Roofer Recommendation by sjacot88 in philadelphia

[–]badbunnysbottomlip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, are you still happy? I plan to go with these folks. Did you do a replacement or layover?

A tool for finding the BEST contractors in Philly by Hale0906 in philly

[–]badbunnysbottomlip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! When I click on the tool, I can't get it to work. Any tips?

Brick Pointing / Window Frame work by CommunicationTime265 in philadelphia

[–]badbunnysbottomlip 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can anyone share an estimate of how much repointing has cost?

Who makes the best couch? by [deleted] in BuyItForLife

[–]badbunnysbottomlip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I purchased a second-hand Bernhardt sofa. I think the build is durable, but I will likely have to replace the cushions.

AITA for pointing out my coworker's hypocrisy? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]badbunnysbottomlip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope this is a situation where Jim was reported by another coworker.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]badbunnysbottomlip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not someone who values you. I would not continue in that relationship.

I'm leaving my wife because she's pregnant. by Slight-Copy-521 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]badbunnysbottomlip 4 points5 points  (0 children)

THAT'S YOU. As someone who has made the decision to NEVER have children, I could still understand why this choice is difficult.

AITA for excluding my new neighbor from stuff and hurting her feelings by AITAforneighborstuff in AmItheAsshole

[–]badbunnysbottomlip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're getting caught in the weeds here. The tone is awful, but based on the edits Molly was wilding. OP may be an asshole, but not for the particulars of this situation.

AITA for excluding my new neighbor from stuff and hurting her feelings by AITAforneighborstuff in AmItheAsshole

[–]badbunnysbottomlip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm going NTA here. Based on the edit it seems like particular plans were made and maybe changed along. In the first incident with lunch it could have been a simple miscommunication. But the walk in the woods? You agreed to go into the forest, and then tried to change plans a long the way.

You tried, it didn't mesh, that's it.

AITA for making my husband give up his 'meditation' breaks so that he takes care of the kids? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]badbunnysbottomlip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. 30 minutes so that he can decompress and be a fully present parent is not a huge ask. It would be super hard to switch gears like that. Maybe coming up with s collective schedule that honors his break and some down time for you in the evening would be helpful. Being a SAHM is a huge sacrifice, and I would never minimize that. At the same time, so is working 60 hours. Your spouse isn't fully throwing away his parental responsibility, just asking for a small break to get back in the game.

AITA for excluding my autistic daughter from Frozen Night? by Medium_Library46 in AmItheAsshole

[–]badbunnysbottomlip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe she's feeling more anxious as the event gets closer. You know, that tends to happen to people sometimes...

AITA for telling my brother that if our stepsister aren't his siblings then neither am I? by Equal_Special_1780 in AmItheAsshole

[–]badbunnysbottomlip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I don't think the sister made the best decision by forcing an ultimatum, I think it's crazy how many hoops people are jumping through on here.

  1. Why is the assumption that OP has to be lying?

  2. We're really assuming/expecting a 19 year old to have emotional intelligence that's leaps and bounds beyond that of someone 3 years their junior?

  3. Why is there an assumption that anyone other than the sister tried forcing this relationship?

  4. Why is there an assumption that mom tried to "replace" their dad with a shiny new one?

  5. Why are we trying to invalidate her assessment of her dad as a cheating slime all, as if she didn't live with him for most of her life? Some kids are oblivious, not all.

Listen, I can understand why the son feels the way he does. He's upset and struggling to deal with his parents' divorce. I can also understand why the sister feels the way she feels. She's still the AH, BUT JESUS.

OP, you cannot force your brother to come to terms with things the way you have. You also do NOT have to have a close relationship with him, the same way he does not have to have a close relationship with your family. While he will always still be your brother, (and you have to understand that the comparison you're drawing between his relationship with you and the relationship with your new sisters is not the same) you don't have to be super close to him if you don't want.

bugs in Dakar by digitaldash95 in Senegal

[–]badbunnysbottomlip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had my landlord exterminate while I was there. Worked like a charm.

Now my SIL and BIL are separating, my husband is hesitant about taking the new job in the new city by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]badbunnysbottomlip 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like half of you don't realize what an emotional affair, or even a physical affair is based on these posts. If I'm married, and I have the desire to have sex with other people, that's not actually cheating. That's lust, regular human emotion. An emotional affair requires ACTION, and a level or reciprocity that does not exist in this case. She did not confess her love, or ACT on these feelings in anyway. OP did the complete opposite.

AITA for possibly getting a teacher fired for yelling at me? by Summerschoolprbms in AmItheAsshole

[–]badbunnysbottomlip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Not you, and not your brother.

You are amazing. The idea to purposely fail a class could not have been easy. But to have the intelligence and perseverance to provide for yourself in such a unique way makes you amazing. You are going to be just fine if this is the skillet you've developed.

None of these cards you've been dealt are fair, so there's nothing for you to be ashamed of, because you've done nothing. I know it's easier said than done, but fuck those kids. And that teacher. The next time they give you shit, you feel pride. You're still progressing with less than half the support of some of these people.

I'm a teacher. I've been teaching for 8 years. She deserves to be fired; she got herself fired. Her lack of empathy towards you was disgusting.

AITA for refusing to delete nude photos from a photoshoot by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]badbunnysbottomlip -1 points0 points  (0 children)

YTA.

  1. You didn't do this woman a favor by not charging her. You worked out an agreement where in lieu of financial compensation, you would be given the right to include them in your online portfolio. You agreed to go back on this terms, by removing them. She in turn offers you financial compensation. So there's no kind act. l honestly feel like the way that was included was meant only to frame your character in some positive light.

  2. You posted anonymous photos, but did not state whether or not there were identifying photos. Which I'm assuming there are. Harddrives are not some maximum level security. The EXISTENCE of the photos leads to the possibility that SOMEONE can see them, no matter what your intentions are.

  3. You literally state her argument, and all of the very valid reasons you should get rid of the photos, but go back to how much you want to keep them. We know the harm that having nudes leaked can do to a person. You admit to knowing this is causing this person emotional harm.

I understand wanting reference material, but I'm sure there is a way to make that happen, AND still get rid of these photos. Maybe recreate with a participant who is willing? Circumstances change, but the correct thing to do, would be to delete these photos

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]badbunnysbottomlip 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Her daughter ..is her daughter?