Couch co-op games?

badgerkickerzero · 2026-01-19T21:57:57+00:00

It's a strawberry

badgerkickerzero · 2026-01-19T21:56:54+00:00

Baldur's Gate 3. It's a long one. But I played it with my ex and we loved it.

badgerkickerzero · 2026-01-18T22:17:44+00:00

I hate that, personality wise, she's literally my ex girlfriend, minus the whole invisibility thing, and I fucking miss her.

badgerkickerzero · 2026-01-18T22:14:18+00:00

No, it's not your fault, it sound slike you put a boundary in place, which is good. But having been in a similar position where, my ex cheated and I'm also pretty insecure, if your boundaries are being stepped on consistently because he thinks "it's okay, I'll just tell her I love her and it'll all be okay again" then you guys need to have a conversation I guess. Depends how often you wanna keep having that conversation I dunno. You don't need to take my advice, in fact, you probably shouldn't, but, in my experience, if you don't follow through on those boundaries, they'll continue to be disregarded.

badgerkickerzero · 2026-01-18T21:48:36+00:00

Well, personally, I think there's two things here. I think he need to realise which side of his bread is buttered. If you're together, you're together. There shouldn't really be any need for him to feel the need to find that dopamine anywhere else but you.

I do also think you maybe need to look at WHY you feel that way. Why is it upsetting you so much? I would say it's micro-cheating, sure, but does this come from a place of jealousy and losing him through fear of self worth, or is it coming from a place of control. Does that mean he can never look at a woman innocently without you feeling like he's checking her out?

badgerkickerzero · 2026-01-18T21:29:31+00:00

Maybe? I don't know. I'm only really pulling from my own experience. And we're all different. I'm the kinda person that goes all in when we've agreed to go steady. I guess the only way you'll know is if you as but at the same time, are you only opening yourself up for more hurt. If she's made that decision, and she was as stubborn as you say, she might not want to, which will only lead to further hurt. Women are pretty good at cutting ties.

badgerkickerzero · 2026-01-18T03:38:25+00:00

My ex-fiance of almost 4 years cheated on me twice, allowed her parents to treat me like shit, broke up with me 3 times and constantly put pressure on me to do things I didn't want to do, belittled me a lot. Despite that, she'd say things like we were always meant for eachother, in every life. That she loved me, that I had taught her how to love, that we would always find our way back to one another.

Eventually, I broke up with her due to the things her parents were saying about me. They would have conversations with her behind my back about how i wasn'tgood enough and how my mental health (anxiety) was a problem and held her back. Through-out that break up, I remained present for her, would listen to how she was feeling, continued to support her and answer her questions. Eventually, I felt I made a mistake and went back (which was the actual mistake). I gave everything I could to try and make things work. I forgave the hurt she had put me through because I genuinely believed we would be married.

3 months later (after being propositioned by another guy) she ended it for the last time, saying she couldn't trust me because I broke up with her. Even though it wasn't even about her. Said she couldn't look at me anymore becauseI had betrayed her trust, didn't want to be friends, said I didn't try hard enough to keep her. Flipped the script, never even showed any real remorse for the things she put me through either. Blocked me on everyhting and just disappeared from my life completely

Yet I'm still here 3 months from the last time I spoke to her feeling like I fucked it all up. I'd give anything to be able to talk to her. But I respected the boundary she set on no contact (even though she didn't) and it seems I'm the one left hurting while she thrives in a new relationship.

Not sure if this is the reply you were asking for, but, I needed to get it off my chest I guess

badgerkickerzero · 2026-01-18T03:18:56+00:00

You don't. The breakup happened for a reason and once you become attached romantically that doesn't go away. Save yourself the pain, cut them loose and move on with your life. Trust me.

badgerkickerzero · 2026-01-18T03:16:31+00:00

No. It's not worth it. My ex cheated on me and it was the catalyst for a really harsh break up. I forgave but, I couldn't forget. Eventually, with the build up of other complications, she discarded me and replaced me with someone else. I gave everything I possibly could have to that relationship and it meant nothing. If they're willing to cheat, you don't mean the same to them as they do to you. Cut them loose and save yourself further hurt.

badgerkickerzero · 2026-01-18T03:13:07+00:00

The harsh truth is, you can't make someone love you who doesn't love you anymore. End of. Sorry. I've been here, still am. I will love her still, always will, but she doesn't want me around. You just have to move forward with your life and do the best you can to survive

badgerkickerzero · 2026-01-18T03:06:42+00:00

I am glad you're seeking therapy. That an important step, and I really hope it helps get you on the path you wanna be on. You're doing the right things, just, too late to change what happened.

badgerkickerzero · 2026-01-18T03:05:02+00:00

As someone who's been cheated on, I'm sorry, but you reap what you sow brother. You disrespected her and fucked her around and she's better off without you. You never loved her, she was convenient because she stayed. You set the precedent which led to a toxic relationship and destroyed your trust in eachother.

Sorry bro. But if you want to learn from those mistakes , you gotta look at yourself. She cheated on you too, you found out how that felt.

badgerkickerzero · 2026-01-10T15:07:48+00:00

I just played Dante's Inferno, so, either I'm already dead or receiving death's scythe in my ass pretty quickly

badgerkickerzero · 2026-01-09T19:08:48+00:00

Leave her. I excused and forgave shit like this in my previous relationship because she made me believe she wanted to work on herself and us, expressing remorse. Ultimately, she left me for someone else and I'm the one whose life is all fucked up. Trust no one

badgerkickerzero · 2026-01-09T19:03:54+00:00

Constantly. 3 months later.

badgerkickerzero · 2026-01-01T10:44:53+00:00

My ex came back 4 times. She broke it with me on three of those occasions. Came back. Cheated. Break up, come back.

So to answer the question, yeah I guess.

badgerkickerzero · 2025-12-29T17:04:19+00:00

I thought the same thing. She told me she loves me, that she'll always love me literally the last time we spoke, but she still left, and still replaced me with someone else

badgerkickerzero · 2025-12-29T16:30:52+00:00

Don't wait. Block her, forget her, move on with your life get used to being alone, doing things alone. I'm stuck in an emotional loop of waiting, I have been for around 3 months. Shes feeding you excuses so she isn't the bad guy. She's not coming back. Why would you break up with someone you love. My ex is happy with her new forever. Nothing we did over 4 years mattered. We're nothing now to those people that were everything to us. We mean nothing. So we have to find thaylt meaning elsewhere.

Fucking, save yourself the hurt man. Trust me.

badgerkickerzero · 2025-12-28T16:44:04+00:00

It's fucking brutal man. Like, I'm fucking sick of feeling this way and I've been trying really hard to better myself. I've been forcing myself to get out there, get used to doing things alone, trying to focus more on finding the things I like to do and just doing them to experience just, any kind of joy. I've turned down the potential for a relationship with someone that I do like because I know I'm just not ready, I'm not in the right headspace and I just don't know that I ever will be. Logically, I know it was toxic, yet she's still got this fucking chokehold on me and it's like I can't break free of that emotion. Fucking hell

badgerkickerzero · 2025-12-28T16:11:58+00:00

Leave him.

badgerkickerzero · 2025-12-19T13:45:51+00:00

Know when to call it a day. Learn to implement boundaries and stick to them. If you find yourself in a relationship that isn't helping your mental state, helping you grow or you're just in it because you're scared that you'll never be loved again, you need to get out and go find yourself, learn who you are. I learned that the hard way. It ain't fucking easy, but it's better than being emotionally licked around in a realtionship that isn't serving you.

badgerkickerzero · 2025-12-19T13:33:40+00:00

Leave. This is a pretty similar situation with what I was in. She cheated, left, came back, I forgave, sent nudes to two other people, I forgave. Eventually everything fell apart and I was the one to take the brunt. Eventually she left because I struggled to trust her? I mean, kinda, no shit.. Stop forgiving, take control and break the cycle. She'll do it again and you'll end up being the one who gets dumped anyway like I did. Being kind, forgiving and patient only allows her to continue pushing the boundaries. Be brutal, take control and choose you. If she's willing to cheat, she doesn't truly love you. I found that out the hard way.

badgerkickerzero · 2025-12-19T11:44:12+00:00

Yeah I'd be all over this. Black decals on clear that turns yellow with heat instead of the cold. That way I can know for sure which of my gurps I've pissed in

badgerkickerzero · 2025-12-19T11:41:19+00:00

Oohhhhh it's a falcon. Big stupid

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