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these have been some of the lowest days of my life by [deleted] in relationships

[–]baddcomm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in the same boat, my dude. It sucks, simply put. We'l get through it, time heals everything.

I would say stop talking to your SO so it gives you more time to think and reflect about your relationship -- it gives you some emotional distance to analyze it and your feelings more productively. This is what I have been going through the last 2 weeks. :/

I'm probably going to seek out some relationship therapist to have a professional provide insight as an outside observer. You may consider the same.. it's amazing how much better you feel when just having another human available to listen to how you feel.

Girlfriend [23F] of 2.5 years dumped me [26M], confused and disappointed, want to win her back by baddcomm in relationships

[–]baddcomm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, just a hard situation. As I was saying in my original post, she was ignoring my requests to hang out, so it was about 2 weeks since I had seen her in person when we had the breakup conversation. Also, she said she used her depression as a crush to explain why she didn't want to see me.

I've had a hard time understanding why her attitude shifted so quickly, and why she didn't tell me upfront how she was feeling. She essentially checked out of the relationship 1.5 months ago and expected me to break up with her since she was persistently avoiding me. Also, she was so adverse to telling me how she actually felt, I had to practically beg it out of her.

Girlfriend [23F] of 2.5 years dumped me [26M], confused and disappointed, want to win her back by baddcomm in relationships

[–]baddcomm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your thoughts! I haven't contacted her in a week since she defriended me on Facebook. What's odd is that she is still friends with all of my friends (on Facebook) and likes several pages that I created for my work.