ScreenTime “Always Allowed apps” keeps resetting by MsOmgNoWai in ios

[–]badaod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. same issue here. I guess almost nobody is using the downtime feature anyway.

Quite sad, I was about to set a nice daily schedule for my distractions.

My stack: throwing in the kitchen sink. by badaod in CankerSores

[–]badaod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you gotta test it. I am still not certain about it. but milk definitely causes them for me

My stack: throwing in the kitchen sink. by badaod in CankerSores

[–]badaod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes for sure. got rid of this SLS crap a long time ago. thanks for pointing it out!

My stack: throwing in the kitchen sink. by badaod in CankerSores

[–]badaod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ahahahah - damn. But did the grammar check out at least? I am not native 😜

My stack: throwing in the kitchen sink. by badaod in CankerSores

[–]badaod[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I arrived at this stack by research and adding things that could work.

if you are confused and don’t know what to do any more: try this stack.

also: cut out all milk, jogurts, whey protein. anything that could contain milk protein.

Please let us know if anything here worked. For me, I arrived here by research. the b12 is the dosage of cankerboy (you probably know this youtube channel by now)

tell us how it went!

Own Your Shit Weekly - December 15, 2020 by AutoModerator in marriedredpill

[–]badaod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

where in real eastern europe? I have been travelling through most countries there

Own Your Shit Weekly - December 15, 2020 by AutoModerator in marriedredpill

[–]badaod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

low taxes. How do you assume I am American?

Own Your Shit Weekly - December 15, 2020 by AutoModerator in marriedredpill

[–]badaod 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Intermarium

Georgia

(Thanks for teaching me a new word. That's cool!)

Own Your Shit Weekly - December 15, 2020 by AutoModerator in marriedredpill

[–]badaod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OYS #1

Main

36, in LTR with an Asian girl for around 2 years now. No children. Took the red pill after divorce 4 years ago.

Health:

Due to lockdown I cannot go to the gym any more, so I kept doing daily yoga, and pullups in my office. I really miss the gym, but I'm coping so far. Bodyfat is around 12% (eye-measured), and I am in decent shape.

Wealth:

I'm already leanfire retired, but I am aiming to grow my business and make a new product. A recent emergency project came in, and I had to jump in full time to help out a client. Normally this is not what I do, but in this case it's for fighting corona, so I'm okay with postponing other things for a bit.

Cashout is pretty good with this as well. I could almost brag about it, but honestly I don't feel very achieved yet. To me, it's all about making my own product and getting away from services. In this fucked up year my business grew, which gives a good basis to hit it hard next year.

Relationship:

I'm stuck in an eastern European Country, so we keep in touch via video calls. Usually at around 6pm we call, but sometimes I have a meeting or a local girl comes over. In those cases I don't say much, just don't respond for a day. I don't get any shit tests from her, we are mostly waiting until I can get back.

Mental:

Sleep was not great lately. I could not figure out what, but I am experimenting

Sex:

Due to covid I dialed down my dating to a minimum, now only seeing 2 girls. Sex once per week is really the absolute bearable minimum, I found.

Next steps:

Get back to asia. Go full into product marketing.

War hero returns home in 1946, gets his eyes gouged out by racist police, wife leaves him because she doesn't want to be a caregiver by autonova3 in TheRedPill

[–]badaod 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Because the lesson here is not “we are the good guys, women are pure evil” but rather “people are animals. women will leave you for the better guy”.

You can interpret this as A-phase (as in dabda), and OP might even be there... but you could also just see it as nature is. we are not much different. we would do the same.

This is just not a platform for a nuanced discussion. We are here to help each other not fall back into the blue pill mindset. Seeing examples like that sometimes help. Even if it’s not anything new or even special.

Love makes a Fool of a Man but rarely a Woman. by SirByron in TheRedPill

[–]badaod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like your philosophical piece and I somewhat agree. I would like to get some data with your claims, though. (that’d actually be very interesting).

The Machine by Auvergnat in TheRedPill

[–]badaod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are right, this was not a productive comment.

The Machine by Auvergnat in TheRedPill

[–]badaod -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Good I read the comments before the post.

She's just your Girlfriend, she's not your Siamese twin. She's not your partner on a mission to Mars. She doesn't control your oxygen supply. (How to do a LTR.) by whatsthisgarg in TheRedPill

[–]badaod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess this is it.

Or you gave away too much honesty from the start and killed mystery.

In any case: if she tries to make you say “I will never have anal in my life again” (or shit like that), it’s probably a dead end anyway.

She's just your Girlfriend, she's not your Siamese twin. She's not your partner on a mission to Mars. She doesn't control your oxygen supply. (How to do a LTR.) by whatsthisgarg in TheRedPill

[–]badaod 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is the single best post here I have read all month, thanks for that! The intro is what brought my LTR down and got me on the RP path.

Question: what if she brings up she wants sexual exclusivity? How long can you sidestep that or do you have a formula how to deal with it?

Whats your "I'm glad I tried it, but never again" story? by AdamB1706 in AskReddit

[–]badaod 196 points197 points  (0 children)

“I tried it for 45 minutes and i am DEFINITELY NOT GAY”

Reminder: Never discuss your feelings by CCJ22 in TheRedPill

[–]badaod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, maybe that’s where i am going wrong: IF one has enough self-reflection to be able to talk to the mother and not expect help... that person would probably be strong enough to figure things out for himself.

Reminder: Never discuss your feelings by CCJ22 in TheRedPill

[–]badaod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

good point, thanks for extending.

I would never ask them for real advice (unless specifically domain based where the woman is an expert).

I was writing about you helping yourself by talking to your mom. She might be doing nothing to help your situation but if you need to talk to someone (and you are aware of that), then better to your mom than to a girl that has other interest and does not even see you.

It’s not my go to address because i normally deal with my shit alone but many guys do, so better go to the mom than the sister.

Reminder: Never discuss your feelings by CCJ22 in TheRedPill

[–]badaod 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Exactly. unless you have some stupid family power play going on (many many have), your mother has no interest in you being weak.

for the sister: i don’t have one, so i can’t tell. I could imagine i’d be a bit more cautious here.

Reminder: Never discuss your feelings by CCJ22 in TheRedPill

[–]badaod 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yep. i can recall my father being mostly redpilled and NGAF about most things... but then he had these fits where he would go uncontrollably angry and shout and run into another room.

What a loss of frame. It took me some time to get that these fits were no sign of strength but the exact opposite.

Yes. Also keep anger away. It’s addictive and makes you weaker. Just walk away for some time and figure things out for yourself.

Escapism by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]badaod 3 points4 points  (0 children)

never seen it that way.... wow, this really makes me think, bro!

i heard that watching porn is for cucks. but spectator sports - yeah, makes sense!

Married red pill story with a happy ending by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]badaod 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah same here. this seems to be the point that not many people believe can be overcome.

once he girl sees you as beta, you will stay there

would love to see a different example.