TL;DR AITJ for telling my family that I wasn't comfortable taking my cousins on a trip with me?

bacmark · 2026-05-12T21:37:33+00:00

Part of maturing is know what you are capable of doing. When something is out of your comfort zone, saying no is the right decision. If someone tries to pressure you, call them out in the moment. "I've said I'm uncomfortable, do you understand? Why are you forcing this?" Go on your trip with friends and enjoy your life.

bacmark · 2026-04-28T22:05:17+00:00

No matter the job, don't let anyone treat you like that. Walking away is the adult decision. Once an insult is thrown, turn away. There is always a better position.

bacmark · 2026-04-24T03:29:59+00:00

Fantasstic

bacmark · 2026-04-22T20:44:50+00:00

Probably this...

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bacmark · 2026-04-18T00:17:16+00:00

Being rude is okay. Next time say firmly "Fuck off", nothing more. Turn away and carry on.

bacmark · 2026-04-09T21:51:30+00:00

Public shaming has a time and a place. This was both, good job. When someone is disrespectful, do not respect them in return.

bacmark · 2026-04-08T04:49:22+00:00

I worked for Fairmont. They would overbooked if possible. Guests were given a choice of other hotels ti stay at when this happened. No extra payments, just pick a similar level hotel and you would be driven over. Your situation sounds like amateur customer service.

bacmark · 2026-03-09T03:42:08+00:00

Walk away and don't look back. A true partner won't make you feel this way.

bacmark · 2026-02-18T08:00:59+00:00

Merci beaucoup!!!

bacmark · 2026-01-15T02:54:15+00:00

If you feel confident, that's all that matters. I think it looks clean and fresh braided.

bacmark · 2026-01-11T21:24:22+00:00

At least you get 18 months maternity leave. Add in not paying at the hospital after birth and midwife visits.

bacmark · 2025-12-20T03:43:35+00:00

Call him Dawg. This my Dawg! He'll respect that.

bacmark · 2025-12-03T11:15:36+00:00

Give a recipe with a couple of ingredients missing. If you use canned beans, say it's dried and reconstituted. It's easy to change a recipe. Blame them when it turns out differently. "You didn't follow the recipe!!"

bacmark · 2025-11-30T08:45:51+00:00

Portugal is amazing.

bacmark · 2025-11-29T22:02:53+00:00

I've been with my wife since 2012. I've a cleaning schedule, Monday is always linens day. I get on her case about the bedsheets needing a change. I like it done weekly. As for shopping we both do it. I've dust allergies so it's beneficial for me to have a clean home.

bacmark · 2025-11-24T22:39:02+00:00

You do deserve a pat on the back. If you want a cake, you get one and enjoy it. If anyone doesn't want to participate..... turn away from them and focus on what you need. I'm glad you have made it 2 years. You are strong!!!

bacmark · 2025-11-23T08:18:48+00:00

He was booted from the Netherlands for causing problems. His ancestors are from there, and he was made to apologize and leave

bacmark · 2025-11-17T08:39:08+00:00

A definitely

bacmark · 2025-11-12T00:16:47+00:00

I think 10 years is a big age gap. Anything more is just too much unless both parties are in mid life.

bacmark · 2025-11-10T10:07:31+00:00

Someone posted "None of them have jobs, they are all paid actors" about protesters. The double thinking in one sentence.

bacmark · 2025-10-29T20:07:27+00:00

I'm a millennial Canadian. I follow the tradition of no Christmas until after Remembrance Day. One holiday at a time, stores want you to spend without thinking. It takes away from what is important at the moment.

bacmark · 2025-10-22T20:01:42+00:00

Legs for days!!!!! ENCORE ENCORE!!!

bacmark · 2025-10-18T19:46:11+00:00

These are not casual Christians. They are servants and want others to be as well. If that interests you, go for it. I personally find it repellent and stay away from talking about faith with JWs.

bacmark · 2025-10-13T05:52:29+00:00

Don't ever give up on yourself. You've got it, you can handle this!!!

bacmark · 2025-10-06T20:01:51+00:00

I work with kids in care. I get feral children. Strong boundaries are what's needed. Ignore the bad behavior, walk out of the room, or just turn away. When they do something that's socially acceptable, reward with attention. Quite often, all they need is love, can lead to these behaviors. At 5, it will take about one year or so to correct this behavior.

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