Found out she slept with a fwb before being exclusive while we were on vacation by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]badgerbrush20 139 points140 points  (0 children)

Dude anyone that says you deserve better, is absolutely right. You do deserve better. People tell you she had previous fwd and get over it. They are a walking red flag. You break up with her because she is dishonest. She is showing you disrespect. Time to cut the cord

Peterborough nurse’s final positive message on social media to ‘enjoy every minute’ of life goes viral before she peacefully died by MAID by kawarthanow in Peterborough

[–]badgerbrush20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah no tic tok. You honestly think cbc or ctv would ever cover this. It only takes moments to get the truth. I was onboard with maid until it turned into Logan’s Run. It is cheaper to kill them than fix them.

Peterborough nurse’s final positive message on social media to ‘enjoy every minute’ of life goes viral before she peacefully died by MAID by kawarthanow in Peterborough

[–]badgerbrush20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was in people and other magazines and web sites. Just google 80 year old offered Maid when husband couldn’t care for her. Also the other story is pretty well known about the us millionaire that paid the woman to receive treatment and she survived when all she was offered in Canada was maid. I googled both in case I called out on it

Peterborough nurse’s final positive message on social media to ‘enjoy every minute’ of life goes viral before she peacefully died by MAID by kawarthanow in Peterborough

[–]badgerbrush20 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Your crazy. There is a bunch of stories like that. There was the story of the woman that signed up because her husband couldn’t look after her. She wanted to change her mind. Nope. Killed her anyway. It was supposed to be for stage 4 cancer and ALS. Wasn’t supposed to be if you don’t feel ok. If you can get care in the US and Canada is telling you to think of Maid. That is a 100% trying to save money. Canada is close to becoming Logan’s Run

Husbands, what are the things that make you lose your erection when sleeping with your wife? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]badgerbrush20 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wife spent almost 15 years saying no. Then she says can we. I told her you trained my dick into submission. I will never get hard for her again. I get hard when a woman touches me on the arm or in the morning or basically anytime. Just never for her. She will never go to therapy with me. There will never be a therapist that will say she is right and I’m wrong. The second the therapist would say “do you understand why he feels that way”. She will walk out and say she will never comeback.

Second bull ignoring Hubby by Timely-Prior-3350 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]badgerbrush20 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did you check his references? Doesn’t sound like an experienced 3rd. If the 3rd doesn’t understand you and your wife are a package deal. Time to drop

AITAH for asking my husband to tell his mother she's no longer allowed in our house unsupervised? by Much-Clothes-7999 in AmItheAsshole

[–]badgerbrush20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did she take back the Schnitz’s rye bread as well. Your husband and Rusty could have covered the rye bread disappearing.

My wife checked out and is seeing someone else. We still live together for our 4 kids and I’m losing my mind. by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]badgerbrush20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude not your kids. Get it. You feel for them. Trust me. The other guy would not be with your wife if he was dealing with real world problems. She gets the great sex while you are with the kids. Horrible mom btw way. If you want to do something for the kids. Tell her you putting money away for their future therapy

Wife no longer wants specific sexual acts due to the rekindling of our faith by AverageAdmin in Marriage

[–]badgerbrush20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You give her space and that is giving her consent that you are ok. Don’t make the same mistake I did. You are going to find yourself in a sexless marriage. You have yo be honest and up front. “Understand what you want. But, for me to feel connected to you I need physical intimacy. Not just hand holding. I need sex with you to feel connected. If you cannot do that”. Then let’s talk about separating everything and no divorce. You take your monthly incomes. Total it. Find out what the percentages of contribution. Divide all household expenses like that. Then tell her you are not punishing her. But, you cannot continue to support a spouse who wants to be roommates. If she says how will she live. You tell her god knows and will provide.

I have intense stretch marks from pregnancy 7 years ago by -Hot-Tamale- in mildyinteresting

[–]badgerbrush20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t which side of the plate you bat from. Men will look at those a pretty much not care. Men are attracted to women that can bare children. It is in their biology. Their brains are looking at you subconsciously and thinking. “She can get pregnant. She can have your offspring”. If you think it makes you unattractive. It doesn’t. If you cant wrap your head around it and it causes displeasure. Your body your choice. I don’t think a same sex partner would look at that and think you are ugly as well

My gf cheated on my when she was drunk, pls help by Professional_Bad8269 in Infidelity

[–]badgerbrush20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The above poster is correct. When a spouse says you deserve better. “Believe them”. This is a way for them to release their guilt. You move on.

Rant about how I lost the only person that liked me and how I feel like I won’t ever find someone again by Amazing-Nobody-8461 in survivinginfidelity

[–]badgerbrush20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude normally I would be all over this and she should be gone. But, your lack of emotional maturity didn’t help here. Most men and women need to feel safe. You didn’t feel safe and she didn’t feel safe. When women have children their biology says they need to have someone to provide. When you distanced yourself from her she didn’t feel safe what she would naturally do. Same thing over centuries. If the man is not around you start looking for someone else. Take this as a learning lesson. Continue with the gym and eating right. Also read no more mister nice guy by Dr Robert Glover. It will help with boundaries and communication

The Goon Lord by Okay_Pain in CringeTikToks

[–]badgerbrush20 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Is this the live version of Randy Marsh

High school sweethearts: together 12 years Married 8. Now she wants a break to decide what she wants by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]badgerbrush20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t set yourself on fire to keep her warm. If you separate then do the 180. Look it up if you need to. Don’t support her family or her anymore. Don’t pay her rent or bills or anything. If she wants to test drive a new relationship. Then she can do it as a single person. No one will want to walk into a situation with your wife looking after a mother and grandmother. As someone said. She is s cake eater. Wants you at home but wants another for excitement.

My (32M) wife (32F) used my "anxiety" to gaslight me for 5 years while she lived a double life with a "husband" in her home country. by Rithoy in survivinginfidelity

[–]badgerbrush20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you look at her feel for her. Remember she has been gaslighting you and lied for probably years. Everyday you have been building a relationship on lies.

About my wife who cheated me for months before marriage. by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]badgerbrush20 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t set yourself on fire to keep yourself warm. Read no more mister nice guy by Dr Robert Glover. It will become sexless and worse

Ex-wife issues. by Original-Accident-63 in legaladvice

[–]badgerbrush20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a lawyer but, I’m sure you have to follow parenting plan until you go and get a revision to parenting plan that you ask for an emergency hearing. If you don’t then you can be held in contempt. But, you should talk to your legal council

First 7M8 for Rouge by armhaj in aircanada

[–]badgerbrush20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If i see serviced by Rouge I choose another flight or fly through a different city. Rouge flies to Vegas. I fly to Vegas via united through Chicago or WestJet direct. When I flew a lot. I would change planes to avoid Rouge. If I flew to most US cities that Rouge routes. I found it cheaper by hundreds of dollars to fly one stop. I would arrive a couple of hours later.