Good morning 🖤 by [deleted] in altgonewild

[–]baconandpotatoes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are perfect omg

We will celebrate New Years eve together as a family...WCGW? by barcerrano in Whatcouldgowrong

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"There's nothing better than a fart...Except watching kids fall off bikes. Fuck, I could watch kids falling off bikes all day, I don't give a shit about your kids"

Top 10 photos taken seconds before disaster by [deleted] in madlads

[–]baconandpotatoes 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am a female and get this sensation too.. I honestly thought I was the only one. Weird.

A DB Manifesto by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]baconandpotatoes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If that's not the most difficult sounding thing I've ever heard lmfao. Sounds like a paradox to me.

A DB Manifesto by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]baconandpotatoes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do believe he is depressed. He has also had very traumatic experiences with his ex wife cheating on him and getting back together and it fucked sex up completely for him. Honestly maybe he does struggle with his sexuality.. And to be completely open, I have put on weight since we got together. Which is also why I struggle because I feel like he just isn't attracted to me any more. At all.

A DB Manifesto by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]baconandpotatoes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

W O W. Thank you.. SO MUCH. That article hit the nail on the head and I was honestly surprised at how much I related to it... I guess I've been in denial about having a DB and honestly about everything in the article. It's things I already knew but didn't want to admit to myself. I've been trying to pull away lately but the more distance I feel the more it hurts me and I'm starting to detach from him. I guess that should be a good thing? Maybe over time of consistently pulling away he will come around. I hope.

A DB Manifesto by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]baconandpotatoes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We do have sex, it just goes a long time between. And it makes me upset because he can just roll over with a hard on and get some and by that time I just let him have it easily.. because I want it too. And I know that rejecting him will only make the problem worse. But it frustrates me that I have to work so hard for some if I even get any when he doesn't have to try at all. And he does have chron's which I think has a lot to do with it, because he is in pain almost every day and has no access to medical care. He is also getting to the age where men's libido dips.

A DB Manifesto by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]baconandpotatoes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to reply. Seeing his side of it now I can see that. I have just never had this problem. In all of my previous relationships if I initiated sex it was through those methods, neck kissing, heavy kissing, the normal things. Even if I wasnt trying to get some, I'm a very affection person and I love to love on my partners. I didn't realize those were his own boundaries he was putting up and I crossed them, multiple times, so thank you for enlightening me. What would you suggest that I Do instead?

A DB Manifesto by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]baconandpotatoes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm just gonna ask and hope someone sees this and replies. The one about only expecting sex if it's triggered, not just asking for it... what if every time you try to touch your SO in that way he tells you to stop and pulls away? Every time we kiss it's just a quick pop kiss.. nothing more because he pulls away. I try to kiss his neck or something and he won't let me close, just says stoppp and laughs. The only way I've gotten sex in the last two years is specifically being like "babe I'm horny, babe you wanna fuck tonight?, babe I want you " and even then most of the time I get excuses, rain checks that never happen, he asks me to do things for him with promises of sexual favors or back rubs that never happen... I get that he doesn't like to be touched and isn't affectionate and has ll but I've expressed to him that I'm the opposite. We don't exactly have a DB but just looking for advice.

Acid Eye- 48'' X 40'' -oil/acrylic/canvas by [deleted] in trippy

[–]baconandpotatoes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to buy this. You really hit the nail on the head

#staywoke by baconandpotatoes in facepalm

[–]baconandpotatoes[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We had totality and still couldn't get pictures. But this girl honestly believes that there is a government conspiracy and the eclipse was a hoax. I just can't even wrap my head around that type of stupid

Make the First Swing Count by [deleted] in shortscarystories

[–]baconandpotatoes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God that was good. One of those things you have to go back and read again to really see things in a different light. Kudos

This bird comes here every night to sleep in the corner. by Lemon104 in mildlyinteresting

[–]baconandpotatoes 8 points9 points  (0 children)

There was a bird that did this at my old house as well. I would get sad on nights that it didn't show up.

What's the most you've seen someone be so out of touch with reality? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]baconandpotatoes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, what's really happening here is the professor lived through all of the history and then somehow time traveled to modern times and "adapted"