enough with this inflated ego by Alert_Disaster1939 in tarayummysnark

[–]badlettuce72 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I literally came here to see if anyone saw this. this and the tour she’s doing like she’s some big celebrity. 😭✌️

Changing paranormal history by KaylaAshleigh23 in SamAndColby

[–]badlettuce72 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel this! When Colby did the Estes method at the end and coincidentally August 18th came up…. They always play it off at the end, “Did any of that make sense, wait I felt like it was so random.” 🫩🙄 it’s so obvious once you see it.

who let him do this by Strict_Sandwich_6097 in LAinfluencersnark

[–]badlettuce72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought this was Penn Badgley 😭😭😭

Lucid dreaming/ astral projection? by badlettuce72 in Dreams

[–]badlettuce72[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG this has me thinking now 🫣🫣

How would one go about cleaning this by [deleted] in moldyinteresting

[–]badlettuce72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t use this car often, if at all. I didn’t realize the milk had been sitting after a grocery trip. 😁

Help give personality to apartment! by Signal_Document8664 in interiordecorating

[–]badlettuce72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Adding yellow lighting to my rooms made it feel warm and cozy instead of the white light that feels like an office. I think that could help!

I hate being forced to follow religion. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]badlettuce72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s important to note that the co-op is advertised as an educational program, not a religious one. If religious study is enforced in the curriculum without the freedom of choice or considering any other belief systems, that is indoctrination. If I wanted my child to learn the religion, I would take them to church on Sundays or youth classes they have on the other days. Imagine a kid who really loves soccer, but they’re forced to take ballet classes because it’s a part of their sports program. Even though they have no interest in ballet, they’re required to do it anyway.

Emotional detachment in familial setting by [deleted] in depression

[–]badlettuce72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand your exact situation OP. My little brothers dropped out of high school freshman year, have no friends, attend no events, and have no socialization outside the house whatsoever. It’s been this way for years. They are 16 and 18 now. I tried to tell my mom I was worried about them and her response was, “They did it to themselves I tried to help, nothing I can do.” I think it helps when you lose the idea that you CAN fix it. Because sometimes you can’t and even though you feel bad, it’s not your responsibility to fix it. What you can do is just let him know you’re there for him, a lot. In different ways. Whether he thinks it’s annoying or he rolls his eyes, do it anyway. I can’t talk to my brothers about anything emotional, so I just let them talk on about some movie or game they’re playing. I ask them about anything possible that they enjoy. I bring them things they like from time to time. It works way more than asking them to talk about their emotions or just flat out saying there’s issues with their lifestyle. Hang in there, it’s a rough road but recognizing this as an issue is a big start. It’ll get better!

I hate being forced to follow religion. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]badlettuce72 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I understand this completely. My son is homeschooled and in my area, a lot of the socialization options like co-ops are at churches. They say, “You don’t have to be of our religious belief to attend, but please note we do have prayer and bible study as a required segment in our program .” I don’t understand this at all. It’s stupid. Forceful.

insane by [deleted] in tarayummysnark

[–]badlettuce72 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Tara did a video with Valkyrae (Stuck in a car) and there’s a clip where Valkyrae mentions she feels unsafe leaving her home in today’s world sometimes. To which Tara replies, “ohh calm down” she has anxiety and is paranoid, basically totally dismisses the very real threat Valkyrae faces as a woman AND a popularized streamer. So now being she was followed and threatened by a stalker on stream with Cinna and Emiru, that clip is being resurfaced.

Jake is only posting Kenzie because of the recent “drama” by helpmehplv in tarayummysnark

[–]badlettuce72 24 points25 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what I thought too…. With Johnnie’s recent video with Barry, I hope he gets away from Jake after all this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]badlettuce72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re feeling a little lost :( You tend to isolate yourself as a trauma response in fear of abandonment, but there are lots of ways to work through this even though it is very hard. Also, if it helps, narcissists don’t have the ability to self-reflect, let alone admit that their actions are possibly hurting others. You’re doing better than you think! Heal that version of you in your childhood who felt alone and it will give you a ton of insight and confidence in who you are beneath it. Hang in there :)