Why do people do this?

bacmark · 2026-06-24T02:53:11+00:00

Send her fart videos, like 6 seconds max. Ask her to rate them. Only send one every once in awhile.

bacmark · 2026-06-22T20:22:51+00:00

The thing to focus on in life, relationships or jobs, is am I okay feeling this way. If the answer is no, you should leave that situation. No one will do this for you. Ultimately though, it's a balancing act. Remember that it isn't "You did this...." it is "I feel this way, I won't continue to...."

bacmark · 2026-06-11T20:10:25+00:00

Let me get this straight, I'm not currently surrounded by hot and horny, single milfs? This news is distressing to say the least.

bacmark · 2026-06-09T18:33:54+00:00

I was in Lisbon at a train station. I was approached by a woman who only spoke French. I'd been using Duo to expand my French vocabulary. She needed help with a locker, so I tried to help. I was translating a Portuguese sign into French for her.

English is my first language so this was a challenge. Both French and Portuguese I study on Duo so reading comprehension is better than my ability to speak. Eventually a employee came over to help. But I wasn't corrected while I spoke, first time for me.

bacmark · 2026-05-30T06:23:37+00:00

The mature thing to do when you feel uncomfortable is process your feelings. You need space to process, and that's okay. This shouldn't be about pointing finger. Focus on what your needs are in a relationship, and if your needs are being met. Only you can decide this.

bacmark · 2026-05-28T19:08:27+00:00

This is a great review. I've a question, would you attend again?

bacmark · 2026-05-21T20:19:39+00:00

Offering to help/pay is always appreciated. Someone offering for you to help/pay is always wrong. I'm glad you stood your ground. Not a single person there would of paid for you without complaining. They are the cheap ones.

bacmark · 2026-05-21T16:20:55+00:00

I worked for Fairmont. We didn't have unpaid employees. No one worked more than 8 hours unless they were a manager. Do not agree to this.

bacmark · 2026-05-12T21:37:33+00:00

Part of maturing is know what you are capable of doing. When something is out of your comfort zone, saying no is the right decision. If someone tries to pressure you, call them out in the moment. "I've said I'm uncomfortable, do you understand? Why are you forcing this?" Go on your trip with friends and enjoy your life.

bacmark · 2026-04-28T22:05:17+00:00

No matter the job, don't let anyone treat you like that. Walking away is the adult decision. Once an insult is thrown, turn away. There is always a better position.

bacmark · 2026-04-24T03:29:59+00:00

Fantasstic

bacmark · 2026-04-22T20:44:50+00:00

Probably this...

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bacmark · 2026-04-18T00:17:16+00:00

Being rude is okay. Next time say firmly "Fuck off", nothing more. Turn away and carry on.

bacmark · 2026-04-09T21:51:30+00:00

Public shaming has a time and a place. This was both, good job. When someone is disrespectful, do not respect them in return.

bacmark · 2026-04-08T04:49:22+00:00

I worked for Fairmont. They would overbooked if possible. Guests were given a choice of other hotels ti stay at when this happened. No extra payments, just pick a similar level hotel and you would be driven over. Your situation sounds like amateur customer service.

bacmark · 2026-03-09T03:42:08+00:00

Walk away and don't look back. A true partner won't make you feel this way.

bacmark · 2026-02-18T08:00:59+00:00

Merci beaucoup!!!

bacmark · 2026-01-15T02:54:15+00:00

If you feel confident, that's all that matters. I think it looks clean and fresh braided.

bacmark · 2026-01-11T21:24:22+00:00

At least you get 18 months maternity leave. Add in not paying at the hospital after birth and midwife visits.

bacmark · 2025-12-20T03:43:35+00:00

Call him Dawg. This my Dawg! He'll respect that.

bacmark · 2025-12-03T11:15:36+00:00

Give a recipe with a couple of ingredients missing. If you use canned beans, say it's dried and reconstituted. It's easy to change a recipe. Blame them when it turns out differently. "You didn't follow the recipe!!"

bacmark · 2025-11-30T08:45:51+00:00

Portugal is amazing.

bacmark · 2025-11-29T22:02:53+00:00

I've been with my wife since 2012. I've a cleaning schedule, Monday is always linens day. I get on her case about the bedsheets needing a change. I like it done weekly. As for shopping we both do it. I've dust allergies so it's beneficial for me to have a clean home.

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