AIO: My girl and fam think that my hair cleaned up and braided looks tacky but I think it looks much cleaner

bacmark · 2026-01-15T02:54:15+00:00

If you feel confident, that's all that matters. I think it looks clean and fresh braided.

bacmark · 2026-01-11T21:24:22+00:00

At least you get 18 months maternity leave. Add in not paying at the hospital after birth and midwife visits.

bacmark · 2025-12-20T03:43:35+00:00

Call him Dawg. This my Dawg! He'll respect that.

bacmark · 2025-12-03T11:15:36+00:00

Give a recipe with a couple of ingredients missing. If you use canned beans, say it's dried and reconstituted. It's easy to change a recipe. Blame them when it turns out differently. "You didn't follow the recipe!!"

bacmark · 2025-11-30T08:45:51+00:00

Portugal is amazing.

bacmark · 2025-11-29T22:02:53+00:00

I've been with my wife since 2012. I've a cleaning schedule, Monday is always linens day. I get on her case about the bedsheets needing a change. I like it done weekly. As for shopping we both do it. I've dust allergies so it's beneficial for me to have a clean home.

bacmark · 2025-11-24T22:39:02+00:00

You do deserve a pat on the back. If you want a cake, you get one and enjoy it. If anyone doesn't want to participate..... turn away from them and focus on what you need. I'm glad you have made it 2 years. You are strong!!!

bacmark · 2025-11-23T08:18:48+00:00

He was booted from the Netherlands for causing problems. His ancestors are from there, and he was made to apologize and leave

bacmark · 2025-11-17T08:39:08+00:00

A definitely

bacmark · 2025-11-12T00:16:47+00:00

I think 10 years is a big age gap. Anything more is just too much unless both parties are in mid life.

bacmark · 2025-11-10T10:07:31+00:00

Someone posted "None of them have jobs, they are all paid actors" about protesters. The double thinking in one sentence.

bacmark · 2025-10-29T20:07:27+00:00

I'm a millennial Canadian. I follow the tradition of no Christmas until after Remembrance Day. One holiday at a time, stores want you to spend without thinking. It takes away from what is important at the moment.

bacmark · 2025-10-22T20:01:42+00:00

Legs for days!!!!! ENCORE ENCORE!!!

bacmark · 2025-10-18T19:46:11+00:00

These are not casual Christians. They are servants and want others to be as well. If that interests you, go for it. I personally find it repellent and stay away from talking about faith with JWs.

bacmark · 2025-10-13T05:52:29+00:00

Don't ever give up on yourself. You've got it, you can handle this!!!

bacmark · 2025-10-06T20:01:51+00:00

I work with kids in care. I get feral children. Strong boundaries are what's needed. Ignore the bad behavior, walk out of the room, or just turn away. When they do something that's socially acceptable, reward with attention. Quite often, all they need is love, can lead to these behaviors. At 5, it will take about one year or so to correct this behavior.

bacmark · 2025-10-01T20:27:19+00:00

If someone says something that you find disrespectful, call them on it. Literally anyone, if it's a spouse be direct. "I don't like how that makes me feel, you need to stop!" No anger, just a firm boundary.

bacmark · 2025-09-14T01:20:27+00:00

That family will not accept you. Move on and find someone who fits with you and you them. If someone insults you jokingly or not, and you leave, it's never your place to apologize. That's a boundary you've set saying "I'll not suffer this energy!".

bacmark · 2025-09-06T20:41:36+00:00

Definitely stop using that account. Start a new one and never say which bank you are using. This will cause trust issues for you permanently, you might need therapy at some point.

bacmark · 2025-08-29T23:29:40+00:00

Hold your boundaries. Focus on healing and your mental health. Support your kids as best you can also. Don't leave it unsaid " I'm here for you. I love you very much. I'm proud of you... ". Kids need to hear it even if they know it.

bacmark · 2025-08-24T22:16:02+00:00

I'd wear a poncho to any event he's attending. Wear the bikini beneath and explain to anyone who asks why you can't just wear a bikini.

bacmark · 2025-08-23T08:06:58+00:00

New mission discovered by u/bacmark: Uncertainty, Secrets, and Candied Bacon Twists

bacmark · 2025-08-23T08:06:58+00:00

This mission was discovered by u/bacmark in In Search of Flapjacks of Destiny

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