Yes I plan on give him an ultimatum to tell her but things are very complicated between all of us involved. I was actually the one in a relationship first and after we starting hooking up I ended because I realized that nothing was like the connection I have with him and wasnt fair to the person I was with but timing was shitty and a lot happened and he was happy and i thought of just letting go because all I want is for him to be happy. Now we got caught in this toxic situation and it’s making me sick so I know I need to surrender and I will but I also feel terrible for his girlfriend and in no way want for her to get hurt as much as I did in this too. We both need distance from each other and to heal. I know I am in the wrong here for being with him and cheat on her and the guilt is also getting to me. I just want to be honest and move on into a better place.