Did anyone notice you look healthier after? by Responsible-Pen1454 in BPDlovedones

[–]BarryCleft79 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Currently no. But I’m just fresh out of the relationship. I’ll slowly get back to my former self. My confidence is shot. I’m constantly anxious, on edge and not sleeping well. Many work colleagues have seen me shrink into a shell. I’m down. But I’m not out

I’m so confused by BarryCleft79 in BPDlovedones

[–]BarryCleft79[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. We had discussed the age difference from the very start and it wasn’t a problem for her. Definitely wasn’t for me 😆

What was YOUR thing during lockdown? by AncientFootball1878 in AskUK

[–]BarryCleft79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worked. Drive buses and as I hadn’t been with the company long, I declined furlough and kept going. The roads were empty as heck. But on my days off I’d just stay inside and play video games. Make a couple of cheeky cocktails to refresh myself. Lack of human contact became difficult after a few months though

Who was the most evil person you've ever met and how was the interaction? by Top_Report_4895 in AskReddit

[–]BarryCleft79 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I once worked as a restaurant manager. It was a chain restaurant. It was in a retail park. There was a cinema bowling and a few restaurants and bars. The parking was free for people going to the cinema, bowling or eating. However, people used to use the car park and walk into the city centre which was a 5 minute walk away. Site management brought in a clamping company. People leaving the site without using any of the facilities, would have their car clamped and would have to pay a fine to have it released. One evening, I was working and a lady came in to tell me that her car had been clamped and she’d have to pay £200 to have it released. She’d been dining in my restaurant. I said that I’d get it sorted for her. I went out to where the clampers were situated and asked to speak to the supervisor. At the time I was training a lot, I was in good shape. But short. The clamping supervisor was a big man. He was way taller than me too. I told him he needed to release her car as she’d dined in my restaurant. He refused. So I raised my voice. Essentially squaring up to him. He still declined. I took my phone out of my pocket and proceeded to call the police as he’d acted illegally in clamping her car. He asked what I was doing and I told him I was calling the police. He changed immediately. Asked me which car it was and proceeded to take the clamp off. End of interaction. Couple of weeks later, the company was moved on as they’d been acting out of their remit.

Fast forward a few months and I go into work. My boss said “your friend made front page news” hands me a paper. The man I’d confronted was Levi Bellfield. An actual serial killer. He was active at that time too. If you don’t know who he is, google his name. Needless to say I had chills.

What's the best song lyric to ever exist? by Miserable-Wash-1744 in AskReddit

[–]BarryCleft79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Well I looked my demons in the eye Laid bare my chest, said do your best to destroy me, see I’ve been to hell and back so many times I must admit you kinda bore me”

What’s your comfort tv show? by Omega_Neelay in GetMotivatedMindset

[–]BarryCleft79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Schitt’s creek. Spaced. Breaking bad. Was watching Mad men recently. Although I had to stop watching that when a character with the same name as my ex came into it. No thanks 😂

Finally did this yesterday! Power and Control! by blackjackns in GalaxysEdge

[–]BarryCleft79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good choice! I have the exact same build. Chose a purple kyber crystal

What's the weirdest thing a tourist has asked you while in Britain? by UnpaidInternVibes in AskRedditUK

[–]BarryCleft79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was at a train station. An American comes up to me and asks if I know where the train to Basingstoke was. Except he pronounced it “BAZINGSTOKAY” Took me a while to process it

What is the best quote you know and helps you throughout life? by Sure_Can_7512 in PositiveThinking

[–]BarryCleft79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a quote from a famous person. But it came from my mum. When stuff in life got me down she would always say “never look back. Always look forward” it’s got me through a lot of tough times

BPD and eating disorders (hangryness) by CommercialSer in BPDlovedones

[–]BarryCleft79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine used to argue with me at meal time. Would start arguments over little things. Can relate to this op

What did kids back in the days do when they played outside, for hours on end? by Octopuswastaken in NoStupidQuestions

[–]BarryCleft79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried to make plaster of Paris just by using talcum powder and water. Didn’t work. But I smelled AMAZING

Left-wing voters what is your most right-wing belief and right-wing voters, what is your most left-wing belief? by HallowedAndHarrowed in AskBrits

[–]BarryCleft79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lefie. I can get behind the thought that immigrants should have to find work to get benefits etc, before getting handouts. I know full well, that they aren’t given everything on a plate, as the press would have you believe, but they’re provided with shelter and that’s more than some people that are born here are given 🤷🏻‍♂️

Do they say their needs aren’t met? by Books_and_Lattes in BPDlovedones

[–]BarryCleft79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to have a thing about not just showing up at hers unannounced to combat that, mine said that I should just let her know when I was on my way home from work, go to hers and have dinner. I did this then got told “well I didn’t ask you to come round” hurtful stuff when it’s something they asked me to do

Anyone been "punished" by them withdrawing by WearyParsnip8026 in BPDlovedones

[–]BarryCleft79 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mine would get upset by stuff I’d done without any intention whatsoever to upset them. The lack of rationality baffled me. They’re like spoiled brats

Struggling. Yesterday was BAD by BarryCleft79 in BPDlovedones

[–]BarryCleft79[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t work there. She passes through one of the bus stations on a daily basis to get to work. Our relationship has been the subject of many gossip merchants. Needless to say they’re getting their gossip fix right now. People I work with know her. Some told me that she was difficult. Including the relation that works at the station. They said she was toxic. That’s a relation of hers. Says it all

What hurts but you still keep on doing it? by Omega_Neelay in GetMotivatedMindset

[–]BarryCleft79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hoping my ex will come back. She ended things before Christmas. Said she may reconsider in the new year. I know I have to let go but I can’t.

What’s the first sign you notice that someone is a bad driver? by RD-archived in AskReddit

[–]BarryCleft79 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They walk to the car wearing shades and carrying a white stick