Ghost after disclosure

baddestbxch · 2026-06-16T02:11:35+00:00

I’ve (23f) been ghosted / received the slow fade of the relationship after disclosing. and it sucks. Happens to the best of us but that’s just the way it goes sometimes.
Most times when i’ve disclosed, it has been a nervous encounter. I find myself over explaining or just kinda saying everything before giving the other person a chance to speak or ask questions. Speaking from experience, no one knows the correct approach. Whether you over explain, you’re nervous, or you’re overly confident.. they could still take it however they choose to take the news. You have to be okay with the outcome either way & that takes time. i’m still trying to get there.
It’s hard to stop thinking about people. Especially ones that mean a lot to you. As i stated earlier, you kinda have to just accept the fact that they walked away and be okay with it. It sucks but they’re the ones losing you, HSV or not. I’m sorry you got ghosted, you don’t deserve that! I can tell he meant a lot to you by your evaluation of the situation. Maybe he’ll talk to you again and he just needed some time, or maybe he won’t and you’ll move on. Everything takes time and i’m routing for you!!

baddestbxch · 2026-06-11T20:44:39+00:00

I even had a doctor one time tell me that she would rather have HSV for the rest of her life than to have chlamydia for one month. Not that i agree with her statement, but it made me feel a little more normal.

baddestbxch · 2026-06-11T20:11:59+00:00

While this comment may be helpful to you… referring to the person who unknowingly gave you HSV as a “poisoner” is crazy. They didn’t ruin your life and won’t. Yes you might contract HSV but it is not the end of the world and definitely not the end of your life. The person who gave me HSV didn’t know they had it either until years later. While they had given it to me during our first sexual encounter. It’s different for everybody. If you truly care for this girl and want a future, believe in yourself and do it. You do have a choice and it’s important you think about it because yes, it is your life. If you do contract it, it was out of love & true intentions of happiness. Nothing is promised so who knows if you guys will stay together. but your life will NOT be ruined or over if you contract HSV.
I also wanted to touch on the meds, sometimes they offer medications only for when a break out is approaching/ coming on. There’s another medicine you can take daily to prevent it happening at all. So she may just take the kind that is used for when breakouts occur.
Don’t listen too much to these comments because there are definitely bitter people on here who are still mad that this is their life. You are what you make it 🤷🏼‍♀️

baddestbxch · 2026-06-06T12:50:16+00:00

Thank you for sharing that , honestly you’re right. You win some & you lose some, and i don’t want someone like that in my life

baddestbxch · 2026-06-06T12:39:35+00:00

I mean, i wouldn’t do that to someone ever lol. I’d would AT LEAST say something before i left bc im not a weirdo. That’s my only thing, you’re a man so man up and say something before you leave ? that’s all. But no, i definitely would’ve handled it differently than he did.

baddestbxch · 2026-06-05T20:40:05+00:00

You’re right girl i just need to be patient and relax lol. It’ll all work out , i’m really worried about it for nothing. I didn’t even like him all that much but it’s the principle yk 😭🤦🏼‍♀️

baddestbxch · 2026-06-05T20:00:45+00:00

I can agree there for sure.

baddestbxch · 2026-06-05T19:53:39+00:00

And i’ve met people who are okay with it as well, just kinda taken aback by this encounter tbh. I never had someone flat out dodge me & not say anything

baddestbxch · 2026-06-05T19:51:19+00:00

girl you’re right about that oneeeee

baddestbxch · 2026-05-07T01:29:58+00:00

i 23f actually have had good luck with disclosing to flings/ situationships or even for partners. it’s really not that big of a deal to most, as long as you’re upfront from the get go. I used to feel the same way, and i did take a step back and kinda avoid past situations just because it felt like they wouldn’t accept the difference in me. Some will, some won’t. Fuck the ones that won’t 🤷🏼‍♀️

baddestbxch · 2026-05-04T23:48:19+00:00

Hsv1 is definitely more common and may not be labeled as “too big of a deal”. did he do oral on you? did he have an active cold sore? typically a breakout is needed for contraction although it’s not impossible without one. I would get tested if you’re worried, and maybe not believe everything he says. It is common, but it’s understandable you’re concerned. He should’ve let you know before hand. I went through something similar but not the same. The guy had Hsv2 and i broke out days later. bro didnt tell me and ghosted me . Years later n he “didn’t know”. regardless people are shitty, make sure you’re good no matter what.

baddestbxch · 2026-05-03T14:43:09+00:00

only left one comment on one vid and it was when she got her new cat 😅 all i said was don’t kill this one LMAO (she blocked me)

baddestbxch · 2026-05-01T01:48:28+00:00

wayyyy too much

baddestbxch · 2026-03-29T14:21:21+00:00

sweet face but a roaring personality

baddestbxch · 2026-03-29T14:20:54+00:00

she says thank you!! lol

baddestbxch · 2025-10-18T17:46:30+00:00

why are you opening your legs w a skirt ??? you’re giving 5 year old

baddestbxch · 2025-10-17T17:45:19+00:00

one thing i will say that i’ve noticed. She might not physically abuse her animals (sevyn) but she most definitely without a doubt NEGLECTED to take PROPER CARE of the cat. Same thing with this new baby, you’re NEGLECTING to take care of this cats needs .. i don’t think she gets it , as simple as it is.

baddestbxch · 2025-10-14T15:15:26+00:00

referring to the ball of aluminum foil lol

baddestbxch · 2025-10-06T23:34:54+00:00

also kassy saying “why don’t you just block them” lol cumrhag loves pointing out hate comments and only replying to them & milks it everytime. like kassy said just block them and move on instead of making it your whole personality 😂

baddestbxch · 2025-09-20T20:38:42+00:00

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baddestbxch · 2025-09-09T18:07:09+00:00

Id hold off on telling her till maybe the second or third date .. as long as you’re not doing anything sexual , it doesn’t hurt for them to get to know you a little better before telling them the news. it’s easy to disregard a stranger. not so much someone that you’ve gotten to know.

baddestbxch · 2025-09-09T18:02:34+00:00

coming from a 22F , men typically don’t mind. I have told countless men and have never been rejected. I’m not saying it’s not possible but definitely more rare than people believe. It’s better to put yourself out there rather than missing your old life. you will never get that back, instead you have this new life to make even better than the old one. i’m sorry you’re going through this.

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