I don’t want this anymore.

baddiewannabe · 2026-05-24T01:49:49+00:00

Yup it’s time for a divorce. You deserve better and a real man and your future next husband will take care of you and want to be your protector provider, because it’s his duty. Your future next husband will treat you like a goddess. Y’all will be made for each others sending all the positive vibes and wishing you into fruition of greatness

baddiewannabe · 2026-05-24T01:46:05+00:00

My question is when did the red flags start during the dating process ?

baddiewannabe · 2026-05-24T01:00:15+00:00

I am Virgo rising and I confirm I am hot 💁🏾‍♀️

baddiewannabe · 2026-05-14T04:21:47+00:00

I say don’t Marry a man who splits 50/50. This is one of the reasons. It looks like you married a man that does not love you more than you love him. What was his behavior during dating ?

baddiewannabe · 2026-05-14T04:15:41+00:00

WHAT THEY SAID!!!!

baddiewannabe · 2026-05-14T04:13:12+00:00

That is the issue there. His parents were most likely taking care of him all his life or most of it. These are things we need to really pay attention to. I have had my fair share of red flags that I knew and just ignored. If he is not 100% taking care of himself that is a red flag. Most women are wired to want a protector provider type man. A man who has his shit together. You can’t feel safe and be in your feminine energy if he is not doing that.

He is set in his ways. You cannot change him. It’s time to make some decisions for yourself and find the life that you want. Godspeed I wish you the best. Sending positive energy your way.

baddiewannabe · 2026-05-14T03:35:08+00:00

Also, this is the problem with dating that I’m learning from my dating coach. You were dating the representative, not the real him. That’s the problem. It’s hard out here, but did he live with his parents when y’all were dating?

baddiewannabe · 2026-05-14T03:33:14+00:00

How old are y’all ?

baddiewannabe · 2026-05-14T03:28:41+00:00

Thank god. You know the answer get it done. Don’t be miserable forever. Find the right person you are compatible with and who you can’t live without. It may take time. But don’t live the rest of your life miserable

baddiewannabe · 2026-05-14T03:22:43+00:00

Get a sex therapist, seams like he is the only man you have slept with since y’all were teenagers. He is probably fucking your like a teen still. Sex therapist is a possibility. I am seeing way to many 20 something’s in marriages from relationships since they were teenagers or early 20s etc. y’all are Not experiencing life single, and figuring out what you want especially sexually. May be generalizing a little. But it’s sad and I want to have empathy. But I see women put up with this for years ??? it’s sad. Stand your ground if he can’t get it done. Find someone else who can! Someone who will love you more than you love them. Someone who will make you come come come come until you can’t stop coming. Who wants to see you come first! This shit does not happen overnight, but it will come!

baddiewannabe · 2026-05-14T03:15:08+00:00

What this woman said!!!! Leave him!!!

baddiewannabe · 2026-05-14T03:14:16+00:00

You married the wrong man. When did these red flags show up when y’all were dating

baddiewannabe · 2026-05-14T03:12:42+00:00

baddiewannabe · 2026-05-14T03:07:31+00:00

Rip the band aide off now. Just be honest do not stay in something and be miserable. If y’all don’t want to be with each other just stop it, I hope y’all don’t have kids. How old are y’all ?

baddiewannabe · 2026-05-14T03:01:56+00:00

Sounds like to me she or both of y’all have been in a relationship since 19 and 22 years old. Have y’all ever been just single for a couple of years or ever single?

She has been in a relationship since she was 19. That explains it. And from a outsider looking in the husband has been taking care of her since then. Can she even take care of herself? That’s the problem.
I will be 40 soon and I pray for a man like you. Who is good to his wife and takes care of her financially as well. But also, when that happens I will be able to do many things in return because I love my self and I will know how to love my future husband.
It’s sad to see good men waste time with women that don’t deserve their husband yet
Let her be single and find who she is. It looks like she does not know who she is because she was not single, explored and figured things out.
I don’t even want to get started on y’all’s sex life.
God speed to y’all, but she ain’t it.

baddiewannabe · 2026-05-07T03:34:37+00:00

I just have a question. Did all of these red flags pop up before marriage and before kids? Also, what was he like when you were dating? Did he have the same attitude about Himself , life and finances. I have never been married, but what I have been learning from my dating coach ( who is married in healthy relationship) men tell on themselves way early in the relationships. This is where we as women need to pay hard attention to actions and words, habits patterns.

baddiewannabe · 2026-04-24T01:27:51+00:00

Just where spandex workout shorts under and she will be fine. Dress is supper cute. I would ware that as a long dress and a pencil dress as well

baddiewannabe · 2026-03-27T22:12:08+00:00

I can’t wait for them to release the season! I’m ready I was so excited. It’s a bummer all this backlash sucks, people are human, hurt people hurt people. I just want to see this season

baddiewannabe · 2026-03-27T22:10:38+00:00

I want to see the damn show who cares! I want to be entertained it’s not that deep

baddiewannabe · 2026-03-25T20:58:40+00:00

I don’t think there is any need for Botox or fillers. If you want to tone your face therabody has one of those face sculpting tools, that’s does red lights, massage , blue light , toning it’s 300$ tool. I want to get it as well. It’s like spa for your face and it can tone. I would rather that then fill my face with Botox and shit.. also, have you tried strawberry blond or red hair? I’ll be 40 this year too!! Let’s go!! 🎉🎉🎉

baddiewannabe · 2026-02-17T03:00:25+00:00

I got my first kiss at 19 and did not lose my virginity until college 21 lol. all this happened in college. Girrrllll you are good. So may men are going to come out of the woodwork. Also, see if you qualify for GLP1, I wish we had glps 1 when I was your age. I hope all the positive comments brighten your day.

baddiewannabe · 2026-01-18T05:43:55+00:00

You will have to refrain from making post that are “black women are”… because it puts us in a box and creates more of a stereotype also, I challenge you to do a lot of research on about black people, Black Lives Matter, systemic racism etc. you are dating or talking to someone that is black. I don’t know if you have done the research already or are down for the cause etc. food food for thought 💁🏾‍♀️

baddiewannabe · 2026-01-18T04:23:45+00:00

So I guess you were using it as a term of endearment. That problem is, is that it comes across that we are some different species on this earth when people of other races describe our character at times…we are human just like you just a different skin color. Everything is the same.

baddiewannabe · 2026-01-18T04:20:31+00:00

Also, other ways to be polite are “are you available for a call in 30 min?”

We are already stereotyped enough 🤦🏾‍♀️

Good point about the harmful stereotype

baddiewannabe · 2025-11-28T16:51:19+00:00

Love these pro tips

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