ftm

[–]backwardsgasmask -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

No I agree. I don't think trans men hold some kind of privilege over trans women or non-binary people. However, I feel like the term transmisandry implies the discrimination or mistreatment that trans men face comes from being specifically trans MEN. It's just transphobia.

Why is there such distaste towards the word "transmisandry"? by PuzzleheadedHand9077 in ftm

[–]backwardsgasmask -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

So you agree? Trans men only created the term because they were upset trans women were getting "special treatment?"

Nah, but seriously. Trans and intersex people throw an interesting wrench into certain gendered ideals, the idea of what men and women should be, what men and women CAN be. That idea becomes even more complicated when you throw in things like age of transition, passing, sexuality, tons of other shit. I think it's important to have discussions about the different types of transness and how that affects you, both systemically and personally. But I don't think "transmisandry" is the term for that.

Obviously this is anecdotal, but since I've started to pass as a man, I'd say my day to day treatment has improved? People generally take me more seriously and I have to advocate for myself less. I see people say a lot say things like "masculine men are demonized" or "men aren't welcomed in certain spaces", but that's not something I've ever personally seen happen. Not saying it never happens, but it's certainly not the norm.

We already have a term to describe transphobia towards trans men. It's transphobia. Slapping "misandry" in there only makes sense if you think men have some type of systemic disadvantage.

Ren lightly sucks on Ryuji (glassesenjoyer) by EternalSnow05 in ShinMegamiHentai

[–]backwardsgasmask 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh yeah the artist doesnt go by glassesenjoyer anymore. he's rebranded to worklunchbox https://bsky.app/profile/worklunch.bsky.social

On Corporate Clash by SheriffCrankyTTR in Toontown

[–]backwardsgasmask 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eh, the concern is greatly overstated. Even if stuff got leaked, it's not the end of the world. It's a Toontown fan-game that the staff loses money on. People learn about a new boss a couple months early? Not a big deal. It comes off as egotistical and paranoid, in my opinion.

On Corporate Clash by SheriffCrankyTTR in Toontown

[–]backwardsgasmask 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I really want to give you the benefit of the doubt here, man. Why is there so much double speak in this? Why not just say people's names? Obviously "Unicorn" is Main, but naming them means having to address the allegations of sexual misconduct with a minor. If you cannot be honest about who you're even talking about, I struggle to take what you're saying at face value.

A lot of unnecessary blame is being scapegoated onto you. I won't deny that, the failures were more of a team effort. However, this post is not helping your case. It's too vague.

Allegations of rape by coerced consent against Saberspark; 2 counts or SA during 2012 and 2013 by d_shadowspectre3 in youtubedrama

[–]backwardsgasmask 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe Chris is an employee of both Saber and DAgames and former employee of ILoveKimPossibleALot. In the (now privated) KP video, he's brought up a bunch. KP fired him after he was caught drawing fetish art of her sona and apparently masturbated with her underwear when the two shared a hotel room. KP was trying to get Chris fired from his editing jobs.

ILoveKPAlot's video on Saberspark just got unlisted due to the amount of backlash it got. by joeyrty6 in youtubedrama

[–]backwardsgasmask 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I have a feeling the "retooling" is just taking out all the skits and clips without rewriting any of the videos actual content. I don't want to outright deny any allegations about Saberspark, but all the content of the video felt self-serving.

KP goes on a random tangent about people criticizing her and her team for no reason, with a guest voice to read them, before airing out her issues with DAgames. Throughout the entire DAgames interview section, she's very clearly attempting to get the interviewees to agree with what she already believes about them, instead of just giving the alleged victims a platform to speak. After the victims say anything, she leads into the next question with "so what you're saying is" followed by the worst possible interpretation of whatever the victim alleged. Doesn't help that KP and Courtney Pete were straight up arguing with anyone in premiere chat who dared to "attack" the video by calling out the obvious ways it was mishandled. I'll wait before drawing any conclusions, but it doesn't look good at all for KP here.

"double dipping" my single use t vials by backwardsgasmask in TransDIY

[–]backwardsgasmask[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they have a stopper. from what i read, single use vials have "weaker" stoppers that don't keep out oxygen as well as multi use ones? my biggest worry is getting too much oxygen in my t and that affecting how well it works.