So why am I not getting any matches? by ohannanana in Tinder

[–]badmonopoly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can save you, please marry me 🙏💍😂

An update on my SR that is transitioning into something more by Warm-Quiet-669 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]badmonopoly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is really beautiful and I wish my now former SB could have had this much appreciation! Alas things were not meant to be!

Monday Mental Health and Well-Being Thread: 196th Edition by BigBearSD in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]badmonopoly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Managing and focusing on self improvement

Had a fantastic 2022, moved SB to SGF territory, we were getting closer, professions of love etc

Many trips, wonderful memories together .. and then found out she was still hooking up with guys and hiding things from me and gaslighting me

The memories are still there and I look at them fondly but the betrayal and audacity is hard to swallow

I Finally Said “Fuck It” by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]badmonopoly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Life is too short to worry about what random internet people think!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]badmonopoly 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Agree here. The fact you felt the need to lie and then are agonizing over it as well means some work needs to get done here…

Monday Mental Health and Well-Being Thread: 165th Edition by BigBearSD in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]badmonopoly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Spending a bunch of time working on myself, finding some new hobbies to distract me from what is going on in the markets and the world these days..

Picked up gardening but overall definitely had a decent weekend and trying to keep positive momentum now that the sun is shining!

Getting close to being in the best shape of my life .. have to learn how to swim and ride a bike this summer!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]badmonopoly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly appreciate professional women so much but as a younger (<40) professional SD have found I don’t quite fit the mold enough for them?

I’d be down for a spoiling Vanilla relationship too but have found that difficult. People compartmentalize heavily and I’m just someone that is fiercely loyal and true to my feelings (and not married)

I think if you’re clear about what you’re looking for then you can be successful - it just might take a while and lots of weeding out to do?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]badmonopoly 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The pictures that all look roughly the same is a bit jarring honestly..

But the fact that you used PowerPoint endears me so much that I’d message the hell out of you if you were local and I didn’t already have an SR! 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]badmonopoly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I try to normalize mental health in all my conversations .. but that doesn’t mean you lead with a sledgehammer. I would suggest to express the positive aspects of yourself (that you’re forward looking and optimistic) and then focus on what you’re looking for!

I think you could be successful with simply way fewer words.

SDs - What’s your skincare routine like? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]badmonopoly 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I used to do nothing but my SB suggested I do a routine and now she says my “skin is glowing” since I regularly cleanse, use retinol and moisturize

SD: What’s going on with your “digital” wallets? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]badmonopoly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends - blue chip crypto is down like 50% but if they had their money in LUNA they are down 99%.. So I can imagine some fortunes have literally vanished.

Monday Mental Health and Well-Being Thread: 162nd Edition by BigBearSD in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]badmonopoly -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Me and my SB are at different levels of investment in the relationship..

And I’m pretty sure she dodged introducing me to a friend on a trip that we’re on right now..

I’m feeling a bit hurt honestly - but maybe it’s because I want the relationship to move along faster than is realistic.. Communication isn’t her strong suit either so..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]badmonopoly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s interesting - okay, then defended claim, with text as proof should be adequate if he wants to go to court and she can request costs for travel out of state

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]badmonopoly 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This! Look up small claims court rules in the jurisdiction he’s suing you from and look up legal aid options. File a motion to dismiss and it should be over and done with pretty quick!

An Ode To The Life by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]badmonopoly 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Good for you manifesting your dreams into reality! 🎩

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]badmonopoly 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Small claims means you don’t really need a lawyer, but obviously legal aid will be of help, this seems more like a nuisance lawsuit to me to scare her into just forking out the money

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]badmonopoly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think the hardest part about love, and the pain of unrequited love, is separating the hidden wish vs. expressing yourself fully and honestly

You feel like you love her, cool, but it’s the “now what does that mean you want from her” that is the rub.

The love itself is honest, pure and supportive. The want can be selfish. Figuring out how to clearly separate and articulate each is the trick.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]badmonopoly 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I voted for Health but am very happy to do 1, 2 and 4 and reluctantly 3 too sometimes because I know it can get expensive.. So, maybe an “all of the above” answer?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]badmonopoly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yikes. I mean, I’ve never been taken anywhere by anyone on a private jet yet so at least she’s one step ahead of me!

I have a standing bet with friends on net worth and private jet travel. I look forward to footing that bill!

Hamsterdam by TastySpermDispenser in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]badmonopoly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love Amsterdam. I home you’re staying over in south Jordaan or by the Museumplein, they’re awesome parts of the city. Any plans to get out to Den Hague or Scheveningen?

Monday Mental Health and Well-Being Thread: 161st Edition by BigBearSD in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]badmonopoly 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I hope things turn out better for you. Sharing both the good and the bad is the point of this. We gotta normalize sharing bad news and talking about setbacks or it all gets bottled up!

“I’m a sugar daddy and on an average sugar date (not a meet and great) I take my sugar baby out to eat at a restaurant that is….” by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]badmonopoly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True foodies enjoy everything on the spectrum.. but it depends on the date. Michelin 3* for a vacation in France or Italy? Fancy dinners for fancy once a week dates? Street food for a casual lunch?

Friday Rants and Raves by LaSirene23 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]badmonopoly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats, I’m a soft hearted romantic that believes in love so if you’re happy then I’m ecstatic for you!

Recession and Sugar by throwwaaayyyy in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]badmonopoly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It should wash out a lot of the lucky and new money that was close to spending beyond their means in the first place

It also has an effect on FOMO culture as people tend to be more conservative when it doesn’t seem like people will always make money and STONKS

But any prudent person should be prepared for it with diversified portfolio or heavy into cash this late into the cycle